Flashback: "Make sure you bring a binder of photos to prove to the judge that you are an active father"

Good gosh, I remember hearing those words from my lawyer...caused my ears to start ringing a bit. Still get a headache when I think about it.

I asked, "so a father that lives with his kids has to have photo evidence to prove that he is a parent?" ... her reply: Yes, it helps.

How did we get here as a society?

Anyways, about to get the kids ready for school.

To all the fathers fighting to prove to the courts that you are an "enough" parent, don't falter or lose hope. Your kids will appreciate your efforts.