Women of PPD, what does smart "girl game" consist of in your opinion?

Please be as detailed as possible!

My female friend wants to game men.

I told her that women are supposed to just be receptive/open to being gamed, and let the men game them.

It's the idea that women don't need game. (I suppose that you could still cultivate game regardless of whether you need it...)

Somebody told me that a woman just has to (1) "show up and be pretty" and (2) "find her Thing and work it."

(By "Thing" they meant: Are you Cute or Sexy or...I can't recall the other archetypes. Can you guys help me out regarding the other female archetypes that women can discover in themselves and "work?" For example, shy/awkward/introverted women should cultivate/"work" the "Cute" archetype...)

My friend thinks that these are good "girl game" strategies:

  • withhold sex (why?)

  • play them hot and cold (why?)

  • intermittent/sporadic contact (again, why?)

She says you have to "withhold sex after contact" and "create a personality dichotomy" and "have options."

But "that's the in-person stuff" (as opposed to texting, I guess).

She says "there're different ways to seduce/play someone."

She says she loves sex and has a high sex-drive so she often messes up Phase #2 ("withhold sex after contact"). I would love to know what all the different "Phases" are...

She says the basics are:

  • love yourself and do what you want at all times

  • know who you are and play to your strengths

  • only go after people that give you an actual reaction (otherwise you're wasting time/energy)