Teasing! The most important ingredient!

Ok-Orange7146 · 2025-06-24T00:20:10+00:00

I love disagreeing. She says something and you reply “naaa i dont believe you”

S3nat3 · 2025-06-24T00:49:35+00:00

If you ask where they are from, what job they do, what mutual friend they know, etc:. ".... Oh. I'm so sorry to hear that". Have to deliver it like your serious but then smile and obviously be joking a after.

Or. "... You know what they say about (job occupation, people from the city they are from, their astrological sign... Etc) ...". They might challenge you on it or ask what you mean and you'll have to say something not logical back/don't explain yourself.

I also like accusing them of hitting on me, checking me out, stalking me or any sort of shit test women give men but in a flirty way. Only can do it if it seems like they are even very minorly.

Always be fun, light hearted and not serious.

Edit: another one I saw on here is if they ask if you know a tv show/movie:. "oh you mean that one with (plot) and (actors)...!?!? .... Yeah never heard of it".

ShakaPiontkowskie1 · 2025-06-24T02:22:16+00:00

I would say learn cocky-funny lines because the framing is buyer-you/seller-her, plus it has playful teasing built in. 1) over-complimenting gives your power away, cocky-funny does not 2) it's great for high-pressure situations where complimenting her might make her feel uncomfortable 3) frame is always you're the buyer, she's the seller

She asks where you're from, "so you promise you won't show up at my parents' house asking for my hand in marriage, right?! Nothing wrong with being excited, but...baby steps..." She asks you what you're up to right now, "yes, yes, I'm open to inviting you along...AS LONG as you promise to play it cool and not drool and stare too much...just be yourself..." She asks you where you live, "don't you think it's a little early to get to THAT stuff?! How 'bout we just get to know each other here for a bit..."

One specific one that I use a lot is: whether day or night game, "so you're just walking/waiting around here praying for a handsome, amazing guy to talk to...wow, someone up there is listening to you!"

YungE_Coli · 2025-06-24T10:09:11+00:00

We’re chatting about something.

Me: “My favourite A is B, what about you?

Her: “Mine is actually C”

Me: Winces, and jokingly starts walking away “Can’t be having that”

Her: Usually laughs/Asks me to come back

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-24T00:19:43+00:00

Teasing should be CREATIVE and SPONTANEOUS.

Memorizing just leads to uninspired and unoriginal "performance."

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-06-24T06:30:40+00:00

When they say where they live and it's a boring or far away part of town, I say "oh that's unfortunate". Just a classic neg

Cold-Caregiver-589 · 2025-06-24T07:48:55+00:00

Not a guy but. When you make s mistake and they call you out on it as a inside joke. Time and place plus context obviously matter so use your common sense. More over is teasing about you winning them over. One time i was talking to an autistic man, and his go to flirt was “is my autism rizz working then?” (Fyi context was i was hyper focused on autism research) It seemed sooo charming and silly that it worked well.

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-06-24T10:23:48+00:00

Just tease like how you would make fun of your friends. Usually joking around at someone's expense. Just try to lean away from teasing landmine topics, where maybe the girl has a particularly sensitivity to.

KnightsOfNaN · 2025-06-24T02:31:25+00:00

IMO teasing is all about subverting expectations in a fun way.

Currently in a LTR and about 20% of the time when my partner tells me they love me I’ll respond with “I sort of like you…sometimes” and then wink at them

J4ck1404 · 2025-06-25T08:32:00+00:00

If she asks “is it okay if I…” and makes a completely normal and inconsequential request, say absolutely not as if you’re totally offended

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-06-24T01:03:36+00:00

Here are couple examples, which I used at some point.

Please note, don’t over do it, some of them are quite mean. And it depends on your existing boundaries between her and you, so don’t cross it. And if not calibrated it will not work. Use it only if you confident they can handle it.

Blockers. For example, she wants to pass, go somewhere but you bock her way.

Denials. She wants to accomplish some task but u deny that. For example, taking her pen and not giving to her.

Physical dominance. U literally pick her up in and move to other location and then put her down.

Physical altercation. U try to fight with her like wrestling.

Inciting jealousy. Like looking at celebrity and saying she is hot.

Causing physical pain. Like butt slaps. Or hair pull.

Restraining. Similar to denial, where u deny her movement.

Dark humour. Like talking about her, or your own death.

They do sound horrendous things to do but technically are teasing and works quite well if executed correctly.

Title	Teasing! The most important ingredient!
Author	KosloveKoslovich
Upvotes	113
Comments	29
Date	June 24, 2025 12:12 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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