"I date men for the free dinners, and I don't feel bad about it"

feely3 · 2013-11-26T02:54:48+00:00

As always, I must advice men to NOT GET ANGRY.

If you could get free dinners from bitches(and you can!) and give nothing back, you would. I know because we do it ALL THE TIME.

Ever fuck a girl and never call her again--or only call when you wanna fuck again? Of course you have. You used her for what you wanted and gave nothing back.

GayLubeOil · 2013-11-26T04:54:07+00:00

Hey Guys, I just want to tell you about the Red Pill Charity im a part of. As we all know girls go on OK Cupid in order to get their egos fluffed. That is why I started the OK Cupid Self Esteem Reapportionment committee. The purpose of this organization is to talk shit to women on OK Cupid for the lulz. It got me laid a couple of times for some reason.

steadymotion · 2013-11-26T03:01:19+00:00

If I was a woman, I'd do the same thing.

XCowboyLowkesx · 2013-11-26T05:02:28+00:00

"I filter my matches on OKCupid by income (and then by height, of course). If he makes under a certain amount, or doesn’t list it at all, I won’t even see his profile, and that’s probably for the best"

 In society, it is A-OK for a women to do this. Even suggested and encouraged. But if a man wants to filter out results based on size and weight, PIG.

Remember that article where women's hamsters went postal when it was revealed that OK Cupid could let you actually do that? So many laughs were shared that day here

That article seems even more ridiculous now that I read this. I don't go on OK Cupid, but Jesus Christ, women can filter men based on income? Why don't you put a status filter in there for them while your at it. It amazes me how women feel entitled and justified when searching for men, but the moment men can filter their fat ass out, they turn into Gogeta and launch a spirit bomb proclaiming that we're misogynist pigs that 'can't handle a real women.'

And if this article stands to prove anything, it's that we were always 100% correct.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-11-26T02:33:32+00:00

I treat all women as if they are the author of this article.

PrisonerOfLife · 2013-11-26T03:32:49+00:00

As usual, Alpha > Omega > Beta

Omega doesn't get laid, but doesn't have to pay for shit either. Beta pays but doesn't get laid.

likechoklit4choklit · 2013-11-26T02:43:36+00:00

How does this woman not conform to everything TRP wants? She isn't so feministy. She judges men by the values that evolutionary psychology say leads to success (wealth, height) and she fucks some of those guys, just not most of them. 80/20 perhaps....She obviously has beliefs about what a strong high quality man is for her and she sounds like she is a clear thinker.

I, personally, think she's scum, but not because she accepts free fancy dinners. This woman has a belief about entitlement that rankles me to the core. She's hoping for a "Oh your a slim chick, well then, I guess you deserve to be on the arm of a successful rich man."

A lot of the examples of shitty women I see on TRP are sweet college girls who don't know shit and cant navigate the new world that has been thrust upon us, while re-runs of the world-that-was still try to train us. They are no different than college aged meatheads or hipsters, just girly versions of them. The woman in the article deserves way more derision than those youthful girls who are running on some autopilot of unexamined existence. She has examined shit, and has decided that obviously she deserves the best.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-11-26T02:42:35+00:00

What happens when she takes out a RP man and he wants to split the bill?

no_game_player · 2013-11-26T02:44:52+00:00

"I Date Men For The Free Dinners, And I Don’t Feel Bad About It"
Your ego is through the roof though.

"but you’d be surprised at how many men prefer the look of a smaller, natural, shapely breast."
Yeah, females pretty much invented that stereotype.

"What do I date them for? As the title suggests, it’s often dinner."
Please, please keep making articles. Youre arming me with kicking toys to use against other fascists.

"There is a life that I want to be a part of, and not because of who frequents it, but because of the visceral pleasure it provides."
You cant be without ripping some guy off. This pleases me greatly. Youll never have your dream.

"My job is good, but not good enough to provide this for myself. I enjoy what I do, and I’m good at it, but in my lifetime I doubt I’ll ever go much over 150k a year."
Poor princess.

"With my own money, I can have my apartment and my personal luxuries."
See, this is the thing. You could afford all this shit if you didnt somehow manage to not have money left over from your 'personal luxuries'.

"And as my gender condemns me to a lifetime of making less than the men I will date,"
Wrong. Get better at your job and youll get better promotions. Whats the matter, isnt it in your stupid magazines? Its all meant to be delivered on a platter? Id be happy with 50k a year, but i dont have a cunt. (Yes, 50. As opposed to your mere measly 150)

Yeah, im done reading this. This is blather.

ProductivityMonster · 2013-11-26T05:51:30+00:00

See, I think this only makes sense. The girl knows what she wants, and knows how to apply a strategy in real life to get what she wants. And she's honest about it. She understands that the way things are can be frustrating at times, but we can't just wish it better, we have to adapt.

I respect this, though obviously it's a bit frustrating for me. I wish people could see stuff like this whenever they criticize TRP.

Also, who the fuck wants dinner that badly? I'd rather not put in the effort.

pounds_not_dollars · 2013-11-26T06:13:11+00:00

I date women for sex... and I don't feel bad about it.

2013-11-26T05:44:22+00:00

Well, the men let themselves get used. Am I supposed to be feel sorry for them?

fruitofmyloom · 2013-11-26T03:59:03+00:00

And as my gender condemns me to a lifetime of making less than the men I will date, and being only further punished if I ever decide to settle down with one of them, it makes the most ethical sense for me to use them as a conduit to this way of life.
...
Eventually, I will settle down, I’m sure of it.

MahlerNinth · 2013-11-26T04:37:30+00:00

I can't really get upset reading this. Once in my bp days, I might have felt bad, but the sort of guys who will take such women out to Michelin starred places and insist on picking up the tab just because they imagine it adds an extra 0.05% to their chance of screwing her ultimately deserve what they get for such pathetic behavior.

