If it comes to “policing porn” he’s already gone, but “mind control”? The scrotedacity is at an all time high

dzgata · 2020-10-14T06:25:21+00:00

This sounds like what any addict would say. You telling me to stop snorting crack is abuse and manipulation!!

myousername · 2020-10-14T06:20:02+00:00

"Breaking up with your boyfriend because he is a porn addict is a form of mind control because you are literally controlling his feelings which is wrong" 😑

CorruptSoulGem · 2020-10-14T07:20:48+00:00

Porn is disgusting. When you watch porn, you don’t know if the person/people on the other side are safe or even consenting. Many people in porn are being abused horribly, forced to work without protection, getting raped, or are even victims of sex trafficking. You can NEVER know what your watching, and if you’re okay with that I’m not okay with you.

TheFeministFox · 2020-10-14T09:30:58+00:00

I bet "controlling what they can and can't use to release dopamine is a form of mind control and abuse" suddenly becomes an issue as well if his partner decides to have sex with another man to "release dopamine".

Alas, he can't say anything, since it is abuse if he tried to control what she uses to release dopamine.

asteria2002 · 2020-10-14T10:18:32+00:00

Alright, then I will just walk away(break up with them) and they can keep watching their precious porn😊

VikingDotter · 2020-10-14T07:11:03+00:00

Porn is cheating. They are masturbating with another girl in mind. They are masturbating to her body, her sounds, her face, and yet somehow it isn't cheating because they don't know the girl in person? They are pretending their hand is her pussy, but it somehow isn't cheating?

I want a man who desires only me. Maybe a fleeting moment of "wow, she's attractive" if he runs into someone gorgeous, but not a "now I'm gonna go home and find a porn actress who looks like her and wank off and imagine my cum on her face". I can't believe this is controversial.

ItsFreezen · 2020-10-14T12:01:45+00:00

First it was "Divorce Rape" Now it's "Controlling porn usage is mind control"

rebel4acause · 2020-10-14T13:22:53+00:00

You see, my boyfriend loves to snort cocaine and gamble. I don't try to control his cocaine use because that would be immature of me. Who am I to determine how he gets his dopamine release? And his gambling problem? It would insecure of me to control what he can and can't experience. I trust him when he says he doesn't have an addiction, even though he can't stop and his behaviours are harming his life, his health, and our relationship.

KountChalkula · 2020-10-14T12:24:49+00:00

This is what my ex said to me. He used the exact words. Now I know only porn addicted LVM's who spend most of their time on reddit talk this way. Thanks for teaching me that scrote!

OrangeyPanda · 2020-10-14T13:40:50+00:00

Clearly porn has smoothed his brain to an alarming amount.

2020-10-14T15:25:40+00:00

His whole message reeks of erectile dysfunction, using women, addiction and red flags. Ew. You can also get some dopamine by doing better shit than looking at other women while you're in a relationship.

The brain damage is so obvious in this one. Sad.

slythergin23 · 2020-10-14T13:15:48+00:00

so is it mind control if you tell me i can't do drugs every day? thanks dave.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2020-10-14T13:50:45+00:00

Policing a woman’s ability to make decisions about what she is and isn’t comfortable with is a red flag of an abuser who has no respect for her body, her opinions, or her boundaries. Run from these addicted scrotes!

Blackishcat27 · 2020-10-14T15:18:53+00:00

They'll say anything to gaslight you into thinking porn is okay.

2020-10-14T15:44:34+00:00

Hope he didn't break his ass with that stretch. Mind-control, lol.

MuchSeat3 · 2020-10-14T07:49:32+00:00

Gross. Reminded me of my ex. I saw his Pornh*b history once and it was nasty. Stuff like “removed condom and came in Tinder date when she said not too.”, “Step mom and son do so and so..”, “cheating on my wife blah blah blah” honestly I can’t even express how hurtful this all was to find at the time - in so many different ways.

2020-10-14T15:44:34+00:00

What the heck did I just read 😂

LadyGrimes · 2020-10-14T17:52:42+00:00

The best way of handling this is never to date or get into relationships with porn addicts. they're incapable of love as it is as well as empathy. Just look at the shit they watch and get off to.

4E4ME · 2020-10-14T19:26:34+00:00

By all means, red flag me and be gone.

kettleodumplins · 2020-10-14T21:22:20+00:00

This is why it's important to leave early on if you know that someone is watching porn. ASK, listen to their answer, and leave if it is a yes whether it's a "maybe" "not when I'm in a relationship" or "sometimes" yes.

miwamus · 2020-10-16T04:59:14+00:00

The last guy I dated said the same thing when I found out he was an alcoholic and told him as much.

No, bro, you're just an alcoholic.

Title	If it comes to “policing porn” he’s already gone, but “mind control”? The scrotedacity is at an all time high
Author	bootsforpigs
Upvotes	212
Comments	27
Date	October 14, 2020 2:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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