Hey men. Regardless of career. Let's just say you have your dream job. If you have lots of random sex with super hot chicks would it make you happy forever?

betterdeadthanbeta · 2016-01-08T13:54:39+00:00

Yes. Yes it would

mrcs84usn · 2016-01-08T15:25:37+00:00

Look at a lot of celebrities: Your rock stars, athletes, actors, etc. For all intents and purposes, they have their dream jobs and are very capable of having lots of hot wild monkey sex with SMV 9s and 10s. Yet some of them still are super depressed, turn to drugs, kill themselves and whathaveyou. Men aren't so mindless that we can be completely satiated by working and fucking. Once a certain desire becomes more of a commonplace, we find other things to chase after.

alreadyredschool · 2016-01-08T13:54:26+00:00

No. I want to stay with my girlfriend. That would make me happy forever. Money would definitely help though.

[deleted] · 2016-01-08T14:06:17+00:00

No. My dream job is my mission. Because of that mission and job, I am able to construct the life I want, live how I want, where I want, with whom I want. This makes me happy.

From this there are two conclusions I can reach.

1) Super hot chicks having random sex with me adds to my happiness. But the sex does not in and of itself, without the other things, make me happy.

2) Being able to attract super hot chicks for random sex is a side effect of my happiness. It is an effect, not a cause, of my happiness.

EDIT: I have just summarized 95% of The Red Pill subreddit for you, in four paragraphs. You're welcome.

GaiusScaevolus · 2016-01-08T15:26:20+00:00

would it make you happy forever?

No. But it'd be like having a nice car or a lifetime supply of pizza, wouldn't solve all my problems, but it'd still be nicer than not.

[deleted] · 2016-01-08T16:06:15+00:00

Well, it wouldn't bring me misery

[deleted] · 2016-01-08T16:47:41+00:00

Yes it would.

thefisherman1961 · 2016-01-08T18:01:56+00:00

Not necessarily. Clinical depression is a bitch

Xemnas81 · 2016-01-08T20:39:46+00:00

No. It's more frustrated that I haven't experience a life milestone which most of my peers have taken for granted, It's like being the kid trying to reach up to the jar of cookies but being too short to get there. And no there are no chairs available.

I would tire of the novelty eventually. I am here because I like cracking puzzles. And women are one of the toughest puzzles I have ever encountered. (With the exception of the 3D Titanic, holy shit was that difficult

wtknight · 2016-01-08T15:09:46+00:00

No. Emotional bonds with the woman I'm having sex with make me happy, not sex with lots of women.

Rufus_Reddit · 2016-01-08T13:55:29+00:00

It's highly unlikely - the hedonic treadmill is real.

diFFzee · 2016-01-08T14:13:10+00:00

At this point in my life, yes, no commitment + focus on my career is how I choose to live, and I 'm happy. Forever, I don't have a clue, I doubt I 'll be on Tinder at 55 or whatever swiping chicks and arranging hookups.

wub1234 · 2016-01-08T14:37:06+00:00

I already have my dream job. I can't see any way that I'm going to have lots of random sex with super hot chicks, this doesn't seem remotely achievable. If I could have one attractive and intelligent girlfriend then I'd take that all day long.

LUClEN · 2016-01-08T15:49:21+00:00

No but I'm quite certain I'm an outlier

[deleted] · 2016-01-08T16:07:07+00:00

Nope. I have no desire for sex with random hotties. One woman is plenty.

HighlyOffensiveUser · 2016-01-08T16:08:30+00:00

No. The money would be nice but I would like to have kids, and it is immoral to have kids and not give them as good as an upbringing as possible. This just wouldn't be possible in a world where the parents only have a sexual relationship.

despisedlove2 · 2016-01-08T17:52:37+00:00

No.

Sucker for traditional family. Not interested in a bunch of random sex.

GoldPisseR · 2016-01-08T20:06:31+00:00

Forever?Like casual sex forever?

