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Got this text today.

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July 11, 2018
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5'10" 245 39 waist 18.5 neck 19% BF

Bench 315 squat 420 dead 465 press 193

Lots of gold here. I am not sure how exactly to take this. I would like to know what the more experienced members think. Am I on the right path or am I going Rambo.

I plan to respond with some comfort in person. I need to own my shit better because I have been leaving some stuff undone. Need to stfu more she has overheard me giving rp type advice to single friends I think its beta as fuck to check out chicks overtly need to be more disciplined when it comes to the female form.

What do you think?

Here is the text I have not replied.

"Tikitheman, I love you so much more then words could say you truely are my best friend, my lover, my rock you are so amazing,talented,smart,funny and extremely sexy. I've been worrying alot lately you used to be so sweet and would give effort I'm not sure what's going on with you lately you don't do half the stuff you used to do and lately it's all about you or when it's convenient for you and I can't help but feel as if this is who you are now you used to write me love letters and used to say you love me without me saying it first and lately you don't even say it back you don't text me in the morning or just throughout the day just to see how I am like you used to your always asking me how much I love you but don't do it in return and lately I feel as if you only want me around for sex. You choose to go to the gym instead of seeing me and not even telling me so I was thinking you were going straight home to the kids. This morning you woke me up to give you your shot not to see me before you had to leave you didn't say I love you before you walked out the door if you don't want to be here then why play games with me and try to hurt me I am doing the best I can right now for our family and I know you think our house is gross but you barley want to help. I'm hurting really bad right now and am worried cause I don't know what's going on with you right now and you won't talk to me. I just don't know why and when you decided to become an asshole guy who only cares about himself and checks out every woman he can while sitting next to his wife or giving people advise that is so wrong as a married man just by the way you talk and act makes me feel as if that's how you want to be. Every time we go out you get buzzed and hang out with everyone but me of course besides dancing But you almost remind me of that guy I used to help get laid and talked to about chicks. You used to want to make me happy it was us against the world and right now I don't feel like I am apart of your world other then when it's convenient for you. You don't even call me unless I call you first I would really like to know what's going on I was looking through our text and I tell you I love you multiple times and you don't say it once it's so sad. I love you so so much and just want to spend my life with you."


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Title Got this text today.
Author tikitheman
Upvotes 12
Comments 41
Date 11 July 2018 03:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/204224
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/8y0pdh/got_this_text_today/
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[–]drty_prRed Beret38 points39 points  (0 children) | Copy

If she is giving you everything you want, it's not against the rules to make her feel special.

IMO, it's a long winded comfort text that she knew she would fuck up if she tried to say it in person. To pass it, give her a little bit of comfort IRL. Don't respond to the text. Or, keep ignoring her and don't be surprised when she starts fucking an orbitor because she wants to feel love.

Regardless, it's your decision to make.

[–]wkndatbernardus13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Does this woman know about a thing called punctuation?

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

I think a response via text is warranted here. It's a comfort test and in order to pass you need to provide comfort. She's analyzing her text history and trying to find some paper trail for proof that you love her. Sure, you can continue to be Mr. Billy Badass and either ignore her text (since its not related to logistics) or reply with some witty AA, but I think you would benefit more by just telling her you do love her to get her to shut up. She is thirsty for some feelz and is probably close to her period, no?

If it was me, I'd just text back something like "Awww baby, you are too cute. You KNOW I love you very much. But I didn't realize you had these feelings about us and am glad you shared these thoughts with me. How about we discuss this together in person over a glass of wine tonight?" Then don't bring it up again. If she does, just fog and AM her, provide a big heaping dose of comfort, and then escalate.

She fell in love with you because you were alpha with beta characterics. You gave her feelz and tingles. Don't forget what got you to the dance. Ya dig?

[–]JDRoedellRed Beret7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is 90% a comfort test. Treat the entire thing as such. You’ve hit one goal post. Now calibrate back a bit until you’re in that sweet spot.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sounds like you're mostly doing it right to me. She's wondering why the good little beta bux she settled for is acting up in his cage. I'd respond with "lets talk in person" then, when you see her, just hold her tight and let her know you care about her and didn't realize she felt that way recently (NEVER APOLOGIZE). Let her talk, listen to her without DEERing, hold her tight again, tell her you love her and everything is ok...escalate and fuck her before her period starts.

[–]simbarlionRed Beret5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Looks to me like Rambo's girlfriend is trying to let Rambo know he is a bit too much Rambo.

[–]cholomiteMod / BP Downvote Magnet7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

The text is mostly blah blah bullshit, but there's something to take from it. It seems like you're not making her feel "special". Women love fucking cocky arrogant bad boys, but to be in a relationship with one, she needs to feel like she is special to him in some way that other girls aren't.

