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Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.

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November 28, 2019
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So throughout this week two prior plates wrote me on Facebook.

They both "left" me for their current husbands. They were pushing for commitments like living together, having kids and so on when they were with me. I always stated clearly that I weren't interested in that stuff so they chose to leave, which is completely fine.

Girl 1: 6 years and two children later with the guy she moved in with only a few months after leaving me. She straight up asked me if I wanted to punish her (her words) this weekend.

I remember the last thing I said to her when she left. She asked me if she could call me in the future if she needed to talk. I told her she shouldn't contact me if she didn't want sex. There have been complete radio silence for 6 years, she even deleted me from Facebook until two days ago when she added me again.

I played it pretty cool when she wrote me. I asked her if she was looking for something permanent or just rough sex one time? She answers "I just want you to punish me, you used to be good at that".

Best believe I'm going to fuck this slut senseless this weekend. I have booked a hotel room tomorrow because I really don't want her to know where I live and I'm planning on keeping all communication through Facebook, so I don't have to give her my number either.

Girl 2: She wrote me last night. She is living with the guy she left me for as well with one child which she had like 1 year ago. She is not as direct on her intentions in contacting me but I don't see myself going back to this one anyway. She was so emotionally dependent on me at the time and I really don't want to be in that situation again. But just ask yourself, why would she contact me now if it wasn't for the same reason as the first girl - she just finds it harder to admit to herself.

What the fuck is wrong with these whores? And even worse, what's wrong with these cucks who marry these women.


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Title Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.
Author Phaeer
Upvotes 194
Comments 171
Date 28 November 2019 01:17 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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[–]SoloQueueXL64 points65 points  (13 children) | Copy

Yeah I learned the hard way that marriage is TRP on hard mode. I ended my marriage and turned my wife into a plate. And told her we can continue to date until she finds the next sucker to screw over.

2 weeks later I have a new plate also. Life is good and I feel free. (Filing for divorce on new year, cus broke)

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou19 points20 points  (5 children) | Copy

Fuk that. No fukking way I would even be nice to my ex much less fuk that skank whore after what she did. Very slow painful downward spiral is almost too good for her.

[–]SoloQueueXL23 points24 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hey man if she cheated shit happened bro, we’re all here if you need someone to talk to. PM me if so

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou23 points24 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hey I really sincerely appreciate it. I moved past the initial pain but will enjoy the anger phase for a while. It is great to channel at the gym.

It's good to know thoughtful people are out there in the sub.

Have a great holiday!

[–]SoloQueueXL7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah you too, happy holidays

[–]LethalShade6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

Why do you think she cheated on you?

[–]DoesItMatterTooYou14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lame sex life. I was disinterested in her so I put no real effort into the relationship. I let myself be mentally trapped into a situation for years. I am most angry at myself for being a BP pussy for so long.

Now I eat right, lift, have a positive outlook (and I am the prize view). My GF responds well to me being strong and leading. If I ever go back to BP ways life will suck ass really quickly.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (4 children) | Copy

excuse the intrusion, I have a similar situation as the post; exactly... assuming that one of the two women mentioned (ex-wifes, ex-girlfriends with their respective conjugal relationship) agree to have casual sex without commitment, would it be wrong to use one of them to make a threesome? or is it against TRP?

totally straight and no feelings for either of them.

[–]SoloQueueXL13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

Lmao don’t do it bro, you made her a plate doesn’t mean she wants to know you’re fucking other women. My ex wife thinks I’m only fucking her.

The art of low key my friend.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

specifically in my case I'm fucking an ex friend of my ex-wife, and I think that if we invited her to a paradisiacal destination and a couple of gorgeous gifts (even having a husband) she would go with us

is it still going against the recommended?

[–]SoloQueueXL4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Having multiple sources of pussy is great. I wouldn’t ruin that and get greedy over a threesome. You’ll realize soon enough all the extra sexual stuff doesn’t matter.

