This information has most probably been provided over and over and over, yet there are still so many who continue to make this mistake and I feel it is just to once more put a reminder out there.

Exhibit A: My friend has just gotten engaged. My friend is actually subscribed to The Red Pill and all its glory. My friend has still made these fatal mistakes.

Any young ones out there, contemplating getting into a LTR, Engagement and/or Marriage, learn from this (and what others will surely post/correct).

DO NOT - get into a LTR/Engagement/Marriage until you have vetted her family, especially her mother and plausible soy boy father. My friend did no such thing with the vetting, prior to popping the question. We have just met the mother and she is a harpie land whale. Loud, obnoxious, feels the world is owed to them and allowed to run a rampant on her husband who is taking abuse like it's nothing. (Happy wife, happy life - AMIRIGHT). You should of heard the screech on this woman when said husband took far too long in getting the phone camera ready to take a group photo.

Case in point - Friend and I were out and about, arrived back at his place, fiancé is on the couch and watching one of her many reality tv shows (because they're all about reality AMIRIGHT). First thing she does, no greeting, no love or affection, but scream to him "WHERE ARE MY DONUTS!"

Turns out friend, missed a text from her where she asked him to pickup donuts. After flipping her lid, she ordered him to go out and get the donuts for her. He obliged like a good boy.

Why his fiancé views this as acceptable behavior... She has lived in that environment her entire life with her mother doing the exact same thing to her father, so it is viewed as the norm for behavior.

Vet, VeT, VET!

DO NOT - get into a LTR/Engagement/Marriage unless your partner has MONEY! I am talking about proper, PROPER money. Weather it is all from Daddy, or she has earned it herself, make sure she has FUCKING MONEY! (Now I read people and LOL when they say that the man should always have more money as it means they have more power and will be respected further and etc. You might be right... On the other hand, I'm more than fine in receiving my $500 Hugo Boss leather satchel as a JUST BECAUSE gift, or turning away a Rolex (I still have too much Mr. Nice Guy in me) as I couldn't accept it as this chick and I were in no way going to be serious (like she believed it was) - anyhow).

Why I say: Make sure she has money... It save you from having to break your back in working two jobs just to support this unicorn princess of yours. Furthermore, picture doing all that - buying a house, sacrificing your hours/life/sanity, only for your unicorn princess to just divorce you and take it all away :)

Make sure she is rich kiddies... Helps save you from divorce rape. Helps save you from having to financially handle it all. Helps save you from having to buy shit for her as she can buy it herself.

Case in point - Friend is on a nice $60k salary. His fiancé is on $35k (or thereabout.) She expected a Tiffany diamond engagement ring (lol) - Thank fuck friend did not provide that, however, he has promised her one for the future...

This is your future, friend, busting your ass in overtime and the likes, just to drop the $15k (or whatever it is) down the toilet!

Let's not even begin to discuss the $900k mortgage needed to buy a feasible home...

DO NOT - get into a LTR/Engagement/Marriage unless you're planning on having kids. I am a firm believe that a child should be raised by a mother and father unit.

So... Make sure your woman can ACTUALLY FUCKING HAVE KIDS (another form of vetting). Imagine locking her down and finding out it's a baron wasteland...

You need to also make sure that she wants kids. And when you have the conversations, you can actually see through the potential fake statement she is just spewing in order to lock you down. (You didn't know that women spew bullshit and act fake as fuck when they want to lock something down? Well... Now you do!)

Case in point - (Another friend of mine has a home with his 6 year long GF... She has now come out saying she actually never wants to have kids... Poor dude is too invested now and too much of a bitch to cut ties!)

DO NOT - get into a Engagement/Marriage until you have lived together for a minimal of one year. (Now this is something I do not understand. A lot of people say that you should never live together until you're married... This is very big mistake (IMO). Living together, she will most probably be putting on a farce for the first 3-6 months. Her true colors will then come out (leaving laundry everywhere, staining everything with her makeup, hair all over the place (clogging drains), being clung to you 24/7! Et. Cetera and Et. Cetera...) - Now imagine you're already married and all this shit comes to fruition and you can't handle/stand it... And you're saying you should be married first before living together? Tskkkkkk)

Be sure you've lived together for a minimal of one year. You'll be around each other practically 24/7... You'll garner if you can stand the witch and if what she does is acceptable and if you're able to ensure her behavior is appeasing you!

