So i saw this on fb and i support the guys move, of a lot of women are there saying he is controlling and heartless for leaving her

MarzMonkey · 2018-06-25T17:15:13+00:00

"She broke my trust...was probably going to end up cheating...got raped and beaten over it and I'm suppose to feel sorry?"

Says it all right there, and the hamster still wants to run back and try to justify the actions.

1v1crown · 2018-06-25T15:29:48+00:00

Yeah that happened to me similarly. My ex was living on her college campus in Dartmouth NH. I lived in Boston. She went to some party and said this guy groped her. After pressing I asked how long it happened for and she said 5 minutes. I broke up with her over the phone. 5 Minutes is a lonnnnnng ass time to let someone grope you in a club with people all around you that could of stopped it.

LegitimateApricot4 · 2018-06-25T14:55:30+00:00

Fuuucckk that bitch

DangZagnut · 2018-06-25T14:54:55+00:00

Although Anon is being cold, flip the script. Some GF tells her BF not to go out to a bar. He goes out anyway and gets a DUI coming home. She breaks up with his ass because he got drunk and fucked up.

No one would care one way or another, so would that be "cold" for her to do that?

of course not.

She has no right to his company, emotional support, resources nor anything else. If her friends are bitching, ghost them too.

Juxtapointer · 2018-06-25T15:20:02+00:00

rough drunken 3 way behind a dumpster isn't rape. she banged 2 dudes and regrets it. nothing more.

davisyoung · 2018-06-25T16:55:53+00:00

I wouldn't say he's controlling. She is free to do whatever she wants. But it was explained to her if she did x, then y would happen. So she does x, and what do you know, y happens. If she didn't have to face consequences for her actions, then she will continue to be entitled and take advantage of him.

DeusExMaximum · 2018-06-25T17:21:55+00:00

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xx_deleted_x · 2018-06-25T16:38:11+00:00

This technique finally hit me! By saying they were raped, their guy would be victim shaming if he does anything but shower her with special treatment & attention. She cheats & it's the best thing to happen to her (and gives her the upper hand in a fight for relationship power).

Maybe this is why the WHO reports that women who are raped have a higher chance of being raped again in the future.

EDIT: list of factors "increasing women's vulnerability" [to sexual assault]: (p. 157, ch. 6 "sexual violence")

being young; —
consuming alcohol or drugs; —
having previously been raped or sexually abused; —
having many sexual partners; —
involvement in sex work; —
becoming more educated and economically empowered, at least where sexual violence perpetrated by an intimate partner is concerned; —
poverty

gods_bones · 2018-06-25T19:29:26+00:00

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scruffyshoulders · 2018-06-25T17:27:03+00:00

Women should not be going to clubs without their boyfriends if they have one. Women go there to get hit on. Enormously disrespectful. He did the right thing.

OBS_W · 2018-06-25T18:53:02+00:00

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oirectine00 · 2018-06-25T17:28:30+00:00

Use it against them in a benevolent way. "I'm a man and I can't possibly understand the pain she is going through. She should seek help from a crisis center because if I stay with her it will only make things worse. She is probably terrified of men now."

RavagedDarkness · 2018-06-25T18:55:52+00:00

Rape is code for "Got a train run on me" today. Fuck that whore.

Conatus_Hawk · 2018-06-25T18:58:26+00:00

"she left alone with some guys" that pretty much seals issue for me. OP did the right thing. Women constantly withhold permission from guys and that is considered okay? He didn't want her to go, she did. The consequences are on her. She cheated on him.

robowriter · 2018-06-25T18:55:12+00:00

If she didn't report it to the police she's makin' it up and just banged a group of guys, whatever.

It's probably some BPD bullshit.

VolgaSvetlana · 2018-06-25T18:19:05+00:00

If a woman did the same it would be okay, because the guy is a liar. MGTOW is the only way to go.

toolate4redpill · 2018-06-25T19:17:10+00:00

The REAL story. She got drunk and two guys ran a train on her. It then becomes "I was beaten and raped" as a cover story

Bet on it

rustyshekel · 2018-06-25T18:23:37+00:00

Love the part where she leaves alone with a stranger and his friend. A girl like that can never be trusted.