Never

I'd prefer to be with just one girl

nomdplume · 2016-01-08T16:54:18+00:00

Such a hypothetical I can't my even wrap my head around it.

I was pretty happy having a job that gave me moments of real accomplishment and satisfaction occasionally and being married to a woman whom I thought was the most beautiful woman in the world. Also had sex with random hotties as part of all that, which certainly kept my life more interesting. You can always look for things to make you more happy, but that worked well for me for as long as it worked.

Having now been introduced to my son, though, I don't know that I'd want to go through life without having him in it, so there's that. Not having him would be a huge missing for me.

gasparddelanuit · 2016-01-08T19:00:10+00:00

There’s more to happiness than just having your dream job and random sex with super hot chicks, but the answer does NOT lie in a committed relationship. Things like good health and a good sense of perspective are critical to the robustness of a person’s happiness. So, assuming all the essentials for happiness are taken care of, then a dream job and plenty of sex with random hot chicks will only enhance that happiness.

Reginleifer · 2016-01-08T19:22:50+00:00

For me, outside stresses have always been the problem. I don't understand the rich and miserable, my mood is elevated with just a bit of cash and having the free time to pursue my goals. So yes I'd imagine that situation would make me perfectly happy.

stats135 · 2016-01-08T20:51:09+00:00

NO. If I never torture you and give you water on tap are you happy? No. Because they are basic requirements for happiness to occur, but do not bring happiness by themselves. Having a dream job does not bring me happiness, but working in misery, being tortured by the stress of work, from 8-5 (or whatever shift) definitely makes me unhappy. The same goes for sex. Having hot chicks fulfill my physiological need of sex is like having water on tap fulfilling my need for hydration. Having it won't make me happy, but being thirsty for pussy and water definitely will make me unhappy.

Basically, we are back with Maslow's hierarchy. Air, food, water, sex, sleep are the very basic physiological needs. Security of body, employment, and resources on top of that. So your scenario basically only covers the bottom two fundamental needs.

Transmigratory · 2016-01-08T21:37:54+00:00

Hell yes, well even LTRs don't respect you much if you made peanuts compared to a version of you who could make a lot of money.

[deleted] · 2016-01-08T22:25:41+00:00

Nothing can truly make you happy forever.

darksoldierk · 2016-01-08T23:51:36+00:00

Not Happy, but it would make my life tolerable vs not having a relationships/sex at all.

I believe that relationships are too risky for men. Too much to lose. But my life, as a man, would be intolerable without, at the very least, the sex part of a relationship. I would like a full blown relationship, but only if my risk is about as much risk as a woman's, but in our society that isn't the case. So, I can settle for sex and no relationships.

cxj · 2016-01-09T05:58:00+00:00

No, I want an emotionally stable, warm, affectionate qt to have lots of sex and babies with and grow old and live happily ever after with. I know its unrealistic but I can't quite kill the dream.

Archwinger · 2016-01-08T14:36:27+00:00

No. However the one thing that's missing from this equation is not a committed life-partner. It's kids.

Assuming a guy doesn't want/need kids, and assuming that we can extend this hypothetical to mean you can have random sex with super hot chicks forever, even when old, then the answer is yes. I think the core question implied by this is, "Assuming everything else in your life is just fine -- job, money, and sex -- do you need the commitment of a woman in your life to be happy?"

The answer is no. A relationship with a committed partner is not valuable, because it's really just friendship that you've made official through a series of agreements, and a legal contract if you're married. You can have all kinds of deep and meaningful friendships with whoever you want, guy or girl, all kinds of hobbies, all kinds of spare time to develop skills and interests, and spend all of your career money on you. Plus have lots of sex with super hot chicks. You're not missing anything by not having one woman continuously present as some kind of committed partner. If anything, being accountable and having obligations to a committed partner holds you back.

Leinadro · 2016-01-08T15:04:04+00:00

No it wouldn't make me happy forever. For a while id be happy but eventually i would want to settle down with the one.

Apexk9 · 2016-01-08T19:08:55+00:00

No. I'm already tired of it.

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