How do you stop a partner from cheating?

Countpudyoola · 2015-10-16T02:14:38+00:00

Yep. I'm sure this one is sobering to many.

If a guy really grasps this it'll help him let go of a lot of shit outside his area of control anyway.

Be the best you can be and the rest'll take care of itself. And if it doesn't in the way that you wanted then you adapt and move along.

Life's a fucking parade of people coming and going.

wantonton · 2015-10-16T16:47:43+00:00

You can NEVER stop a woman from going, only from coming back.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-10-16T12:26:03+00:00

As Owen/Tyler from RSD says in his your girlfriend is a raging slut video: "most attractive women have turned down way more sex than you would have if given the opportunity."

babydocnorman · 2015-10-19T17:10:35+00:00

Unfortunately, you can't. There are too many variables outside of your control, especially intoxication. I've seen too many "good girls" transform into hypersexual flirts or even sluts after a couple of drinks. Easy marks for guys with game.

The best you can do is reduce the odds of her cheating on you by playing a deterrence game. Maintain your SMV above hers and play subtle and sometimes overt dread game by demonstrating that other women find you attractive, so she understands and internalizes that you have options and will leave her if she cheats. Even then, if a skilled player convinces her (or she convinces herself) that she won't get caught, it can happen.

My advice is to enjoy the relationship, take it day by day, but increase and maintain your value so you're confident have other options if she cheats.

mrpCamper · 2015-10-16T12:51:49+00:00

Nice read. thanks. At this point, I still need to keep myself reminded of this. Particularly liked this reference to The Way of Men, "Bonobo circle-boink"

Squeezymypenisy · 2015-10-16T04:42:06+00:00

Rollo had an excellent article on Mate-guarding. Girls Night Out. It was awesome.

simpleshadow · 2015-10-16T20:44:41+00:00

Unlearn the behavior of punching yourself in the "feels" in response to another person's actions. It's YOUR brain, take responsibility for it.

Fuck, I needed this. Thanks for sharing.

angels_fan · 2015-10-16T18:20:48+00:00

This goes back to my theory that there are x scenarios in which a woman will cheat on you.

X will ALWAYS be > 0.

For a strong alpha, x might be 1000. For a weak beta, it would probably be closer to 25000.

Your job is to minimize x.

Title	How do you stop a partner from cheating?
Author	theultmatecad
Upvotes	24
Comments	44
Date	October 16, 2015 1:11 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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