But getting the nut does

[–]RanaMahal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

ya i can confirm this. have had a few threesomes and they’re just not all that. the only, and i mean ONLY moment that was awesome was getting a double blowjob. the rest is way overrated and just not really that fun imo

[–]FightGuard0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

In what ways did ur ex wife screw you over?

[–]SoloQueueXL0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Tried to make me a beta provider, the second she got her other two kids back she tried to push the responsibility onto me. Needless to say it didn’t workout

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev179 points180 points  (56 children) | Copy

So if you are familiar with the film "Good Luck Chuck" it could be about me. Something like five women I banged went on to marry the next guy they moved on to after I wouldn't commit.

When I was in my "Dirty 30s" I would get offers (Often very explicit) of NSA sex from married women. Like "Hubby is out of town, why don't you come over and I will cook dinner for you and we'll bang" type deals. A woman I know explained it to me this way: "They have someone to compare you to. You have a cool life of music and travel; they have seen their husbands sitting on the toilet."

In general, I refused because I like my life uncomplicated.

They guys they marry don't know they are cucks. They got married and think they "won" and that it's all over, they are over the finish line. In truth, being married is TRP on Hard Mode.

[–]1MrTheFalcon42 points43 points  (38 children) | Copy

Can confirm; marriage is TRP on hard mode. I regularly have to reset expectations (entitlement), and it's always emotional combat where if I lose my cool, even once, I lose.

The rewards of family life are great, but the price is very, very high.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

MRP guy here, can confirm its TRP on nightmare mode. No extra lives.

[–]thechaosz6 points7 points  (7 children) | Copy

Family life sounds like hell.

[–]mickenrorty19 points20 points  (4 children) | Copy

Most fathers live a life of quiet hopeless desperation... especially the ones that married feminists

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[–]mickenrorty2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

True but you in my opinion they deserve sympathy

[–]IndiansSmellLikePoo5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

To be honest it serves them right for marrying such cunts

[–]thechaosz2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus this hits home for 9/10 men I know.

Some who are good or close friend's/family.

If I had a nickel for everytime someone said, "Geez you have an awesome life, I wish I could do what you do whenever I want"

You could, or could of. Don't marry, don't have kids.

Is it that hard?

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[–]thechaosz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Middle class, ho hum Spokane WA.

Raised by narcissist that came out later.

No real family, everyone is disjointed.

Tons of incredible friends through the years. (I made my own family)

Living near Philly now. LOVE IT. I've always been very loyal and passionate, and told it as it is.

I feel at home for the first time in my life.

[–]RanaMahal-1 points0 points  (28 children) | Copy

the fuck are the rewards? i’m actually genuinely confused there, doesn’t seem like there are any really. how are you “resetting expectations” exactly?

[–]1MrTheFalcon31 points32 points  (5 children) | Copy

The rewards are building relationships with my wife and kids. I run the house like a ship, everyone pulls the weight they are able. I'm raising a strong son and strong daughters. I like being the captain with a tight crew. The challenge itself is rewarding.

I've travelled plenty, I enjoy my work, and I like simple comforts, like breakfast foods, and good coffee. I don't need adventure or cars, and I have no ambition outside of crafting hobbies and my startup tech company shares.

The resets: My wife will start to take things for granted after a while. Like making plans for my time or large purchases without consulting me, or getting pissy over my work schedule (which pays for our food). So I have to be a dick on principle; cancel the plans, take it back, etc. All compliance tests. Once in a while she'll go full Karen on me, and I'll check out for a few days and do whatever the fuck I want. I come home when she apologizes.

Again, it IS hard mode. Don't get married. But if you do, there are rewards to be found, and marriage will grow you up quick, if it doesn't destroy you completely first.

[–]Tousen718 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s real.

