In the past I've only dated guys without options because it made me feel more secure and like I didn't have to worry. Recently, I got chased by a guy with very, very high SMV and I gave him a good workout but it was because I genuinely felt he was too high value to like me, he has a few intimidating exes who make me look like a loser (they're younger, one looks like a model, more accomplished, have interesting friends, seem rich, have travelled everywhere and are very successful whereas I don't have my shit together at all and I'm 3 years older than him and basically sat in my house alone my entire life being mentally crippled from a bad childhood). Some of them are still pursuing him, he seems to still be friends with a few, and it's too early for me to bring up the subject and interrogate him about it but after a few months of talking every day and him making it explicit that he is seeing nobody else and properly asking me out I decided to give it a try. I feel like a total disappointment, I make him food, I have a cheerful disposition and try my best to be attractive and hold it together, and so far he is being the perfect gentleman but I just feel like he's going to snap out of it and realize he can do much better at any moment. I was just wondering if this is a normal feeling, and if not what to do about it.