Divorce is official

MGMOWNow1978 · 2018-07-02T20:10:03+00:00

Nice work chief, welcome to the rest of your life.

DatBoiGames · 2018-07-02T20:12:25+00:00

Cheers, drink a beer for all the men who aren’t as fortunate.

roxon89 · 2018-07-02T20:29:25+00:00

Just over a grand? My GOD. Where do you live??

NarrowSilver · 2018-07-02T20:09:24+00:00

Good for you man, victory is yours, savor it.

GnomeOrFaith · 2018-07-02T21:20:20+00:00

I just made the decision today to start this process. I was defeinitely a cuck, gave her a good life, everything she wanted but she wants more. Including an "open" relationship to fuck whoever she wants. Fuck that, I've awoken and I am ready for my life back. I found MGTOW half a year ago and I see my hapiness potential. Now, the question is how the fuck do I go about getting no alimony or child support and 50% custody of my kids?!

westnblue · 2018-07-02T20:43:07+00:00

Did you get a divorce selfie?

https://goo.gl/images/XY1z7G

OriginalSkyCloth · 2018-07-02T20:55:01+00:00

It's a good day. My divorce went final on my ex wife's birthday! A small sliver of sweet irony.

trancedj · 2018-07-02T23:54:11+00:00

Sounds like you did your homework. Good job. You know a lot of guys would kill to getaway with such a deal.

Mine is similar, 50% custody, no child support, no alimony, did the separation agreement myself. Everything came in under $500. North Carolina raise up!

However, my last LTR almost ruined my career and mental health. That’s what brought me here. I plan to live the rest of my days as a bachelor thank you very much.

2018-07-02T21:11:43+00:00

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Mefic_vest · 2018-07-02T22:15:42+00:00

That… is an uncommonly light punishment. Congratulations!

Sivitiri · 2018-07-02T22:33:13+00:00

Congrats but just be careful, the 50% custody thing can change once children begin choosing where they can stay and the bitch decides to go to a child support lawyer and gets a readjustment. Remember in the world of women the argument is NEVER over.

MrMannheim · 2018-07-02T20:55:32+00:00

Lucky bastard.

jason1009 · 2018-07-02T22:35:04+00:00

how old are the kids? just wondering how long until they are 18. Just know AT ANY TIME she could pull some shit to get money out of you and more than likely use the children for leverage. DO NOT act happy at all. Do not even divulge much info to the kids about how happy you are. live frugally and quietly until they are 18.

IsaacZ-Mess · 2018-07-02T20:41:52+00:00

Sounds like a pretty good deal to me considering you had kids to work out in the process. I was a bit more lucky - I just got my official divorce decree in the mail a few months ago. Although, mine was a much easier process since there were no kids involved and she never had a job. Literally no proof that she owned anything in the house, especially since she had no income. All assets were under my name completely, and my legal fees totaled around 600-ish.

It feels great to finally be free. Congratulations!

mgtowaz · 2018-07-02T21:00:34+00:00

Im happy for you bro, never look back. Consider this natures way of giving you a second chance. Remember to record and keep receipt of future interactions with her. Make sure the only thing you talk about is when you will pick up your child and when she will be able to see her. Thats it.

teddyboy1969 · 2018-07-03T03:32:48+00:00

Congratulations! With regard to child support, that is never final. If there is a significant change of circumstances, she can modify the Order. I am an attorney, divorced 3 years from ex who is also an attorney. I’m permanently ruined from the marriage. I’m only 45, but can’t see myself even in a relationship with a women. At this point, it’s either hookers or live a gay lifestyle.

heartbreakmgtow · 2018-07-02T21:14:39+00:00

But is it final?

Pfunk4444 · 2018-07-02T21:24:58+00:00

Gotta get that first one out of the way, AIM I RIGHT?!?

heartbreakmgtow · 2018-07-03T00:08:55+00:00

Hate to break it to you, but it isn’t over until the kids are 18 and out of school. She may pull all kinds of shit after the divorce that will land you in family court.

Griever114 · 2018-07-03T00:33:46+00:00

Holy shit dude, you won the lottery.

