Q4all: can you frame a RP concept to make it female friendly?

TheGreasyPole · 2018-09-03T12:46:25+00:00

Sure you can, at least for most concepts. They’re just deliberately not phrased that way on RP and phrasing them that way will lose at least some of the effect they’re intended to have on males.

I would say that phrasing then that way would also probably lose some of the information content as well, but the way they’re phrased on TRP for the benefit of males loses similar informational content in any case.

Gravel_Roads · 2018-09-03T12:49:56+00:00

It wouldn't be RP anymore. RP doesn't explore anything new or revolutionary - it's just a handful of behaviors that increase men's chance of getting sex while decreasing a female's resistance to sex. Some are healthy, some are not. But none are new.

RP just takes these concepts and gives them cringe names like "amused mastery" and "dread game" to make them appeal to the fedora-wearing edgelords who need the social game.

SuperDende9000 · 2018-09-03T14:06:33+00:00

(Soft) Dread Game — when your man does the same shit that kept you horny in your younger years instead of turning into a lazy slob like most married guys do

Eastuss · 2018-09-03T13:04:12+00:00

Women already frame RP concepts to make it female friendly all the time.

Something lot of men have always been told:

Women are shallow when they're young, when they get older and wiser, they prefer more balanced men, who have their life together.

Is just a positively formulated way of talking about AF/BB and the Wall.

It's what I always have a hard time with BP people, most RP concepts have always been popular beliefs, but RP simply exposes it as what it really looks like when you put out the women's filter.

AlanHalworth · 2018-09-03T12:56:45+00:00

Here is my attempt at explaining "shit test":

It's common for people to tease each other, joke around, and get a little upset when it's irrational to do so. Men do it, and women do it. People have to find ways of dealing with this "non-serious" behavior that doesn't involve taking the behavior hyper-seriously. That is, when your boyfriend gets mildly upset in a somewhat irrational way, it would be bad to immediately say "OMG I'm so sorry" if you know you're not in the wrong. Now, some men have a tendency to take everything women do super-seriously. Therefore, they invented the idea of a "shit test": an incident where a woman says something that shouldn't be taken hyper-seriously and literally.

The point of a shit test is not that _everything_ women say should be taken as humor. The point is that men who are bad at recognizing humor should learn to recognize it. Also, the point is not that women are out to get you or deliberately testing you. The point is that if you take her jokes and teasing hyper-seriously, she will start to think you are a little weird. And if you apologize abjectly every time she gets a little annoyed, you will come across like a doormat. Since these men do in fact take everything hyper-seriously, they came up with a hyper-serious name for this phenomenon: the "shit-test."

flamingoinghome · 2018-09-03T13:17:21+00:00

I mean, you could just admit that the stuff that's not balls-crazy (60%, roughly) is gender neutral?

"Hey female friend, you know how guys are really into crazy party girls in bandage dresses when they're in college, but when they're like 30 they tend to think those girls are kind of gross and don't want to date them? Yeah, some of them didn't realize that a lot of us are the same."

"Hey FF, you know how Joe dumped Amy after she put on all that weight and quit school to take internet quizzes all day? Yeah, if Tim did something like that, Megan would totally dump him too--but since he's attractive and has his shit together, she's super-into him. Apparently this is news to some of these internet guys."

etc.

sublimemongrel · 2018-09-03T16:57:46+00:00

Sure that just begs the question of whether it’s still “red pill.” Their language is intended to convey a particular message/connotation. If you remove that to make it “PC” or whatever you’ve altered that message, even if there’s still a similar core premise.

This ties into the whole “what is or isn’t red pill” thing. If we are going to expand “red pill” to mean anything/everything related to some core premise than a whole lot of shit is “red pill”.

Willow-girl · 2018-09-04T13:06:26+00:00

Good luck explaining to her how she's just the oldest teenager in the house (especially if she's an MBA with a 6-figure job, lol).

Mr_Smoogs · 2018-09-03T12:38:18+00:00

Why would you want to? RP is written in such a way as to keep women out because if women felt welcome there they would dilute the good advice.

Hystericalprince · 2018-09-03T12:34:21+00:00

Then it's not an RP concept anymore if you do that, they even admit that they make it edgy and offensive on purpose.

goatismycopilot · 2018-09-03T12:41:20+00:00

Can you do that Smoogs?

blackedoutfast · 2018-09-03T19:16:16+00:00

sexy exciting alpha males vs nice reliable boring beta males

_THE_END_IS_NIGH_ · 2018-09-03T15:25:39+00:00

So this thread is basically admittance that the concepts are true b- but but but mysogyny in the words!!!!!

Lol.

Why even care about words like "plate", not like you are ever gonna discuss Reddit IRL, if you do you are fucking weird lol.

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[deleted] · 2018-09-03T14:33:07+00:00

MRP: married blokes getting in shape, trying to help the family become more productive, happy and organised. They say it isn't to get a better sex life, but often it does seem to be. Bonuses are you aren't picking up his clothes from beside the hamper or rinsing the hair from the sink after he shaves, because he's finally Owning His Shit

NalkaNalka · 2018-09-03T15:01:44+00:00

Of course. It's easy for any non sperg.

Whisper · 2018-09-10T07:06:58+00:00

You seem to have mistaken inoffensive for friendly.

DaphneDK42 · 2018-09-03T13:07:08+00:00

Hypergamy = Drive to select the best parent possible for the best of the children and of the species.

Female Solipsism = Single minded focus on the survival and wellbeing of the children.

Title	Q4all: can you frame a RP concept to make it female friendly?
Author	Mr_Smoogs
Upvotes	4
Comments	120
Date	September 3, 2018 12:28 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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