Firstly, I have A LOT to learn. I came across RP only one week ago. My wife has threatened to leave many times before and I accept this is down to my Beta pussy ass tendencies. However, I was not always like that - marriage and kids have grinded me down. I'm good looking, great job, great dad and keep pretty fit although over the past few years I have let myself go a bit and developed a bit of a belly. Coincidently, I started getting my shit together a fews weeks before discovering RP and have been lifting furiously. I come from a kickboxing background so I can get fit quickly if needed. Sex four times this year so far and I have had meltdowns and exposed myself on occasions when she's threatened to leave and I've went begging. She's attractive as fuck and I've been guilty of constantly reminding her of this over the years.
So I discover RP last week..... OMFG I can't believe what I'm reading. Everything makes so much sense and my eyes have been opened. I've started indulging in the side bar and now I have a solid plan to become a fucking man again.
The past week she has been on her period. Just in time for me discovering RP. So over the weekend I start DNGAF and focus on me and my new mission. I notice all these shit tests coming thick and fast, however as a newbie I'm not confident enough to pass them. Usually when she starts unloading on me I always take the bait - I ALWAYS argue back and it all kicks off. This weekend I decided just to listen to her and then just STFU and focus on something else like playing with the kids. Wow, she huffed and puffed, I think frustrated at the lack of retaliation from me. I knew she could sense something had changed all of a sudden.
This morning I receive a text saying she is still not happy and I've to spend the rest of the week 'thinking about us' because she cant go on like this and that she's due to leave.
Advice? At this point I have just ignored the text. Have I rushed in too quick with DNGAF and distancing myself, STFU and focusing on me and not giving her the usual needy attention I would.
What do I do?