[–]RanaMahal1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

that sounds fucking awful no offence. just seems mentally draining and like a constant frame battle for the rest of my life. i think 30+ years of dealing with that shit would not be ideal for me lol

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[–]RanaMahal2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

ya i mean i’m new to trp in the aspect of frame, and i’m a young guy, but having to almost battle your wife and taking shit away from her etc. sounds like being a parent to a grown up. if the rewards are good to you then sure ya that’s great, it just seems like a big battle to me for minimal reward.

[–]NightFire4526 points27 points  (21 children) | Copy

Well...the entire point of your life is to have children, raise them, send them out into the world. The best way to do this is with a nuclear family.

[–]thechaosz-1 points0 points  (19 children) | Copy

I could not possibly disagree more.

The point of life is not to procreate. If you'd like to make that your life, great. MANY people do. I may be an outlier.

Being financially successful at 40, traveling, going to shows, banging multiple woman, on pace to retire early, racing my cars and dirt bikes, and doing whatever the hell I want whenever I want, is my idea of life.

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[–]Datanami0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

When did you have your first child? I'm 28 with a n-count around 50, spinning 5 plates right now. I dont' think I could handle a family life, however I sometimes think about it. Plus I don't think any of these girls I could share my life with...

[–]thechaosz0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Ok I'm feeling good so I won't address the condescending tone. I usually go nuts but it's the internet and I'm surrounded by great people so whatever.

It's your opinion. There is no "meaning of life". I'm one of those that's called "very excentric and out going" and the next day I don't want to go outside.

I'm good with my amazing friends, family, staffy and female friends.

I might be where you are at mentally in 10 years (no babies ever) but maybe with a long term partner. I can definitely see that.

I would never consider giving away my lives worth for the whims of an woman. Ever. I mean ever.

I'm absolutely shocked with your net worth you would even consider such a reckless contract.

Literally marriage guarantees nothing for men in the USA. Nothing. Not a single shred.

[–]NightFire457 points8 points  (11 children) | Copy

Hint, you can do all this while married. Maybe the multiple women part could be a hurdle but that's just extra drama anyway.

[–]mickenrorty5 points6 points  (9 children) | Copy

It’s in our nature to fuck more than one girl, no one only wants to eat oatmeal for the rest of their lives

[–]Black_Jesup4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

You can strive to become more than just your nature and become enlightened.

[–]mickenrorty1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Acting in unnatural ways leads to kiddy fiddler priests (as an example)

[–]Black_Jesup4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Acting in “natural” ways leads to rapists, murderers, and thieves (as a few examples).

[–]liquorbaron0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

As a whole they're on par with the same amount as regular society. In other words just because there are priests doesn't mean that they are any more prolific towards being pedophiles than what the same sample size from society brings about.

[–]Gainzndgame0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I see arguments about how people decide to live their life as frame battles. If you choose to get married because you belong to a good community and have a good family line that is supportive of the act and enjoy the benefits of pair bonding I get that. Just understand that it’s super hard mode and she can and might cheat on you even if you (somehow, miraculously) don’t fuck up.

I want to think people posting here aren’t as simple minded as some replies think they are.

[–]RanaMahal2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah literally no woman is gonna not cheat on you nowadays and they make up the most bullshit random reasons for it and i know i couldn’t stand for it if it happened to me lol. also having to tell someone where you are at all times and what ur doing etc it’s all too much

[–]thechaosz0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I like your style.

I just don't want any shit sipping, bank draining, crap factories.

Not for me. It's all good we need babies for sure.

[–]thrwy754791 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Save this comment somewhere, and read it when you're 65.

[–]thechaosz1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I'm ok with a "partner" down the road.

I WILL NOT marry and give away my wealth on the whims of a woman.

Men love woman.

Woman love children.

[–]Felix2150-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely agreed. That's the meaning of life.

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[–]TattedGuyser47 points48 points  (8 children) | Copy

When you play stupid games, just be prepared to win stupid prizes. If/when her husband finds out, she won't be the bad guy, you will be. You may call him a cuck, but some unhinged dude who now believes you are the reason his marriage is over isn't something you may want to fuck around with, I don't care how great your bjj skills are.

