What is the best strategy for picking up hot girls as not so tall guy?

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-05T17:38:35+00:00

You follow the exact same strategy as a tall guy. There is no difference. 175 cm is not short. It's average.

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-07-05T15:46:50+00:00

Going to a bar/night club and being insanely positive, fun, and social with everyone.

If you’re an introverted, logical guy, going full retardmaxx mode is the way. Because your version of crazy fun silly dude will probably just end up being a normal confident guy letting loose.

Kind of like when a nice guy tries to be a total asshole and he just ends up in the middle of the spectrum where he’s still pretty nice but he just isn’t a total pushover.

I have not tried retardmaxxing in the daytime. I imagine it would work the same, but the girls are not in silly party-mode, so it will be up to you to keep the interaction moving rather than building off of the girls going crazy and twerking and making out with each other lol

I think we need a retardmaxxing guide with exercises to help men break out of their stifled, logical though patterns

What this does is it bypasses the looks thing entirely. Because now you’re competing with the other guys on who can offer the best EXPERIENCE for the girl.

The challenge is offsetting retardmaxxing with being grounded and congruent, or else you look like a clown, so that requires some inner work to let go of your insecurities and also to view women in a collaborative frame rather than as adversaries. That part takes some time

Altokation · 2026-07-05T13:16:07+00:00

I’m 170 on a good day so it’s not about height at all. Learn game and get competent in seducing women. Looks and height can make it easier to get your foot in the door but game is ultimately what attracts the women long term.

No_Actuary9100 · 2026-07-05T20:24:28+00:00

Assuming you’re baseline healthy physically then … it’s a numbers game. You need to work on socialising, making friends, doing fun stuff. You’ll meet girls. And the friends of those girls.

This approach won’t help you couple up with any specific girl but you will eventually meet and click with one or more women … without having to employ a bunch of contrived tactics

PositionStandard6089 · 2026-07-05T23:35:27+00:00

be funny. it's a superpower.

rocksos · 2026-07-05T14:40:29+00:00

go too a place where the women are very short

razama · 2026-07-06T02:57:39+00:00

Approach groups. Being socially approved by the group - their friends both women and men- removes any social stigma about being short. Everyone likes you well enough, they have the go ahead to talk to you one on one

GhostofTomJoadRATM · 2026-07-06T04:22:32+00:00

The same way that tall guys do! By believing you are way too hot for them and you are doing them a favor for even glancing in their general direction.

Fluid_Double7063 · 2026-07-06T22:15:35+00:00

Well i wear airforce with extra soles it gives me a 4 cm

epimpstyle · 2026-07-05T16:24:43+00:00

I'm 170, though barefoot I actually noticed I'm 169, but whatever, it doesn't matter. Just find girls who are shorter than you. No exceptions. Forget about that one guy who has a friend whose friend is dating a girl taller than him. Problem solved.

Take a look at how other guys approach girls (these are your competitors) > VIDEO .. Are you still worried about being at a disadvantage? Not a chance!

Title	What is the best strategy for picking up hot girls as not so tall guy?
Author	Best_Marzipan_7774
Upvotes	9
Comments	35
Date	July 5, 2026 1:10 PM UTC (2 weeks ago)
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