Learn behavior, don't memorize pick up lines

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-12-06T21:13:12+00:00

I agree

Live in the moment and adapt to how she acting towards you

thenuttyhazlenut · 2025-12-06T21:25:33+00:00

Each time I've gone into an interaction with planned flirtations it usually hurts things or comes off awkward or makes me more nervous.

You have to learn to be in the moment and practice being playful and flirty.

epimpstyle · 2025-12-07T10:04:08+00:00

Not everyone has the same level of social skills.

1 - if someone already has decent social skills, it’s very simple: just “go for it, bro”, there’s really nothing to explain. At this stage you don’t need to learn anything, no push‑pull, jokes, qualifying / disqualifying, frames… nothing. It all comes down to the classic phrase: “be yourself.”

2 - what if someone has weak social skills? How will such a guy learn to become social? They need guidance, specific things to do, things to say, and step‑by‑step support just to move forward. Now things get more complicated, because you need to learn a few essentials, some gambits, scripts, a few openers, certain concepts, etc... practical things "do this, do that" not "mentality".

Next time you mock “toxic PUA,” “studying,” “memorizing,” or “cold approach scripts,” don’t forget there are people in the second category, people for whom MINDSET and any other “natural” advice simply doesn’t work.

Warm_Pineapple9440 · 2025-12-06T21:13:10+00:00

I would even say that learning behaviour is not the best approach either. Of course, depends on what do you mean by these behaviours?

LayerAdventurous2917 · 2025-12-06T23:30:01+00:00

Thanks this helped a bunch

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-12-06T23:45:51+00:00

Develop your best self. Don't copy anyone else's persona. That kind of cult mentality was popular during the pua era when tons of guys dressed and talked like Mystery, Tyler Durden of Fight Club among other fictional characters. But it was wrong then and it's still wrong now.

BurnItDownSR · 2025-12-07T01:59:11+00:00

Does this still need to be said in 2025?

OP I'm agreeing with you and this is directed to others on this sub:

Mystery Method is 20 years old, The Game is 20 years old. There have been far better resources that came out in the past 20 years.

Don't just read The Game and look for the resources it mentions. Get up to date on the more current stuff.

GapObjective9107 · 2025-12-07T02:20:19+00:00

My friend needs to learn this. He watches YouTube videos about that stuff and says he can spot attraction signals instantly. Yet he has had no luck. I tried telling him to be himself.

dismalprognosis · 2025-12-06T22:52:45+00:00

Agreed. I remember when there was that one guy who made some ad where he "gave away" a tinder pick up like that was like "you're so cute but so fat" "***FAR" "omg great job (insert name here) (gif with facepalm)" and every MF online was using it

A lot of the texting behaviors I've learned from old PWF vids made my text game and flirting really good

Lola_a_l-eau · 2025-12-07T08:18:26+00:00

Those pick up lines are just examples... not something to really use

TuneSoft7119 · 2025-12-06T23:33:21+00:00

are there any books where I can memorize behavior patterns?

Kundalini_electric · 2025-12-06T21:56:24+00:00

That sounds like masking though, which I think is an autistic trait.

Glass_Disk6951 · 2025-12-06T21:52:07+00:00

This is the biggest cuck subreddit I’ve ever had the unfortunate experience of coming across. What a bunch of losers.

MountainLife888 · 2025-12-07T02:55:50+00:00

I just ran across the sub.

Damn. Get out of your heads guys. What are you doing? Learning behavior? Come on now.

Title	Learn behavior, don't memorize pick up lines
Author	bafun13
Upvotes	72
Comments	41
Date	December 6, 2025 9:10 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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