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eveninghope
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple204 points205 points206 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
My city is filled with nothing but Jakes. I literally can’t even think of the last time I met a guy that I was maybe interested in going on a date with.
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple155 points156 points157 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Same. And all the books tell us that we have to date multiple guys at the same time. I can’t even find one that I want to date
[–]vereelimeeFDS Newbie109 points110 points111 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're not the only one. I would date multiple men, but it's near impossible to find two that I like at the same time.
If it happens, then after a few days, they throw a red flag so you are back to looking again. Granted I'm catching a lot more red flags thanks to FDS. So I'm not investing time into LVM.
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! It’s a great thing. I’ve been catching the red flags super early too. It feels so much better now to just delete and block instead of continuing to entertain them and wondering why I don’t feel that great about it. Trusting my gut now and I’m so much happier for it
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Haha same. I love multi-dating in theory but have yet to have the opportunity to practice it due to limited potential- HVM resources 😂
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea it never even makes it to the first date before they start throwing up the red flags and I have to block and delete. The whole point of dating multiple guys at the same time is so that your mind and energy aren’t spent on one person, which that shouldn’t happen anyway even if you’re just dating the one person. So with that I’m just trying to focus my energies on everything else besides dating. Friends, family, hobbies, goal reaching. So if I ever do meet someone special he won’t the the center of my world and he’ll see that he will really have to step up his game if he wants to be apart of my life
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t generally have an issue with becoming overly attached (all my attachment issues are of the avoidant nature, which thankfully makes me very unlikely to fall for anyone prematurely... or at all lol) so it’s not a biggie to me, but I like the idea of multiple men wooing me 😂
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boston? Lol
[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly facts.
[–]SaffroFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So true that some places the men are worse.
[–]aclick1999FDS Newbie93 points94 points95 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yep. You've dated one dollar tree lumberjack, you've dated them all.
[–]Docileghost21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dollar tree lumberjack 🤣
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[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Right! I've had to explain to male friends that like, women DO like sex - men are just very bad at it. Like, bro, imagine if only 10% of the sex you had resulted in an orgasm. You'd be pretty fucking frustrated too. AND because men IN GENERALLY are terrible at getting us off, we ASSUME men are going to be bad at it and are, therefore, HIGHLY selective about it. They would be getting laid more overall if they just gave a fuck.
[–]vibesthoPickmeisha™️6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so relatable to me I want to cry. I can't believe I actually dated some of these bastards.
[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
At least the dating hellscape is inspiring women to produce fantastic comics: https://instagram.com/violetclair?igshid=11ankdhtdylm7
To be fair to Jake tho, at least he’s not selfish in bed and tricking a woman into an LTR.
[–]janiceofcourseFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Love these comics! Thanks for the recommendation! :)
[–]maracat1989FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Another good one: https://www.instagram.com/joannathangiah/?hl=en
[–]Revy_Ur_EnginesFDS Newbie62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I was just looking at a sub where someone posted about a guy leaving when she didn’t want to have sex right away after love bombing her. Can you believe guys in the comments we’re defending this lying ass dude. They say we should have sex with them early on because we might be excluding guys who do want a relationship. Yet this bullshit spews from the same mouth that doesn’t want to take a woman on a proper date because he might get used for a free dinner 🙄
[–]honeyhealingFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never ever listen to men for dating advice!
[–]plutonian_princessFDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The only pleasure Jake gave me was when I kicked him out my life for good, the satisfaction was 👌👌👌
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s nothing like that sweet relief of anguish and uncertainty everytime I hit that block button
[–]FleetingDaisy17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lack of commitment in exchange for bad sex? Sounds like a fair deal!
[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
wow this is basically a summary of my dating life i feel attacked :D
[–]FleetingDaisy2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sis, I got out of that dating style last year. I was permanently unhappy and only recently figured out why.
[–]phulkari2784FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck you Jake
[–]washopingyoudaskFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That IG account is everything
[–]IrritatedMangoFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only HV Jake I know is Jake Peralta
[–]coolestgirlyouevermeFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jake is useless
[–]CityshyFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ew
[–]emska_0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I just stopped dating altogether.
[–]ginnnnieFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m dead . Jake is my ex ex and this is him to a T
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[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple204 points205 points206 points (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple155 points156 points157 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]vereelimeeFDS Newbie109 points110 points111 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple56 points57 points58 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple56 points57 points58 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple30 points31 points32 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SaffroFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]aclick1999FDS Newbie93 points94 points95 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Docileghost21 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 47 points48 points49 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]vibesthoPickmeisha™️6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 81 points82 points83 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]janiceofcourseFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]maracat1989FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Revy_Ur_EnginesFDS Newbie62 points63 points64 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]honeyhealingFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]plutonian_princessFDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]KimpracticalFDS Disciple15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]FleetingDaisy17 points18 points19 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice[S] 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]FleetingDaisy2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]phulkari2784FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]washopingyoudaskFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]IrritatedMangoFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]coolestgirlyouevermeFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CityshyFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]emska_0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]ginnnnieFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link