'10 Ways Guys Try And Break You Down So That They Can Sleep With You' (Article Backfires/Great Guide For Those Just Starting Out)

SkorchZang · 2014-10-18T07:36:17+00:00

Watch out, women. There are men out there who have dicks, and they want to put their dick inside you.

Together, we can fight back... Ladies? Wait! Where you going, ladies?

DRMMR76 · 2014-10-18T13:07:09+00:00

I may be totally off base here, but I may have an insight into why he's thinking this way, because it was the way I thought many years ago back in junior and senior high school.

Basically, he believes deep down women really do all want the fairy-tale Disney/Family Matters guy. He thinks that women are only getting with the guys who do the things he listed because that's all they see. And that if the unicorn of his dreams just finally met a truly understanding, humble, caring, protective man she would be beyond thankful that she finally met a real-life decent man. Basically he's thinking that a woman's unicorn is a perfect beta male and that they only date alpha douchebags because they don't see any other choice.

I used to think that way too. I have a very low tolerance for braggarts, liars, arrogance, and attention seekers. My big mistake was that I thought that because I could see those things so plainly in other guys and detested them for it so did women. I never realized that where I see arrogance, they see confidence. Where I see a braggart, they see someone with interesting accomplishments. Where I see an attention seeker, they see one who is worthy of attention. And we may very well both be right.

But it doesn't matter if those guys were all the things I thought they were. It works. Women like it. My opinions on whether a guy should seek attention or think he's king shit don't fucking matter. Women like it. I thought they didn't deep down and so I positioned myself to be that caring, thoughtful beta that I thought (hoped) they would stumble into and wind up having that best-friend-turned-boyfriend relationship I imagined they all really wanted. And of course, it never ever worked.

I of course have since realized that I couldn't have been more off the mark. The author of the article has not. He's still holding out hope that women will eventually recognize all those beta orbiters in their friendzones (which he is one I'm sure) as the great best friend soul mates they all want to be.

alfredo_linguini · 2014-10-18T05:40:01+00:00

New guys, read this and write a nice, thank-you letter to the author for handing you the exact recipe to seduction on a silver platter....except for the last point, I don't know what happened there. I think she overdosed on hamster juice.

brotherjustincrowe · 2014-10-18T10:13:00+00:00

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hur1n · 2014-10-18T15:05:06+00:00

Each of the things on this list are things that good men can do to good women to lead them to a good outcome on both sides. A man who has a woman's best interests in mind will use these points to save her from herself and give her a great night/fling/relationship despite herself. But that's what game is.

However, let's pretend for a second that this dude doesn't know what game is. My problem is that he is looking at the interaction between men and women and - as is typical - choosing to word it in a negative light instead of an optimistic one. It is written from a very negative perspective towards men. This is typical in your average piece of feminist propaganda.

I've rewritten the article (the bullet points) from the perspective of someone who sees the good in others, rather than someone who tries to see evil everywhere he looks:

10 telltale signs that the man hitting on you is probably a good guy:

~~They’ll pick on you. They’ll insult you.~~

They'll talk to you the way they talk to their guy friends. This will let you know they are comfortable around you, and are trying to make you comfortable around them.

~~They’ll give you attention and then divert it to another woman.~~

Even though they're interested in you ~~sexually~~ romantically, they will try to include your friends in the conversation, too.

~~They’ll hit on your less attractive friend.~~

They'll hit on your less attractive friend. Give her a high-five later in private, because I'm sure she'll thank you for bringing this self-esteem boost to her.

~~They’ll try their best to make you feel like you’re less valuable than you are.~~

They won't put you on a pedestal. They'll see you for who you really are - and they can appreciate it about you.

~~They’ll compliment you, but then make you feel like you could do better.~~

They will push you to do better. Everyone has more work to do; it's hard to find someone who will help point you in the right direction. If there's toilet paper stuck to the bottom of your shoe, ask yourself who you prefer: someone who tells you, or someone who can't handle the confrontation.

~~They do their best to make you feel as if they are doing you a favor by being interested in you.~~

A man of high value will probably have a lot going on in his life, maybe just like you. So don't take his interest for granted.

~~They flip back and forth from interested to uninterested in order to confuse you and make you divert your attention to them.~~

They will still need you to sell yourself; they won't just hook on after the first sight of cleavage. This is a sign of a grounded man - a quality man.

~~They want you to feel as if you need them. When it comes to picking up women for one-night stands, this usually means perks, such as money or admittance into select events.~~

If he is willing to help you get into events or pay for your cab fare, he's bringing more to the table than you are. Understand and appreciate that.

~~They will make sure you’re having a bad time so they can “save you” and show you a much better time.~~

If you were having a bad time before, you're not anymore now that he started talking to you.

Now, obviously, all this is only half true because Game is never that innocent and naive. A lot of the tactics are used with the intent of generating interest, just like the author said - but the rest of us know that she's gonna sleep with someone, so why not a) make it you, and b) say/do the things you know she needs to give her the best emotional time of her life.

But if the author of the article didn't know anything about game, I'd say he's a shit for trying to point out the bad in men instead of the good.

vandaalen · 2014-10-18T14:34:54+00:00

Nice guide for a women to find an alpha dick to jump on.

His pedestalizing of women is really pathetic and cringeworthy. Everything is written as if women shouldn't try to chase men who give them the tingles, because they are just too wonderful to do this and should feel like the object of desire.

It is kind of the same lie that we've been told with reversed roles. We shouldn't "harass" women because it's (insert random word)-rape and they should'nt chase us because they are too good for it.