And this is another reason I'm glad for TRP. I'm sure the rest of reddit will never get tired of telling us this is a place for misogynistic assholes who live in their mother's basements and have small dicks, but before I found this place a while ago, I was one of the saps behaving like the idiots she's making fun of here.

PlusGoody · 2013-11-26T06:16:59+00:00

Are there really guys who would take a woman to a Michelin-starred restaurant without some very serious evidence of reciprocal interest? I've never heard of this and I've known some extremely blah dudes with extremely high ambitions in women who would totally do this if it were a thing to be done.

2013-11-26T06:56:45+00:00

Well, at least she's honest about her motivations, which is more than can be said for the vast majority of them.

benczi · 2013-11-26T09:19:24+00:00

Women, who actually look good, they look good by choice, and work and sweat. They understand that we as men will look at their bodies and judge them. (If she can't take care of her own body, how will she take care of mine?) I have seen dating sites, don't use them really since they are not mainstream where I live, but let me make one point perfectly clear, this girl is right, the first thing we as men look at are the pictures. If the girl in the picture isn't attractive, why even bother reading about her personality? The filters are there to make our browsing easier. Nothing more, nothing less. She has already decided the kind of man she wants to meet. Any real man should also have a clear picture of the kind of girl he wants to meet.

This girl gets it. She gets how things are working today. She gets that she has an opportunity that most other girls just don't even see, or refuse to acknowledge, or just aren't qualified for it. Why would anyone be angry at her for using her resources to the maximum of her abilities?

mydarkmeatrises · 2013-11-26T09:32:32+00:00

Don't worry, she'll age and the pool of men she doesn't "feel bad" for using will dwindle.

Makes_U_Mad · 2013-11-26T11:23:39+00:00

But what will she do when she hits the wall? I doubt very seriously that she will be able to find a 6'+ $100k+ beta. Might be interesting to see how the hamstering starts.

cossackman · 2013-11-26T12:49:12+00:00

The problem with her plan is that most guys on online dating websites are usually unemployed or low income - someone who is hypothetically making a lot of money is persumably a hard worker who doesn't have time to waste on online dating websites.

ONline dating websites do take a lot of them. I used to screw around with them but realized it took 5 minutes to read a profile, another 5 minutes to send a message and it ends up being time wasted if you never hear back.

2013-11-26T05:26:56+00:00

I use the bathroom on crazy bitches and disappear leaving them with the check, and mate.... my hand

ajswdf · 2013-11-26T04:23:31+00:00

Let's be honest, most guys would do the same exact thing if given the opportunity. I've told my female friends before that they should take full advantage of their looks. If people will buy you free shit, let them.

My girlfriend's kind of like this too. In our relationship we split stuff 50/50, but her plan is to marry a rich guy when she's 28. I asked her if she would cheat on her beta husband for somebody she found actually attractive and she said "No, why would I want to risk my money?"

EDIT: Is there an example of a beta husband staying with his wife despite her cheating on him? I'm sure there's plenty of examples out there. I'm not sure why, but I feel like helping my girlfriend get as much out of her future ex-husband as possible.

tomganks · 2013-11-26T06:57:51+00:00

If your first instinct when reading this was to feel pity for these betas for being such chumps instead of resenting this woman for getting free dinners, you've swallowed the pill.

mydarkmeatrises · 2013-11-26T09:30:43+00:00

Well, when a man decides that he wants to use you for sex, then you shouldn't "feel bad about it".

through_a_ways · 2013-11-26T05:56:41+00:00

social value

The author and one of the comments are confusing "social value" for "sexual value".

2013-11-26T15:17:27+00:00

Any of her dates could insist that the check be split. They pay for the possibility of more than dinner. It just so happens that the deck is loaded against them without their knowledge.

Ever buy an album that was crap except for one song, or pay someone to do a job that did shoddy work? Same thing. Caveat emptor applies to the dating world no less than the marketplace for goods and services.

Plenty of times I've had a check split on a date when the girl seemed cordial but not terribly into me. Usually I'll offer to get drinks at the next place in case I was misapprehending her interest level.

If you don't want to get taken for free dinners, don't pay for her dinner. It's just that simple. Sometimes a guy can't get a clear read as to whether she's interested in a sexual connection with him. If he still wants to roll the dice by paying for dinner to see if her gratefulness is going to include sex, he should go right ahead and roll the dice. Don't whine if you don't get what you hoped for. That's just how dating works. Don't like it? Don't date.

JohnPeel · 2013-11-26T16:02:48+00:00

Caveat emptor - buyer beware.

mybudwin · 2013-11-26T17:10:04+00:00

I respect the honesty and think she would make a good friend/wingwoman. She knows her shit stinks and isn't afraid to smell it; the dark triad in female form. A pat on the back goes to the alpha that attempts to tame that.

VZPurp · 2013-11-26T17:59:05+00:00

Easy fix: Don't pay for women.

It's your fault if you get used by women, because you allow it to happen. They're only preying on the weak.

2013-11-26T19:58:48+00:00

tl;dr: "I like beta bucks"

2013-11-26T21:27:34+00:00

The part that really made me angry was how she blamed men for the fact that she's not rich.

BoyMeetsHarem · 2013-11-26T03:25:54+00:00

I'm torn between pitying the poor saps she's taking advantage of and wishing her to get rectal cancer.

But the second thing is really just my baggage and I expect it to go away in the next year with some consistent reflection over how things really are.

Title	"I date men for the free dinners, and I don't feel bad about it"
Author	hyorilee
Upvotes	96
Comments	124
Date	November 26, 2013 2:16 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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