Alright fellas I'm obese, no way around it I've always been, but used to be alpha fatty without knowing what that was, marriage changed that, now working on divorce. Pill is dissolving, trying to stay on track and not spit it out, weightlifting, reading, approaching women just getting used to opening.

I'm about to take the next step and start getting my diet under control, been doing some research and it seems that if I start dieting, gains might be compromised.

Can one theoretically bulk and cut at the same time, if so can you point me to a tried and true method?

I'm Hispanic, 1st gen American, mother of a naturalized citizen - meaning she jumped thru the hoops and now waves the red white and blue. I say this because gastronomically I was definitely raised mexican. Carbs wrapped in carbs with a side of carbs and a carb topping with some fajita on the side.

I haven't really changed my diet other than slightly laying off the carbs, less tortillas, quinoa instead of rice, drinking soy milk, but it's time to lose the weight and I'm having a hard time picking a diet, I want something concrete, but to make gains you still need substantial amount of carbs, what to do?