Itisforsexy · 2018-07-02T21:14:23+00:00

Welcome to the first day of your life. Live hard & live well. And heck, if Aubrey Degrey is successful, we'll all have thousands of years to enjoy life, so this mistake of yours will be but a sentence in your story.

michaelmindset · 2018-07-03T00:28:13+00:00

Bless you brother. I wish you all the best in your new found freedom! Embrace this.

CrackingYs · 2018-07-03T01:14:10+00:00

Splitting 50/50 fairly? That's a deal! Take it before she smartens up and realizes she can get it all.

urban3879 · 2018-07-02T20:10:19+00:00

Alimony? Child support ?

Stargazer34 · 2018-07-02T22:49:58+00:00

Man oh man. I am so happy for you getting off this easy. NEVER let go of just how blessed and lucky you are. ENJOY YOUR FREEDOM !!!

yolodd · 2018-07-02T23:12:14+00:00

Congrats and enjoy your life.

AngryDeer · 2018-07-02T23:36:54+00:00

God I bet life smells good right now. Congratulations.

Mgtaoteching · 2018-07-02T20:30:05+00:00

Congrats, man. I got divorced last year and my life hasn’t been any better. Never goin back again!

AllUpInYoGirl · 2018-07-02T21:05:42+00:00

Happy for you! Freeeeedommmm

ConstantChinner · 2018-07-02T21:12:39+00:00

Happy for you!

throwaway_ftb · 2018-07-02T21:14:58+00:00

damn happy to hear.

SFM_2046 · 2018-07-02T21:16:30+00:00

thats wassup

motorscuz · 2018-07-02T23:38:17+00:00

Good for you. Time to do your divorce selfie since its all done

MesaBoogeyMan · 2018-07-02T23:44:14+00:00

Nice work dude, exercise, travel and start a new hobby. Never again.

SerialMansplainer · 2018-07-02T23:48:49+00:00

Congratulations brother.

2018-07-03T00:37:44+00:00

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PrideTrooperBR · 2018-07-02T23:56:32+00:00

Still very lucky. Escaped from alimony.

BananaWilly · 2018-07-02T23:59:29+00:00

So, when the stinging goes away, are you MGTOW or will you dive back into the pool and see if you can reduce your assets, some more with another delightful woman.

2018-07-03T01:30:56+00:00

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juankixd · 2018-07-03T02:48:09+00:00

Just to clarify by a grand you mean 1k or 100k. I'm not American so it gets kind of confusing.

520ThirdStreet · 2018-07-03T06:37:05+00:00

You are the envy of a lot of divorce raped guys here. Have fun being the more nurturing parent and good luck with handling your upward trajectory!

cobaltcolander · 2018-07-03T09:08:36+00:00

Still got a taste of divorcerape - you know, just the tip...

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-07-03T09:47:37+00:00

Well done.

My turn in August; hope I do as well as you.

Bariwhite · 2018-07-03T13:44:44+00:00

Most important thing: Don't get married again.

EVER

ififcanIhaveacoatplz · 2018-07-03T00:03:17+00:00

No divorce selfie? with ur big shit eating grin next to a. feckless cunt poutyface???

earlsinclairisdead · 2018-07-03T00:06:20+00:00

This is becoming more and more common. If I were to guess, this is because she cheated, no? I got the same deal because I have pictures of her being a cheating whore. AWALT tho. Congrats brother, and welcome.

spitfitt · 2018-07-03T01:51:07+00:00

Did she contribute financially at all to the relationship or did you get fucked out of half of your shit?

DanTheMGTOW · 2018-07-03T02:27:47+00:00

How? That's amazing!

VinnieMatch69 · 2018-07-03T02:33:49+00:00

Congrats!!

adamrockblackandblue · 2018-07-03T02:41:32+00:00

I only ask how did you manage that? Good lawyer, provincial/state laws? This is unheard of.

2018-07-03T02:46:11+00:00

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ransay3277 · 2018-07-03T02:59:30+00:00

Well played my friend. Well played.

dialecticwizard · 2018-07-03T03:20:56+00:00

Congrats dude. Welcome to the world of (the-wtf. Delete) freedom.

DrRedPill · 2018-07-03T03:42:57+00:00

Never surrender insert Eye of the tiger! ROFLMAO you are winning, unlike Charlie Sheen, go your own way man, nothing beats it.

NinjaDingo · 2018-07-03T03:44:49+00:00

Congrats buddy. Enjoy the rest of your life!

