I plan on ending LTR soon. There’s a couple of things holding me back from doing it right now. One is, her bday is coming up next week. Right after her bday, we’re going on a trip with her, her sis and sis’ bf for almost a week. Her sis and sis’ bf are cool people.

I’m thinking it would be horrible timing to end things now, thereby ruining the trip plans (which money is involved for flight arrangements / free staying at my condo) and unnecessarily breaking up with her on her bday.

What do y’all think? How long after should I wait? Open to suggestions.