Best replies to “I’m not easy”

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October 31, 2019
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I find typically girls who say “you think I’m easy don’t you?” Or “ I’m not easy” during foreplay end up being easier. But I do hear that line a decent amount during hookups. Usually I just play coy, wait for them to say something explicit, then sarcastically tell them to get their mind out of the gutter.

I’m curious though, what approaches do you all take when running into that situation? I want to mix things up.


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Title Best replies to “I’m not easy”
Author PencesElectrician
Upvotes 91
Comments 76
Date 31 October 2019 04:29 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/293477
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dppzva/best_replies_to_im_not_easy/
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[–]sjswander94 88 points89 points  (4 children) | Copy

I love hearing it. Translation from womanese= I wanna fuck you but not be judged for being easy. My go to is a pressure flip. I’ll say something like “don’t get ahead of yourself”

[–]mustache_ride_ 5 points6 points  (3 children) | Copy

You kids are brave (or stupid, I don't know anymore): https://youtu.be/CGkVdThhH2s

[–]sjswander94 17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

All the signals are the same as they always been. You know how it is. A hard no is obviously a no. Who wants to fuck a girl who’s not into it,anyway. Should be obvious for most.Still nowadays your walking on thin ice and you’ll get no sympathy from a jury for making a wrong move, tread lightly.

[–]mustache_ride_ 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Buddy, I know y'all think you're body-language experts here, but you will have no idea if she decides to flip after the fact. Happens every fucking day these days thanks to #metoo. Season of the witch.

[–]sjswander94 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea with out a doubt. Taking back consent is fucked up.

[–]GetBehindMeSatan666 117 points118 points  (4 children) | Copy

immediately start playing hard to get.

Role reversal, if that doesnt work ice box her.

[–]idontmiind 37 points38 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pressure flip. Wonderful

[–]IFuckingHateAllergy 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Is this the same as doing an immediate pull? That's what I do normally. It sorta leaves her wondering wtf.

[–]GetBehindMeSatan666 8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just do what she would and brush off any advances until they become heavier. Good way to ensure success with these types of broads. They want what they cant have.

[–]Lambdal7 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Thats like the most gamey thing you could do

[–]Hungboy6969420 82 points83 points  (4 children) | Copy

"neither am I "

[–]Red_Pill_Brotherhood 9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Underrated comment.

[–]DesperateChemical 21 points22 points  (1 child) | Copy

This is the correct answer. The rest of these suggestions are fucking terrible.

[–]Carboneraser 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yup. Honestly just mirroring works for a lot of situations if you don't have something else that comes up naturally.

Its second nature at this point to either agree, amplify or all of the above.

[–]oldslut 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

i was going to put something similar to this. actually, "me neither" was what i was thinking... upvoted you.

[–]Unclejimbo2 90 points91 points  (3 children) | Copy

"I'm not easy"

"I'm also hard 😉"

[–]AVN_RL 25 points26 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bruh 😂

[–]no_its_a_subaru 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

Obviously this is the only reply ever needed

[–]redditor67tny 12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

the entire sidebar is useless after this very comment

[–]MotiMorphosys 74 points75 points  (5 children) | Copy

I feel like a girl says this more to reassure herself than for you, but it's a classic shit test. I like to agree and amplify to put her at ease and then keep right on going as if she never said it.

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Good cause I love a challenge

I could tell. That's why I swyped/approached you

Please don't ever be

Idk you agreed to meet up in x hours, maybe you should raise the bar

Guys can smell easy a mile away, why do you think easy girls are surrounded by fuckboys

[–]i-am-the-prize 22 points23 points  (2 children) | Copy

I feel like a girl says this more to reassure herself than for you

Yes, and for "cover" ASD. this way if she ends up with her ankles by her ears in 2 hours it "won't be like her". She'll need a reason to visit your pad, maybe to see your pet ferret or something, most likely, too.

[–]tygacoffee2020 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

ASD?

[–]YungSedditBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Anti-Slut Defence.

[–]WarlaxZ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah think you got this round the wrong way. When she says I'm not easy you need to follow up with, 'woah calm down, who says we are having sex, you need to impress me first', or 'neither am I, you need to up your game', or something along those lines. You're the prize, not her

[–]TRP VanguardWhisper 16 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Easy to... what exactly?"

(some answer about sex)

"So we're talking about sex already? Okay. I like to be on top."

[–]2INNASKILLZ2K18 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Cha ching! Winner winner chicken dinner.

[–]abomba24 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

"I'm not easy"

"neither am I"

Proceed

[–]JimmyTheIntern 19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

If she actually uses the word "easy":

"Well, you can't possibly be as hard as I am..."

Then wait for her to gaze at your dick and say "Made you look."

[–]MultiMidsets 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ahhh or just whip yuh cock out as your saying that

[–]bradtwo 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

You can say.

