Where do you meet the most older women? (late 30s to early 50s)

nighthunterrrr · 2025-09-19T22:29:19+00:00

Work

FrenchItaliano · 2025-09-19T22:35:02+00:00

High end retail stores.

NecessaryPossible976 · 2025-09-19T22:38:07+00:00

Grocery store.

Acrobatic-Show3732 · 2025-09-19T22:47:26+00:00

Luxury hotels

Comprehensive-War-34 · 2025-09-19T23:43:35+00:00

Just so you know older women aren’t necessarily easier to smash. They have way more experience than you and can smell BS from a mile away. The best places to meet them are usually lounges and supermarkets.

Kylearean · 2025-09-19T23:31:32+00:00

I will also add that hotel bars are a great option

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2025-09-19T22:57:52+00:00

Dating apps

8997Here · 2025-09-20T07:02:30+00:00

Facebook Dating

Basic85 · 2025-09-19T23:42:21+00:00

When I was in college actually, there some older women in there taking classes.

Whole_Caramel_7279 · 2025-09-20T01:44:18+00:00

Nursing home

pindarico · 2025-09-20T10:30:12+00:00

Look for bars that gather the age range. Places that play 80 and 90 music

Ivabighairy1 · 2025-09-19T23:56:58+00:00

Outside

chamcham123 · 2025-09-20T01:43:01+00:00

On the bus while standing. They will stare and grab your arm.

stick_it_in_your_bum · 2025-09-20T01:49:32+00:00

Outside

International_Cod355 · 2025-09-20T01:55:15+00:00

How do you strike up a conversation with women in Walmart??thanks. I'm 63 . Decent shape. Avg. Looks.

letsgetweird93 · 2025-09-20T02:31:13+00:00

When I was 28I befriended a group of 6 ~40 year old women going to Bingo night at an Elk’s lodge. They were all decent looking, a good hang, and they all wanted to bang me. I did end up doing the deed with 1.

No_Entrepreneur_9171 · 2025-09-20T07:58:30+00:00

dancing, tango

WhatsTheAnswerDude · 2025-09-20T00:44:21+00:00

Ay ya yi, immediately knew you were in the young side as soon as I saw the title.

Alright, here's an answer you won't like. A lot of young guys DONT have the level of depth an older woman needs or wants.

Women your age wanna talk about a LOT of shit that has NO depth whatsoever. Generally this isn't ANYTHING close to what an older woman wants....

Or as is mentioned in Jerry Maguire, there's a beautiful line between Cruise and Gooding Jr where it's said,

"They been to the circus.... theyve seen the puppet show...and all the strings."

That line is extremely relevant to dating as a whole.

https://youtu.be/SsMV3uNaTpU?si=hk0x3AYaUGPd8tX3

Basically they've seen all the bullshit and tactics and like, unless YOU at your core at like solid, and have a good head on your shoulders....and do interesting stuff.....youre NOT offering them anything new.

Also honestly man....sorry but think dressing well and like presenting a well is enough for an older woman kinda proves my point and that you're not ready to do this and your ego is showing through. An older single woman has probably already seen that vibe 1000 times already and it's nothing new.

You need to work on your DEPTH and intellectual vibes first before pursuing an older woman. Sorry but thinking you're style and what not are enough is NOT the case. The style over substance COMPLETELY loses the viability as you get older because WAY more things matter than just looks.

Sorry dude but I think you need to go back to square one and learn to be a more interesting and intellectual person over going for an older woman right now because it'll somehow mean she's more experienced.

That's absolutely NOT the case and an older woman could literally be more insecure or possibly even demand more experience from you than where you're currently at.

You need DEPTH and PRESENCE if you want to win over an older woman.

That hollow lacking any substance vibes is very generally not the vibe for older women. But certain ages you've dealt with the weight and real shit of life.

Hollow shit holds NO weight WHATSOEVER and no offense but that kinda seems like the game you're bringing.

SWIM270 · 2025-09-20T03:23:22+00:00

Do you realize that the probability that she has an STI/STD increases with age? I mean, you’re just begging for it. Have you thought about how a promiscuous 45 year old woman who was objectively ugly, even 20 years ago, had more wild crazy freaky kinky sexual experiences than you will ever see in your entire life?

Don’t touch me, old lady.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-19T23:02:38+00:00

If you cannot even locate the type of people you want to date, you are socially disabled and should seek professional help because there is no way you're going to go from not being able to find people to being able to sleep with someone in a human lifetime unassisted.

iletitshine · 2025-09-19T23:43:22+00:00

gross you’re sleazy af. older women are not easier lmfao. older women have dozens probably hundreds of men your age seeking their companionship. it’s cheap to find what you offer. you’re the easy ones. good luck!

Title	Where do you meet the most older women? (late 30s to early 50s)
Author	caamt13
Upvotes	31
Comments	40
Date	September 19, 2025 10:24 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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