2018-07-03T03:49:57+00:00

Fuck, that's less than my legal fees and the bitch fled the country.

browsingonmywii · 2018-07-03T05:13:56+00:00

Nice job and congrats on ending a bad marriage/relationship, wish you the best in your future endeavors

starkfuture · 2018-07-03T05:59:40+00:00

From what I understand this is as good as it gets - marriage, I mean. Your life in general can only get better from here. Wish you the best brother.

Eigerdog · 2018-07-03T06:34:42+00:00

Good for you! Life gets better now

2018-07-03T06:44:55+00:00

Welcome to the club.

Sneakybobo · 2018-07-03T06:55:46+00:00

Take a selfie !

avtarius · 2018-07-03T07:02:10+00:00

Welcome to the beginning of your life.

Supersonic_staples · 2018-07-03T07:05:03+00:00

Happy for you guy.

I'm over $20,000 in legal fees and 3 years into trying to get rid of mine, still no end in sight.

Enjoy your freedom!

FutureSergant · 2018-07-03T08:12:44+00:00

I am so happy for you man,enjoy your life now!!

TwilightSea · 2018-07-03T08:58:54+00:00

Phew damage has been mitigated. Seeing these cunts are nowadays so glad I'll never marry a brit. Can't anyways unless I visit the place.

Y3rtsqu1rt · 2018-07-03T09:20:29+00:00

Just remember you were lucky this time, and don't kid yourself when you begin seeking after pink tacos that there is a mystic 🦄 who will be loyal and care about you. That's awesome that you only had $1000 costs. Most of the time it is 10 times that cost. Congratulations.

BajingoArsonist · 2018-07-03T09:37:30+00:00

Teach us, oh Grand Master.

toolate4redpill · 2018-07-03T09:56:09+00:00

Awesome! Congrats! I'm envious.......

Loban8990 · 2018-07-03T10:35:07+00:00

Enjoy your freedom

Captainfaker64 · 2018-07-03T11:43:06+00:00

Congrats.

J_St0rm · 2018-07-03T11:59:22+00:00

Dam I’d consider that a win.

Scorpiontail · 2018-07-03T12:02:15+00:00

"I made it out alive." Hell, dude, you scammed the system BIG time...how the hell did you manage it? I've never heard of NO child support being awarded.

WhackingPsychopomp · 2018-07-03T12:05:21+00:00

Welcome. There's beer in the fridge and the bathroom is down the hall on the right.

silentnick1992 · 2018-07-03T12:16:51+00:00

Your own way awaits you

2MetresAbove · 2018-07-03T12:30:24+00:00

Keep hanging there. Thanks be to God I have discovered MGTOW and so I will never repeat your mistake.

Afab67 · 2018-07-03T13:14:53+00:00

Wow. You did good. Go forward in peace.

greywolf1968 · 2018-07-03T15:33:05+00:00

Good job OP. It could have been so much worse. Stories like yours are my daily reminder of what could have happened if I'd got married and I almost did eight years ago. As other comrades have said ," Welcome to Freedom."

drizztdourden420 · 2018-07-03T15:44:14+00:00

That's fucking awesome. Not many guys get off that easy. Good on you!

ProfessorGanymede · 2018-07-03T16:27:56+00:00

Wow nice dude! You are a hero. Hopefully it's half of HER cash instead of you giving up half of your cash. What about the house?

2018-07-03T20:01:15+00:00

Another soul saved!

trancedj · 2018-07-04T09:46:21+00:00

Phone guarding, lying, manipulating, shit that all women do.

I chose to ignore them all because I thought I could remain in the relationship without becoming too attached. Boy was I wrong. There’s a Rollo quote about tigers goes something like, “the moment you see a tiger as your pet, it will devour you.”

leering855 · 2018-07-22T00:21:57+00:00

must have been uncontested... Congratulations bro

MilkroTik · 2018-08-12T01:19:07+00:00

You still lost a great deal of money by giving half of your financial wealth to your ex life. You got out of it alive at a great cost.

RJ850 · 2018-07-03T12:23:30+00:00

Sounds like a nice divorce. Mine was very similar over 20 years ago.

Title	Divorce is official
Author	jeff_portnoy
Upvotes	872
Comments	207
Date	July 2, 2018 8:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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