Why do high value women date betas?

Simple-Craft-9577 · 2021-03-21T21:40:18+00:00

Depends on what you qualify as beta. Don’t go just based on appearance or physical attributes. The RP is a state of mind. Ergo, if you see a 10 dating a short, stubby or bald guy and think that he is a beta because he isn’t as attractive or chasing excellence, it may be a wrong assumption. Perhaps he is more alpha than you and me and managed to master the RP to an extent where he doesn’t even need to look good to land a 10.

js0225 · 2021-03-21T21:31:23+00:00

They date betas because they provide them with validation and attention. They cheat on those betas with alphas because alphas provide them with excitement, women get excitement from trying to hold down an alpha.

KingGerbz · 2021-03-21T21:32:09+00:00

This almost sounds like a rationalization to be Beta.

The highest value men are alphas. Naturally, alphas only want the highest value women. The women getting rejected by alphas are the low value women. Keep in mind, even a "10" can be low value if she's annoying, a feminist, attention whore, etc. So of course these women have no choice but to go back to the Betas.

Usmc5523 · 2021-03-21T21:27:34+00:00

Because they aren’t actually high value women. Having a good job, and being a nice person doesn’t mean that a girl is high value.

MoreAlfa · 2021-03-21T23:14:14+00:00

Why do high value women date betas?

And this is most important--she doesn't see him as beta. Seriously you incel fucktards are incapable of understand that women have different preferences but would rather sit at home bitching.
She likes being married to him (security).
She is about to branch swing.

Those will get you started.

drv12021 · 2021-03-21T22:28:38+00:00

You are the beta.

Returnofthemack3 · 2021-03-22T00:59:19+00:00

Why is this even a question? This has been covered a thousand times and the phrase beta bucks, alpha fucks should be self explanatory

Tryme_at_the_door · 2021-03-22T03:03:12+00:00

She may see the guy as an alpha in her book
Less work to keep him and may not pose a challenge
Not a red pill answer but maybe she wants a change of pace
In my opinion we really don’t know who’s alpha or beta from just looking we just assume or perceive someone to be in my opinion based on impressions or looks

cunningcaring · 2021-03-22T01:49:26+00:00

You think these men are beta. Who are you to say?

AegonTheC0nqueror · 2021-03-21T21:40:31+00:00

AFBB. This is elementary.

Give_Praise_Unto_Me · 2021-03-21T21:45:39+00:00

Security.

scarif24 · 2021-03-22T03:35:53+00:00

Because women want what’s best for them in the moment. If the beta is a provider and gives her things she desires without her having to do anything, she could stay or keep going back. I know many girls like this. They are selfish and want certain things like gifts, money, a way out of a bad situation, security, etc.

They can never love a beta though the way a man can love his mother. And that’s why allowing yourself to be a beta is an absolute sin. And by beta, to be clear as always, I mean someone who is weak and gives away everything while expecting nothing in return except the existence of her nearby. You can be a good man and be alpha. The distinction is not letting people take advantage of you.

Trance-World · 2021-03-22T05:16:55+00:00

These kind of girls don’t want to surrender to a man. They would rather have a predictable wimp because they can feel safe that he won’t cheat, lie, or stand up to her. However, this is a bad long term solution for them because eventually she’ll resent him and it’ll end badly.

Women now a days are promiscuous because they have been brainwashed into thinking that every man will hurt and abuse them. Therefore, any guy with independence, drive, and confidence is seen as a future wife beater because he’s not going to give in to her every demand.

My theory could be completely wrong but what I can say with confidence is that those girls want to exhibit control and they’ll compromise with a low quality man.

omega_dawg93 · 2021-03-22T05:25:00+00:00

people are gonna say, "it's money," or "it's looks," but rich guys get cheated on daily... and so do pretty boys.

why? because women are gonna womyn... that's why. they want what they want in the EXACT moment they want it. don't try to understand it because it's emotion-based.

women don't even understand their decisions themselves, which is why so many are sooooo indecisive. so when you see a woman with a certain guy, don't ASSUME that he's beta based on his looks, perceived social value, or assumed monetary worth.

she's literally with him bc that's they guy who set her feelings off at the time they met. period... the end. women are attracted to masculinity & confidence... they don't call it, "alpha." they just migrate to that persona and roll with their feelings.

