A conversation that makes me so angry, the bs I used to take from my ex pre-FDS.

oldncranky1982 · 2020-09-02T00:56:20+00:00

I hate when men announce their preferences like it's some earth-shattering revelation. Should have told him you prefer bigger dicks.

ombrelashes · 2020-09-02T00:48:10+00:00

If someone does this, turn it right around. "Yeah, I prefer men who are taller/shorter/better looking/have darker hair/bigger muscles/bigger dick/ can last longer in bed", then block.

If he's watching porn, ogling IG "models", send pictures of hot naked men, talk about how desirable they are and how much you enjoy fantasizing about them. Then block.

99% of men are narcissists and narcissists only understand consequences. They don't care about your feelings. They care about their feelings. You have to give them a dose of their own medicine. Then BLOCK, forever.

ombrelashes · 2020-09-02T00:35:58+00:00

I was talking about something completely different, and he decided to put his preferences out there 8 months after we started dating. He said all this even after I shared with him that when I was younger, for years, I never looked in the mirror after showering, because I hated my boobs.

He had the audacity to say this crap to me! "Accustomed" What a LVM.

Even pre-FDS I fought him so much for what he said. But I should have been able to LEAVE him. Cue some time later I found FDS, and learned about my anxious attachment style.

Adawritesrules · 2020-09-02T00:59:23+00:00

And I’ve grown on your two inches. But it hasn’t grown on me, or anybody for that matter.

It is what it is. It really is.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-02T00:51:28+00:00

He's full of shit and just fucking with you here to make you feel insecure. What a POS!

2020-09-02T00:59:14+00:00

You told him that you hated your boobs and he used that against you. It was on purpose. Trash

lacyvulture · 2020-09-02T02:38:59+00:00

WOW I will just take my tits to someone that will actually appreciate them. Asshole.

ilostitireallylostit · 2020-09-02T00:40:23+00:00

What a douche!!!!!!! I can’t even get over the audacity.

2020-09-02T01:26:52+00:00

I’m livid

not_a_femme · 2020-09-02T06:06:15+00:00

Those are such manipulative and back handed compliments. Just SHUT THE FUCK UP. Why would you even say this? Just trying to make you feel insecure and when you do get insecure he'd hit you with the "what are you talking about I never said anything bad"

villagefunambulist · 2020-09-02T15:26:50+00:00

What a negging douchebag. I learned the hard way not to reveal weaknesses or insecurities because men will feed off them. They depend on us being insecure and not fully happy with ourselves because it makes us easier to control. This is why, as women, it's important that we love and accept ourselves for the divine beings that we are.

Title	A conversation that makes me so angry, the bs I used to take from my ex pre-FDS.
Author	ombrelashes
Upvotes	113
Comments	32
Date	September 2, 2020 12:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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