So how exactly are we ever supposed to end up together then? Meditating, having an out-of-body experience and meeting our "soulmate" in the ether, or what?

uberpandajesus · 2014-10-18T12:09:59+00:00

The last one sounds like the Dennis system from always sunny.

trpSenator · 2014-10-18T17:10:51+00:00

Watch out for these guys sleeping with multiple women... Be careful, this is what they do. Now, beautiful women, now that you know what to look out for, will you please have sex with me? Please.... ^Pretty ^please...

RXRob · 2014-10-18T12:38:38+00:00

What's the greasy hair line?

ExpendableOne · 2014-10-18T15:08:29+00:00

Funny thing is, everyone of those would be things that women could avoid by just finding, and dating, the type of men they want or that wouldn't do this in the first place(i.e. nice guys). But why should women be held accountable for their choices or be expected to make any moves?! Both the article and the comments seem to promote this female princess mentality though.

TaylorWolf · 2014-10-18T16:54:41+00:00

"Guys want to take your self-esteem down a couple of notches, and to do so, they need to make you aware of your little flaws — flaws that every person has."

I don't think we necessarily want to. But that's what we are forced if we want her to be attracted to us. If we got results for doing the opposite, we would do that. LoL

SupALupRT · 2014-10-18T14:58:54+00:00

I'm always amused by these articles that act like a girl getting it in is the worst thing in the world and that they should guard themselves. If you're doing it right its a pretty good time for them too.

ShinyBrah · 2014-10-18T06:00:38+00:00

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clutch_guy · 2014-10-18T14:49:05+00:00

While reading this I kept thinking "hey, at-least she can rationalize whats going on" which is more than what I can say for any woman. But alas, it is our fellow white knight. And what a waste of an article for the target audience cause you can continue mansplaining it to women and they will continue to fall for it.

rickytickytappy · 2014-10-18T16:58:29+00:00

Prime post. One of the few I've seen here.

cover20 · 2014-10-18T17:36:40+00:00

Shame, shame, shame, didn't you read the disclaimer in bold in the article?

"This article isn’t supporting the methods of such pick-up artists, but rather reminding women to be on the lookout."

You are not supposed to read this article unless you are a woman trying to avoid the normal female role in interaction with males. Cheater! :)

cocaine_face · 2014-10-18T17:39:03+00:00

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2014-10-18T12:38:43+00:00

"Yes, this is what men will do to you just to get in your pants! How nasty and creepy they are, manipulating you and being proper assholes.. Obviously I'm not one of these assholes, after all I've just helped you out giving you the info. So how about we do dinner?"

RedRisingHood · 2014-10-18T10:53:54+00:00

That article is a shit test

3 years ago I would have read that and felt ashamed, "I am disgusting and need to change"

Now I'm just like "lol, who cares?"

2014-10-18T09:08:47+00:00

you know in an airport they ask you " did you pack your own stuff " and the author really needs to figure that one out and just go out there. cause someone packed RP munitions inside his brain.

Jessie_James · 2014-10-18T13:24:01+00:00

They will make sure you’re having a bad time so they can “save you” and show you a much better time.

I've never heard of men going out of their way to ruin nights to make their girl need them more, this point sounds more like some weird fantasy the author has.

That reminds me of a scene from the movie Hitch, where Hitch is teaching some guy to steal and then pretend to save some girls dog or something like that. Pretty pathetic, IMO, but maybe that's where the author got the idea.

Glenbert · 2014-10-18T13:51:02+00:00

Here's what's so funny to me about this: a girl reading this will assume that SHE is the object of desire. In fact, she may actually be the less-pretty back up plan.

aazav · 2014-10-18T17:16:48+00:00

Fuck with their hamster and their yours.

they're yours

their = something that belongs to them they're = they are

women feed off* emotion and drama

Transmigratory · 2014-10-18T18:32:37+00:00

That awkward moment when you realise the author is a dude.

Hydris · 2014-10-18T20:04:48+00:00

"Desperation at its finest! And a lot of work. Dear lord.. I never knew what the problem was with just being honest and saving all of these games by just using the simple and successful " wanna screw" line."

I love this comment. As if we do this shit because we want to. We do it because it works.

brotherjustincrowe · 2014-10-18T12:37:49+00:00

Combine this nonsense with the earlier feminist tripe about this sort of thing being "psychological torture to get sex, i.e. rape" and suddenly comics like this aren't even satire anymore. http://www.escapistmagazine.com/articles/view/comicsandcosplay/comics/critical-miss/12209-Fast-Track-To-Internet-Infamy

vicious_armbar · 2014-10-18T13:02:51+00:00

covert PUA tips interesting.

toph88241 · 2014-10-18T17:47:56+00:00

Its all a variation on supply and demand. Men do that because that's what works. If women picked men based on something other than 'what can he do for me' or 'how can he make me feel better about myself' then these wouldn't work and men wouldn't use them.

KyfhoMyoba · 2014-10-18T20:26:00+00:00

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Rafael-L-Smith · 2014-10-20T00:11:48+00:00

why do guys write articles like this? most dudes just don't get it, this guy's obviously seen enough of what works at getting women, so why isn't he using it?

ThisisMalta · 2014-10-18T14:10:58+00:00

I think the woman writing this should be more shocked by the fact that all of those things drive women crazy and directly into your bed---the author should be say "wtf women why do we like this shit? Oh well...thanks a lot evolution".|

Except the last one, that's bonkers.

ShinyBrah · 2014-10-18T08:52:00+00:00

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Title	'10 Ways Guys Try And Break You Down So That They Can Sleep With You' (Article Backfires/Great Guide For Those Just Starting Out)
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Date	October 18, 2014 5:15 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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