DO NOT - get into a LTR/Engagement/Marriage unless you can actually stand the bitch. Her looks, will fade. Her pussy, will not feel as good as a 19 year old. Her body, even surgically enhanced, will not compete with a 19 year old. Her sense of humor that you found adorable, will get on your fucking nerves! Et. Cetera and Et. Cetera

So... Be sure this partner of yours is a legit 'best friend' candidate. You have fun. It's like your first dates together. Remember how going to the movies was fun. Going to the bar for some drinks, fun. Going on a 3 week cruise together, fun. Et. Cetera and Et. Cetera.

Be sure that you're constantly having fun with them!

Case in point - My friend is already hating when they go on holiday together, He wants to do one thing, she the other... Enjoy the lifetime of this, my friend :)

(Imagine being stuck with them in a lock down...)

DO NOT - get into a LTR/Engagement/Marriage until you have taken her out to get drunk (at a club/bar/what not) and she has also had a proper girls night out (when you ain't there - but your bro was as a sleeper...).

When you're with her and you got her plastered... Was she perhaps chatting to a Chad/Tyrone right in front of you? Perhaps ignoring you and touching his chest, giggling at the most mundane comments? Et. Cetera and Et. Cetera.

Proper girls night out... Was this tour 14 of her world famous BJ tours? Imagine sitting at home on a SAT night (with kids, or just because) while she is out with her skank friends and blowing Chad/Tyrone in the bathroom (something that she'd never do with you as SHE DOESN'T DO THAT/NOT THAT KINDA GIRL).

You need to know this. Is your woman just another club skank hoe that you're trying to change :T

(She will never change! Even after she's hit the wall)

Case in point - My friends fiancé, is already talking about how she will be flying to Miami or Vegas for her bachelorette party...

Do not - Develop a dad body because its what she wants and is sexy (LOL)

Seriously... How do these fucktards believe that being a fat tub of lard is sexy =\

(All I know is when we are in a hot tub, no one is looking at your dad bod - they're looking at my A1 physique and attempting footsies under the bubbles. Don't even get me started when I'm cleaning the house in nothing but my underwear ;D)

Do not - Give up on your goals and your hobbies. You're an idiot if you stop being who you were just because you're now LTR/Engaged/Married.

Sat night was UFC night with the boys... Then keep fucking doing it!
6-10pm on Mon-Fri is gym, studies, music, Et. Cetera... Then keep fucking doing it!
You have a motorbike and she wants you to get rid of it... Buy another one!
You made plans to go out and she says, why didn't you ask me for permission... Leave the house the day before and stay out a day later ;)
You get the point, right?

Edit: (Adding in - This is pre-kids... Kids become priority(IMO) - You'll have to give up your 'crazy independent' ways when you have kids).

Do not - Overlook RED FLAGS!
It can be easy to overlook red flags due to your feels... This is what these illustrious forums are about. Ask a proper RED FLAG question, you'll get proper answers...
(NO! Asking my ltr is talking with her ex and wants to hang out with him, do I allow this? - IS NOT A PROPER FUCKING QUESTION!)

Do not - Give up on dread/being a suave MOFO.
When your girl can see that everyone is dying to fuck you (especially if she has sisters and/or her bffs are making it so obvious with the steam being produced from their vag! - you're doing great)

Do not - Fall for shit tests and/or argue...
Why would you argue with a woman?
Seriously, why!?
She is only arguing with you because she is bored, or that's what she sees as the norm on reality TV... Let her vent (if you have to) as that is all she wants... To vent... To get it alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll out.
Or better yet, dial her best friend, hand the phone to her and say enjoy!

Do not - Forget that AWALT.
I know a chick that is a Dr. (A Dr. Of Veterinary Medicine to be more specific)
A Dr. Should be a better class of chick, right?

!AWALT!

I'd love to continue, but I have other shit to do.

I'm sure others will be chiming in, with further input and/or even calling me an A1 retard with some of the things I mentioned.

End of day... ENSURE YOU'VE LEARNED FROM ALL THIS, YOUNG GRASSHOPPER!