“And that’s what I like about you “. And continue on. If she wants to stop, obviously stop. But quickly get up and start doing something else. Usually this makes them feel like something is gone and they will try to get it back.

[–]Whitefarmer 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeeees!! With a fist pump

They say that just before they give in

[–]Lambdal7 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

She only says that because you’re trying very hard to flirt and giving her all fuckboy signs instead of building a connection, building a subtle man to woman vibe and letting her become interested.

[–]thesatellite23 8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

"Me neither. I'm pretty hard right now."

[–]Endovelico 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

I usually just go "thats negotiable"

[–]Haytch1234 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just agree and move on.

Then proceed to sleep with her.

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Pressure flip. Make her defend her statement, "wait what? I'm a gentleman... What did you think..."

[–]SpankerDude 15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

And friendzoned

[–]MagnumBurrito 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just say "okay" and keep doing what you're doing

[–]AceMav21 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Whip out a staples button

[–]Protocol_Apollo 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

“Who said you were”

[–]cdh1003 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Who said I was interested?" is better

[–]ChadTheWaiter100 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I haven’t had a girl tell me this in a while. The last time I remember it happening was 9 years ago. I was hanging with some friends. 2 girls and 1 guy (my buddy). He kept telling me I should go for her. So I did.

This was before I knew about trp. But I had a feeling she liked me. So it was her and I in the room and I suggested we just fuck and laughed. In a joking/serious way. She told me that. So I said ok. And I began pursuing her.

I don’t remember much but I remember we went to the living room with everyone. I was touching her vagina through her jeans and put her hand on my dick.

I made an excuse to get her in the room, and fucked her on the floor. Then I got up and left.

But a key takeaway from this is her telling you she’s not that easy vs. telling you it’s not going to happen.

[–]FemtoG 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That's a comment that should instantly make you lose all respect for her. Its just a screaming signal that it's on her mind aka something she's insecure about.

[–]PolesWithGoals 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Ah, a common shit test. Tread carefully

[–]cydestiny 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"And I'm hard."

[–]nameisahmad 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Reverse psychology, “ i dont do xxx with someone, who i dont know, or havent build a good communication with”

[–]sleep24x7 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“Only for me.” Grin.

[–]bueislander 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’ve been a woman for 23 years now and I never understood the “easy” thing. I want dick. You have a dick. If I’m “easy” that just means I get what I want sooner rather than later. I do like to tease though so I’ll drag that shit out for a while, but I’ll also pounce on that dick in 2 seconds flat if I’m feeling like it. Just. Because. You. Want. Sex. Does. Not. Make. You. A. Hoe. So being “easy” at that point is irrelevant. Fuck that dick.

[–]magx01 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

"Medium at best."

[–]LilLoserFreny 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I usually ignore.

[–]ZR1987 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Doesn't matter so much what you say as it does the way you act. Keep your cool. Better to say nothing than to scramble for the right words.

[–]pinkangel69 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

“Heard that one before”

[–]_DAMU_ 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

ii'm not judgemental

[–]OrzhovPalatine -3 points-2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Shit I've said to that

"That's what they all say"

"What makes you think you're worth the effort?"

look her up and down and show dissapointment "nah I'm pretty sure you are"

I just dismiss it

[–]Lambdal7 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Omg autist 100%

[–]ZR1987 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Do not do ths. WTF?

[–]Foolishoe 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A firm price on a negotiable good signals a bad negotiator.

[–]mabden 1 points [recovered]  (1 child) | Copy

I may be easy, but I am expensive.

[–]Standgrounding -3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

"I'm hard"

[–]Domebeers -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I go with "I know"

[–]FlyingSexistPig -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

"yes you are"

[–]10points4gryffinddor -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

So was getting these guns points at muscular arms but i still got them

[–]Garathon -2 points-1 points  (5 children) | Copy

I like easy girls.

[–]JamesBondsOldBrother 1 points [recovered]  (4 children) | Copy

It means you don’t have much value to attract higher value women. It’s like saying “I like low hanging fruit”

[–]Garathon -2 points-1 points  (3 children) | Copy

It shows you are not judging her for being easy.

[–]JamesBondsOldBrother 1 points [recovered]  (2 children) | Copy

Well doesn’t that give you just a warm fuzzy heart?

A low value person can’t judge anyone, because they can’t be picky if they want to get what they’re after; they don’t have options. Just like beggars can’t be choosers. If you’re a high value person, SMV in this situation, you can get better than “easy” so why would you accept someone that’s easy? If she’s easy with you she is easy with everyone. If that’s what you want, great, go for it.

[–]Garathon -1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

It's not for a LTR.

[–]rashnull -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

I know...we all can’t be as easy on the eyes as moi /smirk

[–]nixon993 -2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Just say i am too



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