OP, worry about your shit and let other people do what they do... don't try to think for women and wonder why they're doing what they're doing. THEY DON'T KNOW THEMSELVES.

PhaedrusHunt · 2021-03-21T22:40:21+00:00

My last relationship was with a 9 who had dated quite a few betas. She said it wasn't as much work and she didn't worry about them cheating.

Also when she was on birth control pills she was more likely to go for beta types.

antariusz · 2021-03-22T02:05:37+00:00

AF/BB doesn't mean that women only sleep with alphas, never sleep with betas. It means that women will place men into one of those two categories, depending on her needs at the time. And that men in those categories get treated differently, and that generally it's preferable to get treated like an alpha.

davefp56 · 2021-03-22T02:02:37+00:00

The world is filled with Betas (and Gammas) that like to think that they are Alphas.

When "Alphas" get cucked by men they consider Betas (but that are in fact true Alphas) they become frightened and confused.

The solution?

Ask the other Betas and Gammas on Reddit to explain what happened.

The conclusion?

That every woman that successfully identifies the pseudo-Alpha as Beta is a whore.

rosbergsessa420 · 2021-03-22T05:02:11+00:00

First of all, it's not only a minority of high value women who date betas, it's a very slim minority, so it's not the rule but the exception. As for some reasons why they do it:

1) there are women who enjoy feeling superior to their partner

2) she might be gaining something else, despite not being actually, carnally attracted to that man. validation, money, security, you name it

3) maybe he's just not beta in her eyes?

4) she's on rebound after some bad boy didn't want her long term, now needs to land something urgently

rest assured, in most if not all of those cases, she's cheating on this B guy with another A guy.

UncleVazNephew · 2021-03-22T00:31:14+00:00

Alpha Fux, Beta Bux.

Also, markets are not always efficient.

TopCourage2 · 2021-03-22T02:08:53+00:00

You remember Will Smith and Jada pinkett-Smith? She doesn’t even want his last name

Shieldless_One · 2021-03-22T02:26:28+00:00

Its alpha fucks beta bucks. The vast majority of women have a lot of insecurities, even sometimes especially the high SMV ones. So they do what they gotta do to lockdown a man.

DoItForDalebaby · 2021-03-22T04:50:03+00:00

It’s all about the clit tickler.

linkofinsanity19 · 2021-03-22T09:12:17+00:00

These women would often cheat on these betas with alphas, but they seemed to be unable to hold a real, stable relationship with any alpha, and would often go back to the beta.

You answered your own question. They don't date them, they just use them for emotional support when they get denied by alphas. Cheating with alphas and having "LTR"s with betas fulfills both sides of hypergamy. 101 level shit.

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Musicgoon · 2021-03-21T21:29:20+00:00

Beta Bux. Read the sidebar.

bjbdbz2 · 2021-03-22T00:56:53+00:00

Some people want the prize, some people want to be the prize.

senan97 · 2021-03-22T01:09:57+00:00

Because being alpha in humans so different than monkeys.

batthrowswaylooin · 2021-03-22T04:23:29+00:00

When you say “beta” what do you mean? Cause a man can be weak with girls and still be rich or have some form of status. A woman can be with a rich guy while she cheats with the chad or something like that.

SteveSan82 · 2021-03-22T04:33:04+00:00

Money

Rev_Irreverent · 2021-03-22T06:35:56+00:00

"High value women" No such thing lol

zerofatalities · 2021-03-22T07:31:09+00:00

What is an high value women?

ItWasAlwaysOver · 2021-03-22T15:50:27+00:00

what do you mean by 'high value women'. that seems rather subjective to me.

cfbovernfl · 2021-03-22T16:00:59+00:00

More stability, gifts, time, etc.. And like others said, the guys probably aren't as 'beta' as they are made out to be.

BetteMale · 2021-03-23T13:11:03+00:00

The alpha does not feel like he has to put up with the HBs annoying personality, some of them can be downright intolerable to be around. The beta puts up with it because he has no choice if he wants to get laid.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2021-03-22T06:01:31+00:00

Who gives a flying fuck. I don't ask you why you find XYZ girls attractive.

But you better drink IPA's bitch. Don't like IPA? Why the fuck not?

Title	Why do high value women date betas?
Author	HappyJerk
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Date	March 21, 2021 9:17 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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