My really close friend (26M) (we went to high school and college together) just found out that his fiance (26F) was a wild college girl... How many stories have you heard of this already?
He isn't fully red-pilled, still believes that the majority of women are good women. But I have been redpilling him slowly ever since I discovered it years ago. I wouldn't bombard him with information, just give him some little nuggets here and there.
Well, he was having a conversation with her about priorities, boundaries and why they chose each other as partners. Boy, oh boy, when they got to the part to why she chose him as a partner (she's very attractive, by the way), she gave him a long, "loving" speech, BUT there was something she said there that set his alarm bells off. She called him "Safe". Now, over the years I've drilled it into him that if a girl even insinuates in any way that she is not crazily, sexually attracted to you; that if she sees you as a good, "safe" option, she was a slut in her past and is settling for you -- hardly any exceptions. So when he heard her say that, he panicked and came to me (his words).
We were never great with girls before, but the redpill helped me out a lot with that. I have no shortage of attractive woman who just wanna bang and my buddy knows this.
He asked me what to do. We talked for hours on end (she told him everything you'd expect from a settler, never once mentioned her sexual attraction to him) and he slept over at my place because he lived with her and wasn't ready to face her because he was afraid of being possibly manipulated. Of course, his fiance was super worried and blowing up his phone. I answered one call and told her not to worry and he was with me. He would see her tomorrow.
The next day (yesterday) he left for work. We had a game plan to get this over with. I think the text is getting a little long but yesterday was just so surreal and I just kept repeating in my head, "MGTOW was right AGAIN."
Later that night, he came over again. Dude looked absolutely crushed. Told me she confessed to sleeping with a lot of guys before meeting him (wouldn't give me the number she said). Told me that they had this conversation before but she lied to him then (typical). He actually called himself a betabux (which I never used before in anything I discussed with him).
The thing is, if she was honest with him from the beginning, he might have very well overlooked her sexual history. He doesn't place much value in that. BUT he does value honesty. He despises liars.
Honestly, I've got to give it to his fiance. She tracked him to my place, worried sick about him. He was super angry at her and cursing her out. She was apologising profusely, crying her eyes out, was afraid he would think she was a bad person and leave her, all the while I was watching everything unfold. The neighbours must have been having a field day because they were that loud. They left together in the end.
Don't know what's going on now. They might work it out, or not. I'll probably find out later today.
Here's an Update for you lurkers and gents:
https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/etavvk/update_boy_oh_boy/
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