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[–]edwardhwhite25 points26 points27 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Seconding no answer on this one.
[–]Cunt_Robber8 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thirding. Its what I would do. Continue communication with her as usual when you want to set up a casual date/fuck. I would consider her text a subtle shit-test, or some frame test of some kind to extract information about what your perspective is. By not replying, you do two things: 1. Maintain your mystery and 2. Subtly tell her that texts (and subjects) like that are a no no.
[–]BoochBrewer1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Perfect. I have been only textin logistics and flirting/teasing here and there
[–]Cunt_Robber2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thats all that should be necessary with plates. The more you plate, the more shittests like this they throw at you, the more experience you acquire in dealing with them
[–]Pitchfork51 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do most guys not hate texting as much as I do??
I never feel the need to respond.
[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev23 points24 points25 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
(From the link) "Just didn't want you...to think I'm a crazy lady" means "I am a crazy lady".
[–]asktrpthrow1238 points9 points10 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Projection at it's finest. Just like the cheating slut is always the one most worried about getting cheated on.
[–]falecf41 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God damn, if that ain't the truth!
[–]asktrpthrow12312 points13 points14 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She'll fuck you again if you want regardless of whether you say "k" or not. Just ignore it, watch her text you again within a couple of days. Obviously, don't LTR her though.
Edit: I also think she's trying to gauge what you want. Don't let her unravel that mystery.
[–]Bambam22bam 11 points12 points13 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Ignore it.
Also she is trying to show you that she has value by explicitly telling you she fucks other guys. Dread the fuck out of her, but do it with actions not words.
[–]BoochBrewer0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. As if trying to force me into giving a fuck abt what she does when im not around.
[–]Bambam22bam 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But you don't give a fuck, right?
[–]BoochBrewer0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It was the farthest thing from my mind.
[–]Bambam22bam 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always go with no response, when in doubt.
Women love the reaction they can get. Don't give it to them.
[–]SetConsumes1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lies. It's on your mind, hence the thread. Which is fine, but be honest to yourself.
[–]ReddJive10 points11 points12 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
why say anything.
[–]Circle_of_Tyrants points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah, no, never respond with "K". Are you a fucking man or a teenage girl?
[–]BoochBrewer2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Good check man. I seen a few posts on the red pill abt how "k" is a good response to when she starts accusing/talking shit to express how u don't give a fuck abt her emotions.
[–]Luis_McLovin2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
a thumbs up is perhaps a better alternative, it can't be misconstrued as butt hurt
it's like replying with "oh what an amazing story! thank you!"
it's like sarcastic kindness, basically "i don't give a shit"
[–]kruxofthemimed2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
agreed on the thumbs up. "K" "Ok" have butthurt connotations, "kk" depends on context but a thumbs up is pretty much always good for simply acknowledging that you saw the text without looking like you give a shit. That said no response is the way to go here
[–]Luis_McLovin1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed, leaving on "read" and ignoring is brutal and always works (y)
[–]Shaman66245 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well she is doing you a favor she showed her cards.
Are you looking for a relationship? She's not relationship material.
Are you looking to fuck a girl exclusively, also a no.
Are you looking to keep on fucking this girl and you don't care she's also fucking other guys? Well just say "ok np I'm not looking for a relationship anyway" or something like that.
Edit: or don't let her "unravel that mystery" like the other guy said.
[–]trp_ocd3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, I knew you were crazy the entire time, secret is safe with me. Cheers
[–]twisted-balls points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Look "k" is a fucking child's response. It won't come across as dread, it will only sound as though you're butthurt.
To be honest man it reads to me like she's the one plating you.
You have two options.
Hard next. No reply.
Dread game. Also no reply until she comes back begging.
[–]BoochBrewer1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It caught me off guard because that link she sent was abt some event in VT. So I busted her balls abt how she wants to go on a road trip already after only one date.
I have no intention of monogamy and believe I never gave off that vibe. But I do like what u mention as it gives me another perspective on this.
[–]11NV0K3R4 points5 points6 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So I busted her balls abt how she wants to go on a road trip already after only one date.
So she made a comfort test power play.
She is trying to plate you, which honestly I don't see why that fucking matters because its a win/win, as long as you don't get overly invested.
I would respond with a red ink'd correction of her essay followed by a laugh/cry emoji. Cause who the fuck cares.
[–]Luis_McLovin2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
leave her hanging and ignore her shitty message
that's what i'd do
you don't have to respond to every msg you get
[–]hamsterbator1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
k sounds good to me
[–]Retspihi 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reply with "lol"
[–]sjdfhskdjfh points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
why would you want to get in a relationship with a girl who values you so little that she's seeing other guys at the same time?
[–]BoochBrewer0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never said I wanted to get into a relationship. I have a few other plates myself. That's why this text caught me off guard. She already knew this
[–]michael_wilkins 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You got laid from Bumble?
Yeah. Best plates come from bumble.
[–]smirk_addict1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Really? Do tell.
[–]Slut_Slayer90000 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my experience Bumble has less low lifes and more girls with their shit together then tinder. I would say the amount of girls with college degrees on bumble are far superior then tinder, don't ask me why I just feel like at least anecdotaly that's the case.
[–]michael_wilkins 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's not as big here down under, Might have to have a look at it.
I live 50 miles away from a big city so it's not as dense as tinder.
[–]prime_zero1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
k
"and honestly you're not the only one I've been with" = riding the CC
Enjoy the ride while it lasts
[–]savagedealer2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Agree and amplify . I'm not good at wording shit sometimes but basically tell the bitch yea thanks for the fun and good luck and ghost that hoe . She wants you to over invest in her for continued pussy privileges and that's a big ass no no . If the sex was good she'll be back eventually. if she finds herself a sucker well let's just say be glad you weren't that sucker .
[–]WhaleMilker 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd go with this
[–]randomimguracc2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yea, I had a similar situation along the lines of "I need more relationshipness from you and you're not giving it to me so I think we shouldn't see each other anymore".
My reply. "Ok. It was fun babe."
She text me 3 days later "I'm horny- you should come over".
I like this response. As the redditor below stated, k might sound like I'm upset
[–]redsorceror2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I would have turned on read receipts and opened the text maybe two to three hours later after it was received.
[–]BoochBrewer0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Another side note: when she asked what I'm looking for on second date, I told her non-exclusive dating
[–]IBeMadToo1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go and read shit tests encyclopedia - your response was weak af I'd have A&A'd the shit out of that!
[–]1walawalawa2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wrong answer....
Make her WORK for your attention: I get the "What are you looking for?"
After the usual: "I'm looking for a proper Capucchino"
I say: "I'm a man, you're a woman...I see you as a woman. I think putting too much pressure on that too early would ruin things don't you?"
Leave it there. That little sentence immediately sets up a sexual frame...maintains your aloofness and mystery but still gives her a sense of possibility.
In response to that epic text she sent:
"..." the elipses ... would be more effective than 'k' in this case.
... was something I started using in response to long rambling girl stuff that ached for a response but something that would get her hamster spinning not wind her up.
god no
ellipsis is shit
ignore and leave on "read"
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