My girl does the same shit, she's a basic bitch and AWALT as fuck, but every now and then I have to remind her that I'm choosing to be in a relationship with her because she is more "special" than the other girls; it also ties in with the us vs. the world thing.

I usually give her some cheesy bullshit about being soulmates in the universe, or how she has "complementary energy" to mine, or some other cliched bullshit like that and she eats it up. It's just another layer of comfort you have to think about as you start to get hotter and more attractive. Don't get caught up in some lame conversation about her wants and needs and whatever, just hold her in your arms for a minute, say some sweet and corny shit, then something cocky and funny and slap her ass and walk away.

Also this should all be done in person and not over text. You're not wrong, I don't text my gf that I love her, so don't over do it going forward, just consider the "special" aspect of your relationship.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

I’m not experienced as the others. My combined lifts barely make it above 300 and I have not read most of the books. However, I did read what you wrote and I took some things into consideration.

1) You’re being an asshole. Why? Your wife didn’t know that you weren’t going home to your kids. You’re just going off and doing whatever you want. I’d be pissed off if my wife did that shit to me. In fact, she was pulling that shit on me and I sat her ass down and told her that I didn’t need to know her whereabouts 24/7 but if I call and ask, you better tell me.

2) I saw something about the house being gross.

You lift pretty big weight right? How about you pick up a broom or a dirty dish. Sounds like your house is a mess and you’re not doing shit about it.

3) You’re openly talking about fight club.

You’re dishing out advice where 1) it’s more than likely not asked for and 2) when your wife around so that makes you an idiot. Quit trying to save the world and keep fight club to yourself. They don’t understand and neither will she.

4) Chill the fuck out.

You are getting laid a lot and well. Most guys in this sub aren’t and they’re aren’t running around with machine guns looking for the fucking chopper.

I don’t know your wife. Maybe you’re not doing much at all and she’s just a sensitive little girl or maybe you’re being a giant douche. All I know is that I’m applying what I learn here and I have got completely different results. My wife is so damn crazy for me the more I AA, pass shit test and comfort test.

My guess is that you are failing some comfort tests here. Like I said, I’m young (25), can’t lift for shit and I am very new in my journey (4-6 months give or take my fuckarounditus) but I think you need to rethink your actions and analyze your situation. You could be a total badass hitting on all cylinders or you could be a puttering piece of shit that is about to be totaled.

I don’t know what type of relationship you want with your wife but I know that if I were you and my wife sent that to me I’d be questioning whether I wanted to be married. It doesn’t seem like you care about her and in my opinion the text reflects that.

Good luck with your shit. Rock on with those lifts.

[–]Rian_StoneMod / Red Beret4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

I didn't read it, neither should you. I used to get long winded emo texts at the start of my map too

If it's Important, it's face to face Important, and when asked, I said as Much

[–]helaughsinhidden4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Mgtow and mrp don't mix

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I looked in your history to see what got you into RP in the first place. But you have none.

So what drove you here?

[–]Reach180Red Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

"your always asking me how much I love you"

Sounds pretty alpha.

[–]MrChad_ThundercockBig Red Machine1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

“I almost remind her of the guy I she used to help get laid and talk to about chicks fuck.”

[–]DiscordantMonk0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is uncanny

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Reply with

Tl;dr

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Brilliant post

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good update, suspected it would go something like that.

[–]BluepillProfessorMod / Red Beret1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Why would you stop writing sweet letters? Did she start having LESS sex with you after mrp? Don't tell me YOU are the one?

Unless you are being denied there is no need for advanced dread.

used to be us against the world

She has a good point. What is your answer? Being your own point of reference doesn't mean you treat the wife worse than you did before.

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red1 point2 points  (9 children) | Copy

I am the same height as you. I weigh 210# and my lifts are higher than yours.

I am not reading the wall of text you posted, and neither should you.

You should be focused on dropping 30# from your fat ass, because otherwise we just don't care.

[–]wkndatbernardus1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

"My world is called Cleanhouseistan. You become a citizen by pledging allegiance to the flag of dustfreeness and by singing the national anthem, "All Hail the Mighty Mop. Bonus patriotism points when you have my shirt ironed in the AM."

[–]mtwinemn0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is brilliant. I just connected some dots on how to make boring adult responsibilities fun for the wife.

Lately I’ve been telling her to take care of the castle when I’m gone but this is much better.

Now I need to get her to put more effort into housecleanistan National pastime: mouth hugs

[–]SteelSharpensSteelMod / Red Beret0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Text is for logistics, not feelz.

Good on you for responding we'll talk tonight, and not barfing feelz through text.

[–]classicthrowaway860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Long winded comfort test.

Dont respond over text, think of a good response in person, re-assure her and give her a big hug. Be an oak, not an asshole.

[–]helaughsinhidden0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Nice! Good to hear the update



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