I’m 100% over my ex wife. Unfortunately she’s now engaged or married (I’m not sure because I don’t care) to a man who she cheated on me with during our separation. It was a separation where I assumed we were avoiding relationships and working on ours but I was wrong.

Anyway… this guy seems nice enough but I have no interest in communicating with him. I’ve made this clear to my ex. We have very little communication outside of necessary kids stuff.

I just found out that he will be tagging along to the curriculum night at our children’s new school. This pisses me off to no end.

I was also unaware that the school had a family night last week because I didn’t get an email and my ex didn’t forward it. So of course he was able to go to the family night and become friends with a bunch of parents at the new school.

I feel like an outcast in my own children’s lives and I’m not sure how to handle that. He’s not their father and I really wish he’d stop trying to be.

I also understand that I should be thankful that a man in their lives is actually trying. It’s just hard to do that when I hold so much contempt over the fact that he helped move our separation into a divorce.

I’m also moving to the area soon but have no interest in being friends with my ex or anyone involved with her. It puts me in a really shitty situation.