Biggest way you improved your game?

Schhwing · 2019-09-09T02:57:19+00:00

Hygiene, cologne, appearance, fashion, fitness are instant improvers. Long term improvers are inner game/self improvement/lifestyle improvement.

fuckGuilt · 2019-09-09T03:01:17+00:00

Lifting, and it's not even close.

I've never been ugly....in fact, I've always been good looking.

I'm guessing you were born years after the first time I married, in '95.

And I'm telling you, I never drew more attention than I do now, except perhaps in my senior year of high school when my hair nearly reached my waist (pro tip: don't have long hair unless you're very, very masculine)

TheCiph3r · 2019-09-09T05:37:59+00:00

Doing cold apporaches every day. I just go on my life then approach on my way home or to work to be more effecient in time. Daygame helps me to be more witty on the spot and confident to talk to people so when the venue is more social it is so damn easy to talk to girls because you’re like “fuck i can approach strangers and have insta dates on them, approaching a set is nothing in this party”

Next is hanging out with someone who is a true alpha. Good way to learn is to find someone who is really good, breakdown their game and see what they do good. I found someone who has intense focus and mastery in his career and has more plates than a porcelain factory in China. Whenever we are at a party and he brings a plate, I observe how he interacts with them. He also gives me advice when I screw shit up and always reminds me that “fuck bro, move on it’s just one girl”

But for real, the best way is to game yourself, Approach strangers, go on dates, talk to women on dating apps and try to breakdown all of them and see what you did wrong and right. You could lift all you want, read posts in this sub and books, learn from alphas but you won’t learn something unless you try it yourself. I read someone from this sub commented “Approaching for 1 hour is so much better than reading a book about game” It’s like playing an instrument, you can’t be a master in Guitar by just air guitaring every night to Metallica.

gbnz87 · 2019-09-09T04:25:25+00:00

Talking to a lot of women.

Once you get a few positive reactions it just snowballs from there.

Uncle_Ps_Party · 2019-09-09T06:29:27+00:00

43 swm here, been in IT and overweight for a few years. Hit the weights hardcore late last winter, lost fat, put on muscle, shaved head, grew the goat, and had a young 20 something chick approach me at the bookstore today. And no, she didn't work there Lol

ngyuhnang · 2019-09-09T06:53:29+00:00

For me it’s fashion. I haven’t lifted yet (5’6 and 135) but I’ve noticed that girls on the street started to check me out and the chicks I hang out with all say I look stylish and good looking.

0io- · 2019-09-09T04:32:24+00:00

Lifting is key, but a lot of game is just numbers. Talk to more strangers. The girl who just got married may have a cousin or a sister. People may invite you places you haven't been. If you run into a group of people and there are girls in the group you want to talk to, talk to one of the guys in the group first. The girls will come introduce themselves to you. If you meet a lot more people in general, you're going to meet a lot more girls who want to hook up. Just like going to the gym is better than not going to the gym, making another approach is better than sitting there trying to decide if you should approach and missing the opportunity.

Nomfwic · 2019-09-09T12:30:43+00:00

Lifting.

It improves : your posture, health, makes you look capable and strong, adds confidence and teaches dicipline.

Im sure there's more.

BeetaAF · 2019-09-09T13:28:50+00:00

Slowly working your way to having abundance.

Don't get me wrong, not being fat (I ain't ripped), good clothes, good haircut, good job, having fun, being happy and having your shit together all help with confidence.

But, there is nothing more confidence building and being solid in your frame when you're already smashing several plates. Once you're there its like life and women on easy mode, because you lose the anxiety and the game flows naturally.

Appreciate the catch 22 of what I've just said. You've just got to chip away at it, and you'll finally swallow the red pill rather than having only put it in your mouth.

Much luck to you sir.

embracingtheredpill · 2019-09-09T06:08:21+00:00

Go out and do it. Getting market tested was way better than theorising. I learnt a lot about my strengths and deficiencies in the sexual marketplace

woyspawn · 2019-09-09T15:49:56+00:00

Social dancing lessons.

RPthrowaway123 · 2019-09-09T16:22:22+00:00

I was already in good shape, for most of my life I have been anyways. Biggest thing for me was to stop giving off signs of neediness. I read a rule once on here, always take at least as long to text back as it took her to text you. I started holding to that and it's done wonders. I was talking too much, giving away too much before I even met for a date. It projected immense neediness and a general appearance of me not having anything better to do.

pro_cion · 2019-09-09T13:29:25+00:00

Stopping being "a nice guy". That was a huge problem for me, as every date that I had was purely platonic, until I've read Rollo's book and found out what TRP is.

It's funny that neither men nor women want to have exclusively friendly chit-chat dates, but I just didn't know that it's okay to constantly show that I'm physically interested in a girl, I thought that it could turn them off.

readingblastoise · 2019-09-09T07:52:41+00:00

understanding your brain, mind, psychology and the science of attraction

also, meditation for "inner game"

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2019-09-09T09:14:33+00:00

Having multiple plates and being in an LTR (not together, mind).

Both improved my confidence.

BusterVadge · 2019-09-09T13:33:54+00:00

Lifting. Smiling a little more (getting rid of the resting bitch face).

Jailhouseredpilled93 · 2019-09-23T17:21:11+00:00

Intermittent fasting.

off_myself · 2019-09-09T06:12:08+00:00

This post and most of the comments consolidated together:

I basically change my appearance, waste my money, spend my time in the gym, acquire the finest of cologne, read books on women, and establish a career to get more women to like me! How does one read a book on acquiring women? That would be like reading a book, on a book, about a book, in which no one figured out why they made the last two. Why not read something of actual substance? The perfect encapsulation of beta.

How much do you have to change, in order to get pussy? Also, if you have to do that much, I think one can argue that it is not even worth it. It's so easy to get women, why change anything? It's the equivalent, to a dog and a bone. You find a bone, and toss it outside! BOOM! A woman!

Title	Biggest way you improved your game?
Author	lotrfan12345
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Comments	54
Date	September 9, 2019 2:37 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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