Stay flexible at all times. You will not always be in an ideal environment to spit game the way you like but don’t let that ruin your night. Change your approach, who knows, it might just work better.
I went to see Star Wars on Friday. If you haven’t seen it, get over your obsession of having everything be ”Red Pill” (whatever that means) and go see it, it’s a good movie. Anyways, I went out by myself because being home for dinner with my parents means I have to deal with the fact that my parents can’t stay awake past 8 anymore. Holy shit I am never getting old. Went to a 9:30 showing and was out by midnight. I’m not ready to go home yet. So I continue my journey to [Local Bar], and you guessed it, I went alone.
The game changes for me when I’m out by myself. I have to be a lot more laid back than I usually am.
The_Titleist, what does it mean to be more laid back?
I’m glad you asked! When I am out by myself I have no backup. If I walk up to that group of girls and am rejected cold, I have no way to recover. When I am normally running game on bar sluts I have a fun brand of “arrogantly self-aware narcissist” that really works for me. I’m also the only guy in my circle of friends that has no fear of using that to open up a set of girls and bring them back to us. If not, at least I can bring back a fun story about how I destroyed some feminist cunt and we can have a good laugh about it. When I am with my friends we try to be as close to the center of attention as possible so even if we fail talking to girls, we are still having fun. That’s attractive, girls want to go where the fun is or wonder why those fun guys over there haven’t talked to them yet. When I am by myself I’m just that creepy guy that’s walking up to groups of girls, talking about how great he is and insulting everyone. See the difference? Good.
The_Titleist, it’s nice that you explained how you like to spit game, but that still doesn’t tell me how you acted that night or why it worked.
You’re right. Allow me to explain my lone wolf approach.
DISCLAIMER: More often than not you will go home alone. I’m talking 4/5 times.
When I am out by myself I am the hunter. The first thing I do is get a drink to sip slow and establish myself at a table while observing the crowd. Don’t stare, but don’t blend in either. Just be part of the atmosphere. Have you done that? Good. When I’m established I then look around to see where the girls are and who they are talking to.
Where are the alpha males? The girls these guys are talking to are locked into a place of warped time and space. If you can bait those girls over to your table you’re a better man than me.
Where are the couples? Don’t even bother with these girls unless they are in a visible fight. Too much effort for not enough reward.
Where are the packs of friends? The girls here are as receptive as any at the bar, but the guys (read orbiters) will protect their own like a hawk. Not worth the effort.
Where are the girl gangs? These are what you want. They are usually so annoyed by beta orbiters/losers talking to them at the first sniff of alpha they are more than receptive.
In fact there is one such group in front of me
There they are, a group of three girls. I like groups of three because then the two left behind can talk to each other. One is short, looks Hispanic, black hair, dick sucking lips, large boobs, HB9. One is kind of chubby (why is there always a fat one) but a nice cute face and well put together HB5. One is slender, small boobs, red hair, perky butt HB8, we will call her “Summer”.
Guys have been hitting on them constantly all night. Like an endless stream of losers. I can see the frustration on their faces as guy after guy comes over to talk to them. But the troopers that they are, they stick around because the drinks are free and the attention is endless.
I was thinking about making a move on HB9 when two guys show up. They immediately begin talking to Summer and fatty. HB9 is visibly upset, but sticks around because the guys are talking to fatty and Summer. I decide to hold off and wait.
Translation for AFC
Why did I hold off here? It’s because of her mood. Reading her body language, her feet were pointed towards the door. That is a sign that she is ready to leave. She has her hands on her hips. This is a power pose to establish dominance over the other two girls. And of course, I can’t forget the blatant “fuck off” that her eyes were spewing. She was annoyed that she was ignored for her two lesser friends. I could have swept in right there and rescued her from her mood, but then I would have to deal with getting cock blocked by fatty when they finally reject the losers who are talking to them. I decide to let HB9 blow it all up as she protects her vanity then pick off Summer in the aftermath.
Back to the action
Everything goes down as I anticipated. I’m the luckiest guy alive HB9 thanks the two guys for coming over but “[They] are friends from high school that haven’t seen each other in years and just want to reconnect”. Guys walk away with their tails between their legs. They return to their circle. Summer is now upset; I can’t say for certain if she was into that last guy or not but nobody wants their prospects ended for them. This is when she starts to look my way.
Our eyes meet and I can see she is interested. She opens up her body to mine and mirrors my smirk. I motion for her to come my way. She says something to her friends and comes over smiling.
TT – “I can only assume you are here with your friends?”
HB8 – “Yes I am, how did you know?”
TT – “Only a friend could cock block you like that and get away with it.”
HB8 – “OMG, I know. She can be such a bitch sometimes, I seriously hate her." I love how girls can be friends with people they claim to hate
TT – “Is that why you’re over here? To get away from her?”
HB8 – “Haha, no. I’m here because you called me over…and you’re cute.”
TT – “I am, aren’t I. I’m The_Titleist BTW”
HB8 – “Summer, and don’t get cocky ;)”
Translation for AFC
We talk a lot on TRP about how we get shit tested, but that night, I was the one doing the shit testing.
Always establish dominance as soon as possible in the interaction. In this situation I sent her an IOI, which she matched. The first thing I did was test her for compliance by motioning her over to me. Pass, and in doing so entered my frame. This significantly eases the interaction moving forward.
TT – “I can see that you are here to have fun and get laid, but you can’t because your friends suck”
Summer – “I know, she’s just mad because guys like me better”
Next, I tested for fitness by making her qualify her action of coming over.
TT – “You’re here to get laid, right? Or you do you just need to repair your ego”
Summer – “You are right, I am here to get laid. Also, I see you as a candidate ;)”
Back to the action
We talk about nonsense. You can say just about anything to a girl who is interested in you. We actually talked about how there are still some leaves are left up on the oak trees. Whatever The main point is that I noticed that her friends weren’t coming to rescue her and not once did she look around for them. I decide this is the right time to bring her back home.
TT – “Where did your friends go?” Fuck, I may have just blown this
Summer – “I don’t know. Oh no, fatty was my ride” Houston, we have a problem The last thing I need is a girl freaking out because she has lost her friends. I’ve blown it too many times when this has happens.
TT – “Check it out, there is a place about a block away that’s open and makes some damn good quesadillas. Let’s go there, you can sober up and track down your friends.”
Summer – “Okay”
Translation for AFC
This is not a shit test. This is genuine concern wrapped in enlightened self-interest. She was scared because she had lost track of her friends. I know that food will always help calm people in these situations, but at the same time, I am further isolating her and thus improving my chances of getting laid by controlling the options.
Say what you want about my morals, I don’t give a fuck.
Back to the action
We leave [Local Bar] and start making the walk over to the quesadilla place. In my arms she seems to have calmed down and is now looking all sultry again. I stare her straight in the eyes.
TT - “You know, I’ve been waiting for this opportunity all night”
Summer – “What opportunity?”
I grab her by the base of her hair and kiss her
Summer – “I like that”
TT – “Fuck quesadillas, I know the best breakfast place in town”
She is in my arms, we both know what I really mean.
Summer – “Then what are we waiting for?”
As much as girls want you to be dangerous and aggressive, they also need you to make them feel safe. The alpha male is inherently a protector, use that to your advantage
Start to really study your surroundings. Half of the game is knowing she is interested before you even say a word to her.
Learn what your frame is. Establish it early and make sure she knows she is gracing your presence, not the other way around.
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