There are tons of sites promising to provide you with a thorough background check. Many of them do this tiered unnecessary build up with a count down of the scary info you are about to be told. They all seem very scam like. Then at the end, you can’t even pay for the one time report, they want you to sign up for a subscription in order to get the information.

I’d also like to know if anyone has found a resource to ferret out multiple email addresses/phone numbers/dating app usage/multiple social media accounts specifically when these things are not connected to their own name. As in, on tinder under a different name with no photo/5 Instagram accounts/5 emails/stealth apps used for hiding texts and calls etc.

These men are getting James Bond with the ability to hide things and manipulate us. The resources are out there for them to be almost certain we will never find out what is really going on. We need to better protect ourselves.