I really need to open up to what happened. My wife and I are the only people who know. I need to get this off my chest.
My wife and I got married 9/12/15. It was supposed to be the happiest night of my left. I am marrying my woman of my dreams. The one I've been with since 11/27/05. We have been through high school , college, and 2 rounds of long distance together.
So why is it that I catch her cheating on me 2 weeks after the wedding?
It wasn't like I saw emails or texts. I fell asleep on the couch because I was getting over the flu and woke up randomly in the middle the night.
She had invited her Co worker over to our place earlier and we had drank some wine. I barley drank because I was getting over the flu and when I wake up they are both gone.
I look around the corner towards the stairs of our apartment and I see her and him making out. I was frozen. I could not move. He got on his knees and she helped him take her shorts off. I yelled and they freaked out.
My wife tried to apologize and he crawled on all fours into the bathroom. I made him leave before I did something I would regret and me and my wife just sat in silence.
I don't know what to do. Everything has gone downhill ever since.
I dont trust her. She couldnt even put a door between us when she did that.
There's a lot more but I don't know if I'm being coherent enough to explain it.
I'm contemplating divorce.
Any advice or thoughts?