The only difference is that bluepillers rely on "unique snowflake magic" and redpillers rely on "hard work" to get there.

Bluepillers believe that all humans are unique and special and have completely different tastes, so that anyone is entitled to a relationship with some equally unique human being. Don't mind how then they go around blaming incels for being "entitled"; complete lack of self-awareness is a common trait among the deluded. Now watch all the bluepillers backpedal literally out of existence("bro bluepillers don't say anything. It's not a movement or ideology. When challenged or confronted we have no opinions whatsoever. Be like water bro")

Redpillers believe in hard work. Follow these simple five TRP steps and you too can become a perfect slayer! While their core worldview is basically opposite of the bluepillers'(AHALT instead of snowflakes), their "solution" is just as simple and equally guaranteed. Even /u/GuitarsAreGettingOld, who wrote an excellent post that essentially kicks incels out of TRP, even he couldn't take that extra step and plainly say that if you're omega, you're fucked period. While his post was not meant as an advice for omegas, it certainly paints a road for them - it's just longer: yes, you suck badly, but if you work hard, you can become a beta, and then you can follow TRP advice all the way to alphahood.

Neither movement("bro, bluepill is not a movement, we never said that") seems to acknowledge that hopeless cases can even exist. Customary sports analogy: a dude without arms wants to play basketball. Bluepill tells him("yo bro we never said that") to just try forever and eventually he'll get into NBA. Redpill gives him a Spring Power 5000 fitness plan and tells him that if he can only learn to dribble with his arm-stubs he'll get into NBA.

Neither side is willing to admit that without arms, the best you can get is a YOU TRIED medal at the pity-party that is paraolympics.