Talking to my wife makes me feel like I am insane

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-01-23T12:29:18+00:00

This is why STFU is important. Also, NEVER argue with a woman’s hamster - it eats logic and shits more hamsters.

Don’t give her hamster diarrhea. Focus on your mission.

Rian_Stone · 2018-01-23T14:38:10+00:00

It's not about sharing information

man_in_the_world · 2018-01-23T15:35:40+00:00

Like most people, she projects her own frustrations and failures onto The System or Others or her husband.

Her husband is exactly the same; he blames his wife for his dissatisfactions. It's much easier than taking responsibility himself.

PeggedByOwlette · 2018-01-23T12:34:02+00:00

If she's got an internal monolog like that then you need to nip that shit in the bud right now.

The only reason she had the latitude to even hold thoes positions is because of the umbrella of resources and support YOU are providing. She's running the feminist entitlement script. She even pointed out YOU and other men are the problem. You are on the other team. What's even more cause for concern is something I read in the rational male. "The person in the relationship that's needs the other the least has all the power". A feminist thinks they don't need a man, this makes your situation even worse.

Your going to have to apply some serious dread and even that might not work. Feminism gives them the PERFECT victim card and all her harpy friends, females, LOVE watching their friends marriage fail. It makes them feel better about themselves if their marriage failed. They feel safety in the herd of harpy cunts.

I read a post on athol Kays blog once, I think it was there that gives ALL of us power if you can do it. You are going to have to divorce her in your mind.

There are 4 rivers you can sail your boat down and you are already sailing down river 1. River one is the family unit together, that's where you are now. On river 1 you are the captain and your decisions make or break it.

Rivers 2-4 are tye results of a split.

River 2 is after a divorce and YOU only get to see your kids every second weekend. This is the worst possible scenario and the heaving mental lifting is done here. You need to sit and think long and hard and come up with an action plan where YOU thrive going down this river. This is not optimal but if you can see in your minds eye a version of you here that thrives, the fear is gone. Make a plan, write it down.

River 3 is split custody, half the time with you and half the time with her. This one is easy to thrive in because you get to be single half the time and spin plates. This is still not the best, river 1 is but this one you kinda get the best of both worlds. River 1 is still where you want to be.

River 4 is you get full custody and she gets the kids every second weekend. This one almost never happens because once you are gone all she has is them and her entire identity is being a mom. Other woman will judge her harshly for quitting. This river almost never happens. This one you have to switch gears because you are now a single dad. This one, for me, I in vision me being an alpha single dad and chewing threw single moms like kirkland protine bars. Never committing snd never cohabitation. It's like when people tell you dogs help you pick up females. Kids can work aswell.

Once you come to piece with all 4, the fear of uncertainty is gone. Internalize it and you can act / speak with complete outcome independence in your marriage because you are 100% ready to sail that boat down another river if she's a cunt.

You have to be ready to accept a divorce rape.

And no, THEY are not capable of telling the truth because to even know a truth about yourself you have to be self aware. The modern woman is like a bitchy chipmunk, they only react. Sometimes I call my wife gazelle because gazelles only react to predators, lions. It gets her stoked a bit but who fucking cares, if she's got a sandy vagina over and observation then she's in my frame.

One more observation. When you said you provide her with the opportunity to reinvent herself you are projecting male attributes onto her. That's something WE as men do, we reinvent ourselves. They (woman) bitch, piss and moan until all the betas around them reconfigure their shit to server them, the woman.

Reinvent YOU!

OK I just re read your post again and you don't have kids.

Drop the plate you married. Problem resolved. I'm leaving the river analogy there for other men. There are only 2 rivers for you and river 1, is moving Twards a water fall and river 2 is an independent you splitting pussy in half with the red pill brain you have now.

DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH A FEMINIST! You might as well slam your cock in a car door. If you have a son with her she will raise the biggest beta pussy worshiper. he will end up with a username like mine for all the wrong reasons.

