Question for RP: Do you think that women who are attracted to tall men with broad shoulders love these men "for who they are"?

Littleknownfacts · 2016-12-09T21:22:52+00:00

No, they just want him for his seed.

Littleknownfacts · 2016-12-09T21:23:44+00:00

nah they just want his sperm to make tall babies, plus height in men makes women wet so

drok007 · 2016-12-09T21:48:48+00:00

All I'm saying is, objectifying a woman and treating her like a cherished possession is love. Because all the other traits don't matter. It makes it intrinsic to their existence. If they exist as a hot girl, they exist as a hot girl. Men don't exist as wallets, men have wallets. It's not intrinsic, it's something external that is gained.

If a woman is objectifying a man, that's pretty chill. It would be nice if everyone could be objectified.

louplop · 2016-12-09T21:56:26+00:00

I would usually consider these type of women more superficial than a woman who likes a man for his career or accomplishments.

Then I want to be loved by shallow women.

I don't want to be loved for my accomplishments.

DucksCanDance · 2016-12-09T21:25:27+00:00

Your bulleted points aren't correct.

Loving for who you are is more like -- looks plus the way you relate to the world and your sense of humor, probably social status and accomplishments to some degree

Loving for what you can do is when you reduce social status and accomplishments to tangible things like, e.g., cold hard cash, but it can also be your ability to get stuff due to status and connections

Athenarises · 2016-12-09T21:52:35+00:00

then are the women who tend to chase after tall or hot men more romantic than the average woman?

No, they're more sexually attracted to these men than they are to other men. And yeah, they love those men for "who they are", i.e. for their bodies, because that's part of who they are.

Women aren't romantic. They're either sexually attracted, or interested for commitment. But they're not romantic.

PoopInMyBottom · 2016-12-09T23:12:03+00:00

No. Because they don't love him, they're just attracted to him.

A certain level of attractiveness is a prerequisite for falling in love, for most people. It isn't the sole reason, it's one component. Very few people are going to fall in love with you if you have a chiselled jawline but you are mute.

This is a strawman question. What do you hope to achieve by asking it? Are you really advancing your knowledge?

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[deleted] · 2016-12-09T21:37:29+00:00

I think those attributes represent security and safety. In that since women who look for those traits are average women. They all want safety and security they just have different strategies and "resources" for obtaining that goal.

disposable_pants · 2016-12-10T01:43:20+00:00

If this is the case, then are the women who tend to chase after tall or hot men more romantic than the average woman?

Red pillers don't have a problem with women chasing after tall, hot men; they have a problem with women (and by extension, gynocentric society) preaching that other traits are what's really important... all the while still chasing after tall, hot men.

prodigy2throw · 2016-12-10T03:12:29+00:00

They never seem to love ugly guys for "who they are". Weird how that works

despisedlove2 · 2016-12-10T06:49:38+00:00

Women never love men for who they are. They "love" them for what they can provide - resources, status, orgasms, etc. Men are inherently disposable commodities to women.

caesarfecit · 2016-12-10T08:15:50+00:00

False either-or.

Anyone who says looks don't matter is full of shit.

Anyone who says looks are the only thing that matters is full of shit.

Don't forget also OP that there are plenty of vain, shallow, and insecure people who chase trophy mates. And in my experience, it's more common with women than men, but its definitely present on the male side too. And the first criteria of a trophy mate, regardless of gender is good looks, because its the most obvious.

[deleted] · 2016-12-10T11:31:50+00:00

Also, to the blackpillers who think that genetics is the only thing that matters

''Black Pill'' is a very nebulous term. ''Black Pill'' basically equates to nihilism, and an attempt to see reality for what it really is.

This is easier said than done, of course, as no-one can truly scrape off childhood inculcations, and biases and prejudices.

The people who claim ''looks are everything'' are in the same state of delusion as every other person who draws a ridiculously self-supporting conclusion to their un-nuanced world-view.

[deleted] · 2016-12-10T16:59:17+00:00

She loves him still for what he can do. Tallness and broadness is selected for because strength and athleticism.

ScarletNumbers · 2016-12-11T14:54:55+00:00

Attraction to looks = loving someone for who they are

I disagree with this premise. Liking someone for who they are means liking someone for something that can be easily changed.

Nagicman1 · 2016-12-11T23:06:34+00:00

I would rather have a girl who's with me for my face and who I am as a person than being with me because I have lots of status and money. Girls who go after guys with status are no different than whores imo.

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Title	Question for RP: Do you think that women who are attracted to tall men with broad shoulders love these men "for who they are"?
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Date	December 9, 2016 9:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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