Quick background... I started almost 2 years ago with lifting on my own after reading NMMNG (was not aware of RP) .. discovered RP about 2 months ago. Have finished reading everything, I was already on a path for a lot of things listed here but the concept of Dread game was new to me, so working on that.
Question is about family activities. So she keeps the calendar, tracking when shit is. But.. she ALWAYS asks me first... Should we sign up kid 1 for soccer? okay.. which day? ... So and So is having a party next weekend, should we go? So the answers to all these things are always on from me. She NEVER just signs up for some shit without asking me.
That said.. I'm the yes or no guy.. I don't keep it all organized in a calendar and shit.. organization is not my strong suit... it is hers. So the problem comes that often I need to ask her... hey when is kid 2's game or whats the schedule again for tomorrow morning.
I don't know if that's proper leading. Should I be in control of all the calendar times and shit even though I have no desire to keep track of all that shit, I just say yes or no if there's a kid related thing or if a mutual friend of ours asks if we want to attend something.
As a side note, options are not always coming from her, I make my own plans for the family as well, most of her shit is from like wives of couples we hang out with or kid shit. I plan date nights, weekend get aways, all things that are just us and no kids as well as some family weekend shit.
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