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Catching onitits for a side piece

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August 17, 2019
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Alright guys I believe I am an idiot and am full of shit when I say this girl is checking all of the boxes.

Short story of my journey

Was a stereotypical nice guy, only thing I hung on to was working out but with crazy low T still was not much to look at (have put on 25 quality pounds since)

Found MRP and struggled to swallow the pill, still may be swimming around in my gut.

Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Models, Practical Female Psychology, Book of Pook, and some other things I felt fit me personally

I am a small guy but pretty damn fit, my frame is is solid... work is going great, sex with my wife has gone from deadbedroom to sex acts I have never experiances before.

My weakness... my sex drive has been all over the place since starting TRT a bit over a year ago. It came back strong, then quickly diminished. Recently I have been questioning if the issue is just my wife. She is rather overweight, she is up for anything and even though there are frequent soft no's I can pretty much get laid whenever Iwant.

Lately I have been really contemplating this, is my sex drive low or do I just not want to fuck my slutty but overweight wife?

I still dont have much game (conventionally attractive so had good luck when I was young and single) but have still pushed myself to flirt and interact with women, no concidance have been more successful the past month or two while I have been most consistent with my diet and exercise.

Current issue: one woman who is much more attractive then my wife is telling me these things

I want the 1950s housewife stuff

I greet you with a drink on my knees

And then tend to dinner

Is that weird Sir?

I have worked since I was 12

I don’t depend on anyone

I was ready to walk away from my wife, she turned into a slutty and competent first mate.... new recruite comes along while I am questioning my attraction to my wife.

The stay plan needs to be the same as the go plan.... but I was already having a mental struggle about stay vs. go, and I don't think new girl is a wise decision... however she claims to check all the boxes that I have not communicated with her.

Male branch swinging, is that a thing?


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Title Catching onitits for a side piece
Author NoCoast82
Upvotes 10
Comments 32
Date 17 August 2019 06:37 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askMRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/249186
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/criorx/catching_onitits_for_a_side_piece/
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[–]RisingUpAgain37 points38 points  (1 child) | Copy

The “I don’t depend on anyone,” and “I want the 1950’s housewife thing,” are entirely incongruent and more likely than not this bitch is crazy.

[–]An_Actual_Politician1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

They all are, in the most predictable sense possible. This side chick is on her hustle for that promotion so she can win half of OP's shit (under threat of government).

Blue pill guys watch that carrot on a stick drift off into the horizon, never to be realized.

[–]umizumiz29 points30 points  (0 children) | Copy

How fat we talking here?

[–]RedPill-BlackLotusRed Beret20 points21 points  (3 children) | Copy

Check all the boxes. What the fuck man. Is the full of shit box on there?

Trt ends as many marriages as it saves.

What is it that YOU want. Do you want to be in a committed relationship or do you want to spin plates?

Branch swing is to another ltr and that's retarded.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Big +1 on TRT.

You are not the same human being after.

[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Branch swing is to another ltr and that's retarded.

OP acting like a chick, and this is why:

Book of Pook, and some other things I felt fit me personally

Gotta read the whole sidebar, not pick and choose

[–]hack3geRed Beret4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Trt ends as many marriages as it saves.

I thought maybe it was just me but I now have this unshakeable desire to leave and just do whatever the fuck I want for the rest of my life.

Perhaps this is inevitable if you were a career beta and made your choice when you were a different person.

[–]RedPillPadwan13 points14 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get a second side piece. That will cure your oneitis quick.

[–]Redpillbrigade1712 points13 points  (4 children) | Copy

I almost stopped reading when you wrote “she tells me...” she’s amazing etc. Of course she does.

Look through the BS. Follow 17th Commandment of Poon (and of course all others): ignore all she says, watch what she does.

Your choices are to (1) maybe slowly try to open your marriage up. See if your fat wife is OK with you banging other women. Maybe while she watches or joins in.

(2) cheat, do that behind wife s back. All sorts of risks.

(3) divorce, go live independently, go bang whoever you want.

(4) force yourself to stay monogamous.

Now it’s up to you to outline pros and cons of each path, try things out, see what is best.

You’re welcome.

[–]NoCoast82[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

(1) maybe slowly try to open your marriage up. See if your fat wife is OK with you banging other women. Maybe while she watches or joins in.

(2) cheat, do that behind wife s back. All sorts of risks.

(3) divorce, go live independently, go bang whoever you want.

(4) force yourself to stay monogamous.

I think this is exactly why I allowed myself to have such a moronic thought process in this situation... I am trying to figure out which option suits what I want best.

I need to figure that out before I can move forward with anything, the wifes here and committed so no reason to risk blowing that up before I even know what I want for myself.

[–]Cody_Silver2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Myabe the fat wife could eat popcorn while watching; Everbody is happy; Win/Win/Win.

[–]hack3geRed Beret1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Don’t you love it when guys here take what their wives say on face value - it’s fucking hilarious.

I have the opposite problem of OP - wife tells me I’m an asshole and I don’t care about her yet she is fucking me daily.

[–]The_LitzRed Beret6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

You haven't slept with her and you got oneites?

Brother, you need the sidebar ASAP.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dat NRE bro

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep going, and you'll find that a lot of women who are much more attractive than your wife will tell you all kinds of shit to try to get you to come around.