At the end of the day you gotta do you though.

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[–]tripmepls2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Great Gatsby spoiler alert.

[–]redvelvet_oreo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you are Neo you dodge bullets

[–]VigilantSmartbomb5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

At the end of the dayyy

Fuck yeah there’s enough single women or if they leave the dude but otherwise- that’s a lot of drama

[–]aDrunkenWhaler4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

At the same time, an orbiter can do the same thing just because the bitch you fucked cried on his shoulder that you did't call her aftwrwards. For every fuckable woman there are will be men ready to fuck you up just for a chance to lick her armpits. Doesn't mean much.

[–]thechaosz2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Hence the hotel, and no phone numbers.

[–]TattedGuyser15 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

She has him on facebook and knows who he is. Not exactly hard to find someone these days with that little bit of information.

Also what if she claims false rape to hide the infidelity? He now has the cops hunting him on her behalf. We read about this shit in the news every single day, it's very real and can easily happen to any dude here.

[–]Tousen710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah...buddy of mine showed me this yesterday (if you have first, middle, and last name - which you probably have on your Facebook) you can instantly find a current address just by googling it. Shit is crazy.

[–]LethalShade8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Imo do it, just protect yourself well. I'm sure you're not unfamiliar with the husband showing up on your doorstep with a shotgun after getting cucked type of story.

You're not doing him any favors by not fucking her. If she's coming to you for an assfucking, she clearly has no respect/attraction towards him and their relationship is already fucked. If anything, you're doing them both a favor by throwing gasoline on this shir and maybe they'll be smart enough to get out before being slowly burned alive.

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[–]BusterVadge3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

In truth, being married is TRP on Hard Mode.

This is SO true. I don't regret being married. My kids are amazing, and turned out great. But the divorce sucked ass. You had better believe that even an otherwise "decent" woman will try to drain every asset you have in a divorce.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Do you feel like your success with women stems a lot from your music activities? Seems that genre crushes it.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It is a force multiplier, particularly being a singer, and particularly with recorded songs they can listen to. But guys who go into music to get pussy don't last. You have to be in it because you love it.

[–]brinkleybuzz37 points38 points  (11 children) | Copy

Alpha Fux, Beta Bux.

Women want a man who will get them wet and pay their bills. They'd love to get what they want from the same man but will settle for a 2 for 1 deal if they can't.

Congrats, you're the side-dude, the go-to guy for the good dick your exes are missing in their lives.

I stopped messing around with married and engaged exes when one's husband beat her to a pulp and came after me before the cops got involved. No pussy is worth that amount of drama.

[–]XT3M317 points18 points  (10 children) | Copy

i will never understand why people go after the other person when the spouse cheats

[–]jerrymcguiver14 points15 points  (4 children) | Copy

To ward off potential rival for mating. Primal

[–]XT3M33 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

the thing is tho, he already fucked your girl tho (or vice versa when sexes are swapped)

the potential rival already got theirs. its even sadder when the other person didnt know that person A existed.

[–]RedHoodhandles3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Doesn't matter. He needs to die so he doesn't fuck her more. Not what I am saying but just what biology is saying.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep, this.

Think about caveman tribes. The alpha fucks all the women. If a beta fucks a woman, the alpha kills him not because he had sex one time with that woman but because the beta is challenging the alpha's place and trying to replace him and fuck all of the women all of the time. It's not just about revenge but also about securing the future.

[–]jerrymcguiver-3 points-2 points  (0 children) | Copy

The glans of our dick pulls out rivals cum. Gotta beat their ass and then hysterical bond fuck her proper. I'm sure she'd like that from her beta bux too lmao.

[–]IndiansSmellLikePoo0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Usually a sign of someone's IQ/intelligence. Only stupid people would do that.

[–]Tousen712 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Best advice is if you’re going to fuck a married or engaged woman, let it be with someone you DON’T know.