Nonetheless I don't like how he gave her the ultimatom though. The second a girl gives me one of those, I'm done with her.

Schizophermic · 2018-06-25T18:08:04+00:00

Nothing wrong with his actions at all. I don't believe one tenth of these "rape" stories.

gbevans · 2018-06-25T18:28:10+00:00

i'd say it was 95% she was gonna screw a guy at the party. they act like children and think they're never any consequences.

Jcart105 · 2018-06-25T18:42:53+00:00

"rape"

Freenorthman · 2018-06-25T19:08:28+00:00

If this happens to your gf First question is how come you where alone with a guy ? Fuck that bitch tho

BadassGT-CS · 2018-06-25T16:59:50+00:00

They probably impregnated her too. Wise move, whether it's bullshit or not. Sometimes hard decisions must be made.

Deejmahal831 · 2018-06-25T17:08:43+00:00

I wouldn't feel sorry one bit. You know what you are getting yourself into when you leave with another man to go somewhere.

Drayelya · 2018-06-25T17:50:09+00:00

Yeeaaaaah....rape.

2018-06-25T19:14:13+00:00

He did the right thing. She told him off and went with her friend to the club. She made her choice.

Did she file a police report, get a rape kit test, and show the police where the rapists took her? No? She's gaslighting him. Her friend is more involved in that situation now than he.

For those who think that he should go to her, remember that she dumped him. He set the precedent, and she crossed the line. Their relationship was over before she got raped. She left the club with other guys to party.

She now needs professional help which her ex cannot provide.

Odinson864 · 2018-06-25T18:15:00+00:00

Good on him!

OldTimeyENT · 2018-06-25T19:51:02+00:00

While I think legit rape is fucked up, who knows what the truth is? She is already a liar, and oblivious to red flags. Even if she did get raped, why would he console her? Fuck that shit, and I wouldn't feel the slightest bit bad.

1st10Amendments · 2018-06-25T19:19:38+00:00

Who says a guy HAS to be the savior of a woman who doesn’t respect him or take his advice and suffers a penalty for it?

Natsume25 · 2018-06-26T00:35:11+00:00

This.

He made his terms clear. While I do agree that I'm not a fan of ultimatums, this is why I side with OP.

He told her to her face why he didn't want her to go and what would happen if he did. He made it clear he would break up with her.
She intentionally snuck out and withheld that information from OP, because she knew what she was doing wasn't right in his eyes, but still wanted the benefits of keeping him around.
Gets raped(that she claims) and comes to him for sympathy after the fact.
Now ex gf is offended and friends call him colr, but all he did was set the terms and stayed true to his word. If anything, it turns out that he was right about that place.

Fact of the matter is, while her getting raped was unfortunate, she heavily disrespected the relationship by lying about going to the club. If she was honest, she should have said "Well I want to go to the club anyway, so I guess we're through." And done what she wants. Question is, why didn't she do that?

What on Earth could have made her try to have her cake and eat it too in such a dishonest way?

Homegirl gets no sympathy from me on that end. And I will stand by that story.

rlh445 · 2018-06-25T19:32:44+00:00

hero afaik

ChrisBrownApologist · 2018-06-25T17:09:01+00:00

Lifefuel

2018-06-25T19:46:14+00:00

She deserved to get dumped, now I don't think she deserved the beating and raped buy she broke his trust after aaying that she wouldn't go and then on top of that left with a group of guys. I'm not saying people should get beaten even though some should but she definitely deserved the dumping.

