Are there any people here who in their early twenties, like 19, 20, 21, were bad socially, social skills were not that good, got nervous a little bit, had only one girlfriend in high school and even zero female friends, and only had male friends in their circle. Basically a nerd type of guy mentally, not physically. They were still living at their parents’ home.

But later, after some time passed, they turned out completely different. After moving out of their home and shifting to a big city, they changed into more of a bad boy type that girls crave and are attracted to.

You know how there are some guys we call Chad. Before, they were the type of guy who somehow gets a date with a girl and after talking for months, she finally sleeps with him after six months. Whereas that same girl might sleep with a Chad within one hour of meeting him at a house party.

So I’m asking, are there any guys who were above average or slightly above average looking, living at their parents’ home in their late teens or early twenties, maybe had only one girlfriend in high school and later no girlfriend, had poor social skills and very little female interaction, but once they moved out and started living on their own, then over time changed drastically and turned from a nerd into a Chad that every woman wants?