Would this be considered internalized homophobia by definition?

FrontOperation7154 · 2026-07-12T07:19:18+00:00

90% of the time while I travel in a public transport, men politely give up their seat without asking while the women pretend to sleep or look outside window and not make an eye contact when they're supposed to give up their seats

Alternative-Tax7318 · 2026-07-12T07:18:42+00:00

That third comment is funny.

Oh so women shouldn’t give up their seats for disabled people? How does that refute his point?

Physical_Big9312 · 2026-07-12T07:16:41+00:00

Hypocrisy of these women will never be called out by other women. But what was the point of hiding the ids if it is visible in mentions?

Seraphayel · 2026-07-12T07:21:19+00:00

Who is disabled? The woman posting this nonsense?

GreenMonkey240 · 2026-07-12T07:51:27+00:00

I saw another post lamenting that men don’t hold the door or give up their seats for women and that chivalry is gone. Men are expected to be chivalrous while nothing is expected of women, and if anything they’re told to keep contact with stranger men to a minimal.

mr_j_12 · 2026-07-12T07:40:13+00:00

How do they know if the men have a disability or not?

Ziodyne967 · 2026-07-12T08:32:31+00:00

so we're back to being called gay again? Man, it really has come full circle.

Top_Row_5116 · 2026-07-12T08:32:01+00:00

How do we even know that guy isnt disabled??? Not all disabilities are visual. Just another obnoxious person on the internet getting up into peoples business when they dont actually know anything.

TheBeatifulDoggo · 2026-07-12T08:46:13+00:00

How is it normal to take picture of strangers and post them online? What's wrong with this """influencer"""? Hope they sue her

Cyanide-Cookies · 2026-07-12T07:34:06+00:00

Men do not owe her anything, she is not entitled to their seats.

Szymon96803 · 2026-07-12T09:45:00+00:00

I wonder why the OP decided to protect the privacy of women commenting by covering the account name, while he posted men's faces recorded without their consent without censorship.

On_the_Cliff · 2026-07-12T12:06:18+00:00

Advocates for the disabled rightly point out that some disabilities are not obvious just by looking. This is like Disabilities Awareness 101.

So, what's the proof the men sitting are not justified in using those seats?

https://invisibledisabilities.org/what-is-an-invisible-disability/

Aexaus · 2026-07-12T09:10:42+00:00

Women are completely out of line these days. Why the fuck are they all projecting their insecurities onto total strangers and uploading unsolicited media of them onto social media? Those guys were going about their business and some random psycho started filming them

GodHand7 · 2026-07-12T09:59:34+00:00

Chivalry is dead and feminists killed it, they shouldn't complain now, now we are all equal, right?

Futuredanish · 2026-07-12T14:01:27+00:00

How quick they are to call someone gay as an insult

tzyarles · 2026-07-12T10:17:04+00:00

I hate the whole assumption the people sitting in a priority seat aren't disabled. For all I know she is, for all I know he is. Taking pictures of strangers sitting in any seat, priority or otherwise, makes me wonder what is going on in your clown car of a brain. It's like those videos where people are met with a camera when they leave a disabled stall.

I've been there enough, being leered down by someone. There's a point I just hold my European Disability Card in case someone with equal parts audacity and entitlement starts trying to admonish me for trying to avoid getting harmed.

So until proven otherwise by this lady, I will assume this man has as much of a reason to sit there as she does. He just got there first.

AbysmalDescent · 2026-07-13T02:37:00+00:00

It's weird how women have normalized their infantilization so hard that they still expect to be treated like children that they not only associate being an adult with being a man but will throw tantrums when they are treated like equals.

Beginning_Addition_3 · 2026-07-12T07:40:50+00:00

Shit is straight up homophobic. No questions.

temblors · 2026-07-12T15:57:44+00:00

Idk but they say gay only bc they don't have any actual valid argument to make and they aren't creative or smart enough to come up with something better than gay or they would have

Fit_Philosopher_2878 · 2026-07-12T09:02:58+00:00

Support @galante_mcmxcix 👍🏻

The person is speaking behalf of you

enemy_of_misandry · 2026-07-12T14:01:07+00:00

Just homophobia and misandry. Women are homophobes.

Rubbertutti · 2026-07-12T11:15:37+00:00

It's propaganda.

She's sitting in priority seat opposite, there's no disabled man standing.

Lost-Orangutan · 2026-07-12T11:32:25+00:00

She blames men because shes sexist,

She uses disabled people as a weapon because shes a narcissist,

She doesn't show the disabled man, nor does she show the rest of the car's population size, because shes a liar,

She puts these guys faces on blast not knowing if they are indeed disabled or not, because she's brainwashed into thinking only women have story's beyond their cover.