ONS territory ONLY.

A full on affair might get you killed.

Note: And don’t take her to your house.

[–]99robsmith990 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Why give people advice on that? Anyone who fucks a married woman deserves anything that comes their way.

[–]Tousen710 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You’re only saying that because you’re afraid of the consequences. Which objectively are misguided anger.

It’s not your marriage. If the girl wants to step out it’s not your concern. You just have to be wary that guys on the receiving end won’t take their anger out rationally by leaving their wives, some may remedy the situation by going after the dude.

Which is stupid as hell.

But...you can’t predict how someone will react. So, it’s best to tread lightly and be aware of the risk you take doing that shit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Caveman genes bro

Zug do snoo-snoo with Grug's woman. Grug kill Zug. Now Grug only man for woman. Grug solve problem. Now Grug have all snoo-snoo.

[–]ViolentInteger27 points28 points  (23 children) | Copy

I have booked a hotel room tomorrow because I really don't want her to know where I live and I'm planning on keeping all communication through Facebook, so I don't have to give her my number either. Am I paranoid or smart?

This strongly implies that she is crazy, because why else would you be worried. In that case, you're a retard for thinking about sticking your dick in crazy.

This isn't a thing you need to do when you involve yourself with mentally-sound women.

[–]serynada4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

you might be right, but frankly i’d do the same with any woman stepping out on her husband. the white knight can be a pest at best and fatal at worse.

irregardless of mental stability, the less she knows the better.

she’s here to get fucked.

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[–]fignootins0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Would you say there's an adequate amount of red flags for this man to have known better before marrying her?

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[–]fignootins0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Really I wouldn't feel bad at all for this guy, if you marry a woman who's not a virgin, you are a SIMP. Plain and simple.

Honestly most of the horror stories you read online about men being divorce raped are from men who didn't do proper vetting and ignored all red flags

[–]ViolentInteger0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

She brought a bottle of Vodka which she drank 3/4 of in a matter of 2-3 hours.

Red flag #1.

Everything that came out of her mouth were either stupid to the point of me wanting to kill myself or just completely unstable.

Red flags #2 though... 15? This was the point at which you needed to silently get up, get your stuff, and walk out the door, briskly.

But you didn't. Because of scarcity mentality.

She wanted me to beat her up with closed fists during sex. I knew she was into this before this weekend but she wanted to leave with black and blue marks all over her body.

MAJOR red flag. Not only does this show that she is a fundamentally broken human being due to unresolved past abuse, but guess what happens when she shows the cops and says you hurt her?

But hey, you're desperate for a fuck, so nevermind this!

I told her that we were done and she got extremely mad with me for 5 min. then she went back to telling me how wonderful I am, then 5 min. after she cursed me out again and so. Fucking batshit crazy!

Wait. This surprised you??

The signs of borderline personality disorder were obvious well before this meltdown.

Next day there was a message on my Facebook. [...] Needless to say I haven't answered.

And let me guess: you're dumb enough to think this is over?

Oh no. Its not. This is the beginning. You got front row seats to the lesson on how "never stick your dick in crazy" became a saying. You earned it through autism.

I'll give you a hint, though: ghosting a BPD woman is going to dump fuel on the fire. That is not how to deal with this problem. Your only hope is to turn into Billy Beta and make yourself repulsive.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (14 children) | Copy

"mentally-sound women"

lol you have some more RP to swallow bro

[–]ViolentInteger-1 points0 points  (13 children) | Copy

Anger phase detected.

You've got more sidebar to read, bro. And weight to lift. And a mission to follow.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (12 children) | Copy

Faggot detected

I ain't mad at women. I just see them as goofy, because they are.

[–]ViolentInteger-1 points0 points  (11 children) | Copy

Honest question: are you 19 years old?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (10 children) | Copy

Honest question: are you capable of coming up with a decent comeback?

