We are cohabitating and I am as grey rock as I can be. But we are in different grieving stages and she is in the angry stage. She hasn’t lashed out in front of the kids yet, but she is cornering me and saying some really nasty shit.

It makes me feel horrible because I want to explain that we both wanted the divorce but because I filed she wasn’t prepared. Who is prepared for this divorce shit anyways? I hate that she can’t go grey rock herself and has to make the environment so tense.