Twenty bucks says when she was growing up, her Dad did something wrong, or she was told he did something wrong, and her Mom left him talking trash about him to her 24/7.

And even if im wrong, she dyes her hair, even with it appearing to be a blonde dye, it could also be a faded yellow dye. Either way, dyed hair is a social red flag.

Whats that one meme? Animals in the wild adapt to have bright colors to warn predators of their toxicity. Dyed hair, visible tattoos, and facial piercings, are those bright colors.

She only tics one of those boxes, but her actions fill in the gaps.

dilbert1011 · 2026-07-12T14:51:53+00:00

Women don’t want equality they want special treatment

cuurniprime · 2026-07-12T21:01:51+00:00

I paid for my ticket, I'm entitled to a seat.

Current_Finding_4066 · 2026-07-12T13:54:01+00:00

She is a sexist, nothing new

Timezero100 · 2026-07-12T11:41:50+00:00

Shaming tactics, continue doing what's best for you kings

carislow · 2026-07-12T12:09:25+00:00

After i found myself bisexual i started to realize more and more how most "progressive" women are extremely homophobic

000187346 · 2026-07-12T22:31:42+00:00

There is also invisible disabilities, we don’t know that those men don’t fit the criteria for those seats.

And this doesn’t seem very internalized, just blatant homophobia. Men they don’t like they label as gay, using gay as a negative label, very homophobic.

XLandonSkywolfX · 2026-07-13T04:44:19+00:00

I’ll gladly give up my seat to my wife or someone disabled. That’s it. I don’t give a damn if you have kids, I wouldn’t dream of impregnating your entitled ass. Get the man who did that to give you his seat.

bonerland11 · 2026-07-12T08:27:29+00:00

Maybe they identify as women. Does this one identify as a biologist?

xinarin · 2026-07-12T12:35:43+00:00

I think my favorite part, is where the people saying the men should have given the seats, are saying that being a woman is a disability, but somehow not thinking that, is misogynistic. The irony is fucking loud

Glass-Assignment-622 · 2026-07-12T17:59:54+00:00

It’s because they’re not the top 5-15% of men who are over 185cm and chad so ofc they’re hate on them for existing just not chad

LegOfLamb89 · 2026-07-13T01:15:14+00:00

Assuming a woman is so frail that they cant stand up for the duration of a train ride is a micro aggression. Youre welcome

Various-Film6175 · 2026-07-13T03:28:43+00:00

Hate when people talk about invisible disabilities and then complain about men taking up seats. They very well could have an invisible disability, but we only see it as a woman’s issue and to be fair,most are more commonly diagnosed in women, but still.

Dear_Price2766 · 2026-07-13T14:13:11+00:00

Post like these are why we don’t fucking cunt

LeafcutterAnts · 2026-07-14T18:10:19+00:00

It's not internalised homophobia, it's very clearly externalised. Or in other words just regular homophobia.

BlutoS7 · 2026-07-12T16:43:15+00:00

The disabled man probably gave up his seat to a woman prior to this lady getting on.

lostatlifecoach · 2026-07-12T16:39:25+00:00

I'm not giving up my seat just because you're a woman. The times I was alone with a small child on public transportation it was only women that would offer me their seat so I could more easily wrangle the child.

Do with that what you will but I'll definitely give up my seat to might child wrangling easier regardless of parents gender.

Iwannaurinate · 2026-07-12T13:49:16+00:00

This is what equality looks like queens

sapik_sigmund_freud · 2026-07-12T08:10:28+00:00

Women who think like that can sit on my duck.

Hot_Sock5880 · 2026-08-07T20:32:10+00:00

Ahem
Recording wihtout consent?

aliahmadisld · 2026-07-12T07:36:07+00:00

Guys please read the context

Future-Stretch-401 · 2026-07-12T12:30:46+00:00

There are 2 disabled seats on each side; we can see 3 of the 4 seats and all are occupied by men. The fourth person is unknown. So yes, a man should offer his seat to the disabled person because that’s what civilized men do. And no it’s not “internalized homophobia”, that would be impossible (look up what it means).

Soft_Vegetable_948 · 2026-07-13T10:01:59+00:00

How is that homophobia?

redneckicon · 2026-07-12T15:28:07+00:00

lol I agree with it.

Title	Would this be considered internalized homophobia by definition?
Author	aliahmadisld
Upvotes	746
Comments	94
Date	July 12, 2026 7:12 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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