[–]ViolentInteger-1 points0 points  (9 children) | Copy

Its not a comeback. Feeling the need to defend myself would imply weak frame, no?

I'm legitimately curious to know your age. I get the feeling that most of the guys spouting off nonsense in this sub are inexperienced in life (i.e.: under the age of 25). They learned a few RP basics from an academic standpoint, but they don't know how it really works. But this doesn't stop them from confidently flapping their gums, which sound great to other inexperienced guys, ultimately creating an echo chamber of beginners to RP theory. That's why so few guys ever break out into the intermediate levels.

So how old are you? 20?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (8 children) | Copy

Ur mom gey

That's literally all the response I feel you merit for being so pompous. Ur way too tryhard u need to chill

[–]ViolentInteger0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy

Hey, its OK to be 20 years old. That's not the problem.

The problem is that we can't have beginners "teaching" other beginners on this sub. If you're under the age of 25, you need to keep quiet and learn. Guys with real experience and knowledge will properly guide the younger crowd.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy

Ur dad gey too

[–]xnesteax96 points97 points  (45 children) | Copy

I personally would search the husband on Facebook, send him the chat and block those whores for good.

What if you were in those guys position having kids with your "unicorn" meanwhile she is fucking other guys behind your back.

Ofc it's up to you though, TRP has no morals.

[–]bumbuff17 points18 points  (2 children) | Copy

TRP has no morals.

That doesn't mean you have none though.

[–]ng0797713 points14 points  (1 child) | Copy

Glad someone here has a moral compass. TRP has no morals because it's just information. Morality is a human thing.

[–]bumbuff4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Summed up perfectly.

[–]BurnieSlander17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

Send them the chats and a link to this sub. You might just save someone from a life of misery.

[–]phaljohnson27 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy

Yeah, he could try to wake a couple more guys up. Not that he has any obligation to them but does not sound like he has much interest in these women anyway...

Edit: As far as TRP not having morals its really these women who are lacking there, seems like OP never made a commitment to anyone involved

[–]GiraffeOnWheels22 points23 points  (1 child) | Copy

Has no morals aka is amoral. Like a gun it’s not good or evil but how you use it can be.

[–]phaljohnson2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I read it the wrong way earlier

[–]ng079771 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's true that TRP is amoral - it's just information.

But morals are a human thing. Who would want to be that guy?

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

Don't blame the women. Blame the men. Take care of business, be a high quality man, and vet for high quality women and the likelyhood of this is drastically reduced. He gets what he puts in.

[–]SeasonedRP4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

Nonsense. That's how tradcons rationalize women cheating, but it isn't reality. The truth is that after a period of time being married or cohabiting, women get bored and want something different. Familiarity breeds contempt. You can be as high quality as they come and it won't matter much -- they want someone who isn't you. Clearly not all women act on those urges but a significant number do. Social media and our society's preferential treatment of females and excusing female bad behavior make it more likely women will cheat today than in prior generations.

[–]WolfofAllStreetz2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Women don’t want a bunch of random dicks, they want one special dick.

They aren’t like us that wants to fuck different pussy 24/7.

[–]SeasonedRP0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

One at a time but not the same one forever. They get bored as a relationship goes on and want something else. That's why marriage and cohabiting doesn't work out for men.

[–]Protocol_Apollo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Look up “trees” on the main sub by whisper.

You don’t owe these guys anything and nor they you.

Do you think they would do what you are proposing for OP?

[–]1MrTheFalcon9 points10 points  (6 children) | Copy

I have a friend who gets hit up by married exes all the time. He did that for years. He is not unable to care, has lost interest in sex, is fat and plays D&D all the time. He's a great guy, but he's completely checked out. There's a lesson in there somewhere.

[–]htbf9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy

What's wrong with D&D bitch

[–]1MrTheFalcon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nothing, bitch. I play D&D every Thursday. But this motherfucker plays four times a week. It's like eating your favorite food all the time; it ruins the food for you. He has trouble enjoying the game for itself. Like people who play MMOs too much.

