I have no problem getting likes and matches on dating apps; however, whenever I’m at a bar or party, I’m usually only ever approached by women who are on the lower end of attraction for me. And this isn’t to brag or put down others, but a good bit of these women are severely overweight and I’m the complete opposite of that—I frequent the gym and am pretty lean and muscular. I have no problem approaching women; I’m just pretty confused why that’s the case in these scenes. Maybe it’s the energy I give off? Maybe I seem like an easy-going guy who will talk to whoever or maybe I seem like a guy with low self-confidence and self worth to them?