I am compelled to write this out because a prominent self-improvment icon on twitter (who will not be named out of respect for the rest of his work), who is also followed by many ECs, is under the blue pill delusion of:

Spending hundreds of dollars on a women in the first date is how you find a "decent" girl."

He goes on further to say Girls are unimpressed by your boring coffee, netflix and chills dates.

Lets go ahead and address this idea section by section:

1.) The first flaw with this belief, is the idea that one should be concerned with impressing a woman.

Shes there at the coffee date, talking with you isnt she? Shes in your room, watching netflix waiting for you to fuck her isnt she? Who gives a fuck if she is impressed, its completely irrelevent to the quality of the relationship, or to having fantastic sex with the woman.

2.) Why the hell would you spend more than 50$ on a woman YOU JUST MET. Would you pick up a random on the street during day game, and propose going to a 5 star resturant where you pay for food, drinks, and all other expenses for a person youve known for a total of 10 minutes?

This is a sure fire way to lock yourself into the beta provider category. He believes that you must spend much money, on the first date, so that line of thinking will compel him to top the previous date... and so on.

What happens when those dates dwindle? That woman, having become used to being treated as a pussy-goddess, you think shes gonna let you stop taking her out and treating her like a queen? HELL NO.

Are you just going to continuously top the previous date to "impress her and keep her on her toes?"

3.) He implies that the only way to find a "decent girl" is to spend hundreds of dollars on her.

First, what is a decent girl? Decent for what youre looking for, maybe. Easy sex, produces art, and takes care of her body is "decent" for me, for a FWB.

Does he mean a "good girl?" Well, of course hes gonna get the good girl act, as he acts like a beta provider. Does he mean, loyal, classy?

Perfect example of madonna whore complex, believing only "whores" would have a coffee and netflix date. Loyal classy wife material girls would only go out on 100+ dollar first dates!

Truth is, "decent girls" can still easily be found by taking her to a pool hall. And you save all the money.

4.) This is alll coming from a place of needing to impress. That you need to "treat a lady right." You should buy your way into her liking you.

Idk about yall, but im not spending more than 20$ on a hoe i just met. And thats taking her to the gun range. This guy is suggesting cross world cruises, jet skiing trips and lavish dinners for a girl he hasnt taken out, hasnt even fucked yet!

And the funny kicker, is he likes/retweets the women who flock to his post who say "if you try to take me on a coffee date, im out. If you take me out to try and screen me you are wasting my time. If you wont take me on a nice date someone else will. Fuck off with your pussy date!"

Translated : im entitled to your time and money for blessing you with my limited attention on a date, even though we just met.