Divorce allegedly final

Confident_Ask8782 · 2026-01-26T01:47:27+00:00

Help the others who are going through this.

nerdzilla16 · 2026-01-23T02:14:39+00:00

You can stay! You’re still a divorced man! Plus, being on the other end, you can provide hope to some of us who are still in the thick. Definitely glad for you to be able to move on with your life.

ClippedWinng · 2026-01-22T21:13:26+00:00

Congrats! Don't leave! Update us on your successes and slips along the way. Reading those helped me when i first found this sub.

OctinoxateAndZinc · 2026-01-21T16:48:13+00:00

didn’t hear from my lawyer and I’ll believe it when the paperwork comes in.

If your county has a clerk of courts site you could look it up.

OctinoxateAndZinc · 2026-01-21T16:47:47+00:00

Do I have to leave the sub?

Stick around and provide advice and perspective for new folks. its what I've done.

bankofgreed · 2026-01-21T14:52:37+00:00

You graduate to the single men forum.

whydidyounot · 2026-01-21T14:45:16+00:00

Congratulations and good luck!

PghSubie · 2026-01-21T13:48:24+00:00

You should get a copy of the court order once it's filed

FirelineJake · 2026-01-21T10:04:10+00:00

You’re officially in the it’s over but I’ll believe it when I see the PDF phase. Protocol is, don’t trust texts, wait for paperwork, stay in the sub until the ink’s dry, and yes, there is an unofficial support group, it’s called rebuilding your life one oddly peaceful evening at a time.

upvotersfortruth · 2026-01-21T09:08:15+00:00

Can’t you go to the court website and look it up?

North-Permit-1021 · 2026-01-21T03:37:52+00:00

Good luck on the next step ahead

Plastic_Efficiency35 · 2026-01-21T03:03:21+00:00

Congratulations! I stayed because I believe my experience can help others.
And yes, helping my brothers! The system favors the women.

Men went from full time fathers to “pay child support” if you want to see your kids father

WhydIJoinRedditAgain · 2026-01-21T02:38:11+00:00

<strikethrough>Trust but</strikethrough> verify.

Good luck on your next steps, can’t wait to join you.

jarnock · 2026-01-21T02:35:13+00:00

Congratulations, you can stay in the sub, give advice to people. My divorce was finalized in April 2025, I give my perspective having gone through it and I’m relatively good now - little bit of anger at my ex still.

fruittidemare · 2026-01-21T02:33:43+00:00

I enjoy giving advice honestly, I feel like if anyone can learn from my experience, I’m doing the right thing. It’s not perfect but it really does get better if you can be introspective and work on yourself. Thanks guys!

DetroiterInTX · 2026-01-21T02:32:01+00:00

Congratulations. I have found the sun to be helpful in realizing no matter how bad the divorce was, someone has it worse. And the opportunity to help others know there is light ahead.

Ok-Anything-3605 · 2026-01-21T02:26:53+00:00

I don’t know what to say bc I’m new here, but stick around for a while some of us newcomers might need some advice! Good luck!

FoundationNo1696 · 2026-01-21T02:21:18+00:00

Congratulations 🎉

Title	Divorce allegedly final
Author	fruittidemare
Upvotes	21
Comments	23
Date	January 21, 2026 2:14 AM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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