DanceMonkeeDance · 2018-01-23T11:53:26+00:00

Some guy said on your last post exactly what I thought when I finished this one.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2018-01-23T12:19:18+00:00

It's early days, same thing is happening to me it's normal. Give way less fucks. Lift and stfu for first 6 months pass shit tests. You posting OYS? If not do that

captainVSI · 2018-01-23T12:42:21+00:00

Was it Robert Glover that said women are like the weather? Unpredictable and change on a dime. If it’s hail out there, don’t go outside. Stay indoors (stfu). My response to those weird spouts is “hmm, interesting...” And nothing else. Just letting that raft drift...

nastynickdr · 2018-01-23T13:05:33+00:00

Are women capable of telling the truth?

Their truth is whatever they feel at a particular moment. If you let your life be guided by what women say you are screwed. Thats why its mentioned here every time... YOUR FRAME, live on your own terms, you are the oak in her shitstorm of feelz. Unshakable. Combine the hamster with the entitlement that comes from feminism and you got yourself an unbereable bitch. You screwed up by marrying a feminist.

Why you let her babble affect you?

Now what you have to do is decide is if you want to stay married to an entitled feminist or not. Yeah we get it, when you married her you were a beta turd who didnt know any better. No kids? Time to walk. Not all women are entitled cunts, yours is. Although it is possible if you have a VERY strong frame and she sees you as VERY high value that she cuts this kind of crap.

red-sfpplus · 2018-01-23T16:13:33+00:00

My wife is on her period this week and just sent me a text message:

"I just got done crying. I was watching The Price is Right"

I responded back with the laughing emoji.

And here you are...worrying about what your woman is saying.

snatch_haggis · 2018-01-23T18:34:25+00:00

You're trying to logic things aren't you? Take everything she says and append "right now" to the end of it. She means it, and she believes it, in that moment.

RuleZeroDAD · 2018-01-24T16:02:54+00:00

This whole "Me Too" thing has all of the StrongIndependentWomyn^TM in a bit of a tizzy. Like all bullshit, this too shall pass. A new season of "Stranger Things" will start soon, and life without real conflict will be filled with other meaningless distractions.

STEM babe wife (logical until, well, she isn't), thought of taking 10 y/o daughter and 8 y/o son to Women's March on the 20th. I asked her simply "What do you hope to accomplish?" She stated without flinching or affect (automaton-speak from indoctrination, not critical thinking) "The kids need to see what oppressed people look like." I laughed, and said back "You use 'brunch' as a verb, and drive a Lexus SUV. Also, I made plans for us weeks ago." She asked what I had planned, said it was a surprise, and never heard of the March again.

Lead from the front, STFU about M/F hot button topics, and remember Law of Power #38.

RedPillCoach · 2018-01-25T16:44:48+00:00

Is the hamster so strong that they actually believe whatever B.S. occurs to them in the moment?

Yes and yes.

I can't tell what is real to her and what is not.

That's the problem. Figure out your own reality, then you can start leading the wife to it.

Imagine a ship at sea rocking in a storm. This is your ship and right now it is on a mission to rescue a smaller, weaker craft. However, your large ship is out of control and about to capsize. Can you tow the smaller craft to calmer waters in those conditions?

Before you worry about saving somebody else, first you have to save yourself.

PeggedByOwlette · 2018-01-23T14:38:05+00:00

Man I'm starting to get pissed off when I read these and there are no kids.

Just fucking end it.

Ya, she makes shit money, you must make over 100k of you can afford everything AND tuition. So you have to pay her alimony, who gives a fuck.

You can make more money.

You can't make more time.

Drop this fucking plate.

There is no such thing as a failure in this life, only feedback.

They tell woman to not diminish yourself for a man. Flip the script.

You will thrive without this bitch. The fact that you are even on the fence is totally beta.

Alpha would be "NEXT WOMAN"

No kids means you only have to consider you.

Take the boat back to tartooga, fire that feminist entitled first mate. Actually fuck that, make her walk the plank. When you get back to tartooga bang whores like a proper pussy pirate.

DeeMooreDeeMarriet · 2018-01-23T15:21:49+00:00

She wants you to kill the puppy. So do it.

SBIII · 2018-01-23T15:44:18+00:00

I would feel insane listening to that crap. You need to train her to shut that shit up or drop her.

mrpthrowa · 2018-01-23T20:51:08+00:00

Google "gaslighting".

number123356 · 2018-01-23T12:03:10+00:00

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Title	Talking to my wife makes me feel like I am insane
Author	31Olives
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Date	January 23, 2018 11:13 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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