Ignore the fact that this woman exists for a moment, and in that moment, decide how you want to handle your wife because that's the more important question.

[–]ChokingDownRPRed Beret6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

You have undoubtedly been running your mouth too much, telling this side piece what YOU want. She would like to secure your provisioning for herself, so she's checking the boxes you told her you want checked. AWALT. My wife used to tell me she loved sucking my dick, thinks sex should be at least once a day, etc. It's a new relationship, it's exciting, it's "dangerous." Of course she seems great, she hasn't put the beta in it's cage yet.

If your only complaint with your wife is that she's fat, lead her better and/or wait for the rope to tighten (she'll sense that you're better looking than her and she'll start improving or risk getting left behind). I'm down 60lbs and have added significant muscle since 1/2018... Only a month or so ago did my wife start working out and eating better.

[–]helaughsinhidden3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

one woman who is much more attractive then my wife is telling me these things

Who cares? Women will say anything. Their mouth noises mean absolutely nothing. She might be trying to "just see" if she can spin YOU as a plate (orbiter) and use you as an emotional tampon too.

Found MRP and struggled to swallow the pill, still may be swimming around in my gut.

No shit, you're a bonafide normie. No OYS postings, no field reports, nothing to suggest you didn't just find this TODAY. You are in relationships, deadbedrooms, and testosterone subs. I hardly see anything about MRP or TRP and the advice you give is, well, normie advice. That doesn't really matter though, it's the fact that you are still "hanging" in the place where losers are losing. There's no successful people in there to emulate. In fact, the only "happy" people are the ones who quit the relationship and leave. You're at least getting sex now, that's a rare testimony in that sub.

I was ready to walk away from my wife, she turned into a slutty and competent first mate.... new recruite comes along while I am questioning my attraction to my wife.

I am absolutely not a fan of divorce. A lot of guys in here vary, but most would agree that you don't seem to know shit about what you want in the first place, so there's no way you could honestly vet someone for a position you haven't even defined.

Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Rational Male, Models, Practical Female Psychology, Book of Pook, and some other things I felt fit me personally

How are you reading (present tense) eight books at once? You haven't an ounce of wisdom internalized from those books yet. Start with NMMNG and actually read it COVER TO COVER. This isn't like being a Catholic where you are expected to own a bible but discouraged from reading it yourself. Put in the work.

CUT THE SHIT!!

Post your stats, mission, and everything else listed on there. As far as I can tell, you are "an idiot and full of shit", but there isn't much to go on here except you get oneitis like for a girls you call a "side piece" but honestly I don't even think you are having sex with her, because you said in your post history that you aren't.

[–]NoCoast82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Who cares? Women will say anything. Their mouth noises mean absolutely nothing.

This is the part my brain got hung up on, was much clearer minded this AM. Got caught off guard by someone telling me everything I want to hear, even though I had never communicated those ideas. had a faggot ass "she really gets me!" moment

How are you reading (present tense) eight books at once?

Past tense, several twice... new I was being weak so posted my puke for someone to come along and set me straight. I have made steady improvements in my life but tried to move on to higher education before having the mindset 100% solid.

As far as I can tell, you are "an idiot and full of shit", but there isn't much to go on here except you get oneitis like for a girls you call a "side piece"

I will take the idiot part 100%

[–]Madhatter7477 points8 points  (3 children) | Copy

Next time she tries to seduce you, say nah but you know what'll really turn me on? Seeing your sweaty ass running on my treadmill naked. She'll take the hint if she wants to. Otherwise, If you haven't already, try dread gaming your wife into losing weight. If she still doesn't lose the weight, swing to the better branch; women do all the time why shouldn't we.

[–]NoCoast82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

try dread gaming your wife into losing weight.

I need to increase the dread for sure, she is losing weight but obviously the incentive is not there to be working harder at it. That falls on me

[–]classic7290 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

“If you haven't already, try dread gaming your wife into losing weight. “

I didn’t know this was a thing. Please, enlighten me. I thought dread game was just for sex.

[–]Red-Nerd135 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dread is used to get someone to do what you want them to do. It's only effective if you're worth the hassle. Sex is the low hanging fruit for most guys doing trp/MRP.

[–]Cmvplease22 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

You have to choose and own that choice

What are your choices?

[–]fla-guy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Keep in mind the new girl is willing to ignore your commitment to the wife. So after a couple of months where is her commitment to you going to be? My guess not looking at what she has just taken but elsewhere.

[–]ReddJiveRed Beret2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Male branch swinging, is that a thing?

Yes and you’re doing it.

You have got to stop holding so much value to sex. Sex is not money. Sex is not love. Sex does not hold any additional value besides reaching a moment of ecstasy.

A women who doesn’t value you, but wants to take advantage of your money or other things, has no problem opening up her legs and saying whatever she needs to in order make you think everything is all going to be great between the you.

[–]Reasonably_Honest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Man, she sounds like quite the prize. Snap out of it, have you read anything?

[–]red-sfpplusHard Core Red0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Male branch swinging, is that a thing?

If you are gay, yeah.

[–]tspitsatgp-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

You should definitely branch swing. She sounds like a winner.

[–]vplatt2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Found the troll!

[–]NoCoast82[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah in the light of day this seems like the best plan



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