I’ve been genuinely wondering about this, and I want real answers, not clichés.

How do men actually get with extremely attractive women, the true 9s and 10s? I’m talking about women most people don’t even see in real life. The kind you usually only see on Instagram: models and influencers with millions of followers, traveling internationally, living a very visible, high end lifestyle.

These women exist. That part is obvious. And it’s also obvious that somewhere, some men are dating them, sleeping with them, or in relationships with them. So my question is simple: what do those men actually do, and how did they get there?

How do you even meet women like this in real life? Do they exist only in certain cities, social circles, industries, or events? Are normal guys ever crossing paths with them, or is access itself the main

Do you realistically need to be a 6’4’ billionaire, 4x kickboxing world champion, a celebrity, a world class athlete, or someone with insane social status? How important are money, looks, fame, network, and lifestyle compared to actual game, confidence, and social skills?

I’m not asking this in a “the internet is fake” way. I’m not denying their existence or assuming everything is staged. I’m asking very directly: who is dating or sleeping with the influencer who has 2M, 7M, or 10M followers, and how did that guy get into her world in the first place?

And please, don’t respond with “just be yourself”, “don’t label them as 10/10”, “ don’t put them on a pedestal “ or “treat them like human beings.”I’m asking what actually works in the real world.

Even if not a perfect 10, the same question applies to solid 8s and 9s, women who are clearly exceptional in looks and options.

I’m genuinely curious to hear from people who have real experience, insight, or proximity to this world. What’s the reality behind it?