Good Books to read

RubenAndJavi · 2025-07-13T14:00:34+00:00

Here are some of my favorites

- The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem: 8/10. This is an extremely good source of knowledge regarding self-esteem. This topic will definitely permeate all your relationships. Having high self-esteem will naturally induce you to act high-status. And not having it will have the opposite consequence.

- The Value of Others: 8/10. This book poses a lot of good questions regarding relationships. While there's a lot of bullshit, and the author consistently uses analogies to justify his opinions, I think the quality of the questions completely outweighs the lack of accuracy of some of the answers.

- Why Women Have sex: 7.5/10. Has some very good insights, very scientific. An insane amount of relevant studies. Slightly outdated with regards with the current scientific opinions though.

- A Billion Wicked Thoughts: 7/10. A lot of very interesting points. It's a completely new perspective about attraction, so definitely a valuable read.

- The Alabaster Girl: 7/10. Very unconventional book. Some really good takes. Again, read with your bullshit detector on.

- Everyone Communicates, Few Connect: 7/10. A good start on learning how to connect with others easily.

Zotoaster · 2025-07-14T13:11:24+00:00

Can't believe nobody's mentioned "No More Mr Nice Guy" yet

burncushlikewood · 2025-07-13T06:21:38+00:00

Pandora's box - Vin DiCarlo

The attraction code - Vin DiCarlo

The game - Neil Strauss

FlowSurferFromMars · 2025-07-13T10:37:43+00:00

Real World Seduction from swingcat is one of the OG books that's a must read to learn push & pull and frames.

Visualize_ · 2025-07-13T17:19:49+00:00

Honestly all you need is Models. Go in the field and practice

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-07-13T23:53:50+00:00

How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

Verbal Judo

Never Split The Difference by Chris Voss (Negotiaton)

Crucial Conversations

Attached (Attachment styles)

Supercommunicators

Superconnectors

Mate: What Women Want by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller PhD

The Mating Mind by Geoffrey Miller PhD (Charles Darwins mate choice and sexual selection)

Evolution of Desire by David M Buss PhD

Why Women Have Sex by David M Buss and Cindy Mello

Psychology of Persuasion

LimbBisquet · 2025-07-14T02:08:41+00:00

How to get over that bitch and grow balls they can’t resist by Anthony Clark.

Iliketoeatpoop5257 · 2025-07-13T08:31:20+00:00

Self help books are bullshit mate. Instead read literature, and I mean real literature. Like Tolstoy or John Milton. Fiction and poetry. Way more helpful than reading dumb self help shit.

barlowaplesand · 2025-07-13T08:23:22+00:00

have neither of them books worked for you? can you not force attraction in girls who initially think you're not hot with the techniques in them books?

if so, more books ain't gonna help. there's no lines or technique out there that can overcome a lack of attraction.

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2025-07-13T13:28:32+00:00

Mike mehlman. All the bullshit of game ideologies should be tossed away forever. And start approaching realistically for what it really is

epimpstyle · 2025-07-13T08:52:17+00:00

You've read some books, but now, if you see a lady on the street, why don't you talk to her? Is it a lack of knowledge, or is something inside stopping you?

combori · 2025-07-13T13:20:24+00:00

The manual by W. Anton is the best book to change your mental state to the right one. After reading it everything in girls and seduction makes sense.

Title	Good Books to read
Author	Opposite0_0Banana
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Comments	28
Date	July 13, 2025 5:05 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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