[–]ExternalCake6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

He fucked married women and now he's so jaded that he doesn't want to interact with women at all?

[–]volvostupidshit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That is probably the case. Poor guy checking out early and becoming an incel.

[–]1MrTheFalcon1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes

[–]serynada-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

is he actually your “friend”? and i think the lesson is simply his refusal to swallow the red pill has led him to a vegetative state. reality is too difficult for him. plenty of people fuck married women gleefully, live fantastic lives, and sleep soundly at night.

[–]bumbuff7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Where's the question?

What the fuck is wrong with these whores? And even worse, what's wrong with these cucks who marry these women?

I feel like this had nothing to do with someone needing help with RP interpretation. It was a humble brag, nothing more.

[–]Livecrazyjoe5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy

I get AWALT but dont bang married ladies. In my opinion that's a great way to get shot or sued because you ended a relationship.

Its fine to entertain the idea but dont be third party in that relationship.

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[–]Livecrazyjoe4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's just a warning. Even though that, guy is a bitch he may lose it and come after you with a knife.

[–]oldslut14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

first off, do you want to fuck some worn out chick that had a few babies since you last fucked? don't you have something better going on than that?

and, what the fuck is up here with the people saying you should tell the husbands? TRP is amoral. telling the husbands would serve no good purpose and may even cause shit for you. obviously the dudes are blue pill cucks. they probably wouldn't believe it, even with proof in front of their face. then they turn around and blame you. fuck no.

[–]Forsaken432112 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

Guys wtf, he should get the booty, and have his fun. Playing fair in a world where nobody plays fair is a waste of limited life time

[–]z2a1-90 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Haha true

[–]jenovajunkie2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

It what the feminist culture has produced, women can't see it, but what they are fighting for is ultimately what the hate.

A man who doesn't stand up for himself.

[–]liquorbaron2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Best believe I'm going to fuck this slut senseless this weekend. I have booked a hotel room tomorrow because I really don't want her to know where I live and I'm planning on keeping all communication through Facebook, so I don't have to give her my number either. Am I paranoid or smart?

You're stupid. Just move on. Why give her the satisfaction of being able to get fucked by you (the prize) when she wants 6 years later? I mean look at the hoops you have to jump through; booking the room and being discreet just to ass fuck some chick that you fucked 6 years ago before she had two kids and a husband. Look at what the consequences could be if her husband does find out and is unstable about it. She threw a hook out there, probably to a few of her exes among other orbiters as well, to see if she could still validate herself and here you are ready to bite. Shit it looks desperate on your part.

"Yes washed up baby mama.... I will fuck your ass whenever you command or want it."

You should be all like thanks but no thanks. Leave that past in the past. And then IF you want to be a good Samaritan bro, figure out a way to screen shot the conversation anonymously and send it to her husband via a fake account.

[–]Blazer8083 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

You either:

A. Fuck her

B. Show her husband the messages

C. Ignore her

D. All of the above

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[–]serynada-4 points-3 points  (0 children) | Copy

read the sidebar.

[–]Sexandswishers4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

My nigga 👍🏻

[–]David9492 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy

I see a hotel 3some happening. Have fun!

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[–]David9492 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Hey if that’s your thing why not. Lol. Who knows the husband could be a cuck

[–]volvostupidshit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Or cocking his shotgun when he found out about the affair.

[–]KettleLogic2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

This isn an asktrp this brag to the redpill and hope you get validated.

[–]ScumPatSexBag0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

I honestly don't know why people get married in the US. I can't speak for other western countries, but I'm assuming its about the same. Why bother?

[–]volvostupidshit1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Because blue pilled men think they can turn a hoe into a housewife.

[–]BusterVadge0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Best believe I'm going to fuck this slut senseless this weekend. I have booked a hotel room tomorrow because I really don't want her to know where I live and I'm planning on keeping all communication through Facebook, so I don't have to give her my number either. Am I paranoid or smart?

Even better would have been taking the conversation off facebook and using a lesser known messaging app. Less a chance of an angry cuck husband coming to kill you that way.

[–]mabev435680 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

6 years more the time you had her, more 2 children, she should look worse than 10 years older.

She's most probably not worth doing anymore, on the wall or behind it.

[–]W_O_M_B_A_T0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Girl 1: 6 years and two children later with the guy she moved in with only a few months after leaving me. She straight up asked me if I wanted to punish her (her words) this weekend.

Extra points: Smash a few for old times' sake. Take photos. Then send anonymously to husband.

He deserves to know his wife is a lying sloot.

Chances are, he's over on slash r slash deadbedrooms complaining about her "low libido."

I dunno. I had a few opportunities to cheat back when I was in an LTR years ago. Thought about hiring an escort. But I didn't because it's not that fucking difficult to just mind your own business. Turns out I hardly need have worried or felt guilty, she was already jumping on an ex boyfriend of hers on at least one occasion I know of.

So that double-life type shit kind of rubs me the wrong way.

I remember the last thing I said to her when she left. She asked me if she could call me in the future if she needed to talk. I told her she shouldn't contact me if she didn't want sex.

Am I paranoid or smart?

You never know. Her captain save-a-ho husband might decide the best solution is to go medieval on your ass. I'd say, hotels only. Plus it communicates her correct place in the social order, heh heh.

I certainly wouldn't consider this more than a few time fling.

Girl 2: She wrote me last night. She is living with the guy she left me for as well with one child which she had like 1 year ago. She is not as direct on her intentions in contacting me but I don't see myself going back to this one anyway. She was so emotionally dependent on me at the time and I really don't want to be in that situation again. But just ask yourself, why would she contact me now if it wasn't for the same reason as the first girl - she just finds it harder to admit to herself.

Bingo.

What the fuck is wrong with these whores?

Gatherer Mentality.

And even worse, what's wrong with these cucks who marry these women?

There's only two major things that're wrong with them, 1) They're afraid to say "no" and/or walk, and 2) they think bargaining up, is a good strategy for dealing with conflict.

[–]acaliforniaburrito0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah I vote for the send the screenshots to the husbands and report back

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

They both "left" me for their current husbands. They were pushing for commitments like living together, having kids and so on when they were with me. I always stated clearly that I weren't interested in that stuff so they chose to leave, which is completely fine.

Congrats, you're doing it right.

What the fuck is wrong with these whores?

What the fuck is wrong with your attitude? You're the one who generated the Alpha Widows, bro. And think about these poor bitches, tied down to schlubs.

And even worse, what's wrong with these cucks who marry these women?

Feminine Imperative 101.

Cheers!

[–]cglehosit0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

A relative of mine did a similar thing to her husband, except intended to and did tell the husband and kids everything after she cheated, like some sort of revenge cucking. Reasonable people don’t do this sort of shit, we say AWALT but that doesn’t eliminate the fact that some women are more crazy than others.

The other concern for me is the kids, that’s just not something worth my time to mess around with. Sure, husbands can be beta dream boys, but cheating is cheating and anytime it’s a married woman WITH KIDS in her 30s, there’s gonna be trouble. If she was an early 20s just married girl you knew in high school, different story.

[–]razezero1-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

You're a horrible piece of shit. The correct thing to.do is to send those messages to their husbands and let the whores reap their own rewards. Red pilled doesn't mean cucking people.

[–]volvostupidshit2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

There is no correct thing to do in here.

[–]IvaraMain2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

RP has no moral bearing. It is just the intersexual dynamics unearthed. What you choose to do with that truth, is your own choice.

[–]yoursislovesme-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

I had an old friend of mine contact me last week asking if i could "fuck her for the last time" before she gets married this week.

I refused because i knew her soon to be husband and i could have been very much in his place few years ago

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