2018-06-25T20:05:06+00:00

clap clap clap A true man that respect himself and the boundaries he put on himself. A real example

ThePlague · 2018-06-25T21:16:37+00:00

She lied to you about going
She went against your sound advice concerning the place
She left with 2 strange men to go to "a party"

Maybe she was raped, maybe she wasn't. That depends on what the evidence says. I would be more inclined to believe this was one of those "changed my mind after the fact" scenarios after two guys ran a train on her.

satanssockpuppet · 2018-06-25T23:34:11+00:00

Let's reverse the scenario. Boyfriend tells girlfriend he doesn't care what she thinks, he's going to the sleazy strip club with his buddies. She says if you go, we're through. He goes anyway.

He calls her at 4am from the hospital and tells her he left the club to go party with some girls he met but they robbed him and stabbed him in the groin.

What would his girlfriend do? What would her friends have to say? It'd be a significantly different tone for sure, you can bet on that.

MrBluePill · 2018-06-25T23:47:14+00:00

Hang on....he breaks up with her and he's the controlling one? This is fucked up. He did the right thing and now needs to keep walking. Can you imagine if all every ex had to do to get you back is cry rape? And as he points out it looks like she was going to cheat anyway, and possibly did then "changed her mind"

annonymous93 · 2018-06-25T19:35:37+00:00

You’re in the right, you owe her nothing. Fuck what everyone else thinks

HopeFaith11 · 2018-06-25T19:58:34+00:00

Karma does exist sometimes and sometimes it happens very soon... XD

Edit: Also if that didn't happen she was still going to cheat on him without a doubt

croatoan123 · 2018-06-25T19:59:54+00:00

Sounds like she fucked some dude and is making shit up to get away with it to me.. Pretty much irrelevant though either way dude did the right thing by dropping her

setpejoki · 2018-06-25T21:52:11+00:00

You can't be controlling and detached at the same time

Downhere_Seeds · 2018-06-25T21:59:51+00:00

Technically, she ended the relationship when she went to the club. This dude is keeping his promise.

spitfitt · 2018-06-25T22:21:17+00:00

What are the chances she created a sob story to get him back after she went to the club?

doomguy1994315 · 2018-06-25T23:50:09+00:00

She Probably didnt get raped at all... She just needed chads dick real bad

kuxcom2 · 2018-06-26T01:14:50+00:00

Okay, rules I follow:
- She breaks my trust like this, she is out.
- She gets raped, she is out.
- Already talking back to me in a rude way is playing with fire.

HerbertRTarlekJr · 2018-06-26T03:14:51+00:00

I'd be really curious to know if she reported the rape to the cops, or whether it was one of those retroactive rapes.

curiouslyengaged · 2018-06-26T04:37:51+00:00

Play stupid games win stupid prizes

donkeypunchapussy · 2018-06-26T05:33:58+00:00

Good for him, that pussy is tainted now, plus she will be an emotional mess that won't put out. Stand your ground you did the right thing

Rektd79 · 2018-06-26T07:25:24+00:00

It was probably regret rape and she is playing the victim. Do not go were angels fear to tread.

LilDebbo · 2018-06-25T20:19:49+00:00

"You don't own me and I can do what I want"

Ah, but you see laddie, the same goes for him two. And yep, he doesn't control yah. But you could at least respect him and not go to sum sleazy arse club. Bloody fucking hell the internet aint gon stupefy you if to see if the joint is grand or not.

wow_kapow · 2018-06-25T21:02:19+00:00

Good on him, he held his word

browsingonmywii · 2018-06-25T21:02:45+00:00

This is 4chan, although plausible and the lesson is good, could still be fake and gay

hypergamous · 2018-06-25T21:14:01+00:00

There are times when ghosting is appropriate.

This is one of them. No response or reply needed.

New phone, new life - stand your ground and refuse to be twisted into the villain, due to her choices.

Have a younger friend where a similar situation happened. - Despite pressure, the female never followed up with legal paperwork to document the event. Still do not understand the black hole pull of being "mr.cleanup" when these events are chosen and could have been avoided by following leadership.

tw1nm3t30r · 2018-06-25T22:25:21+00:00

Good, stand your ground. Actions she chose, not your burden to bear.

GoodVibesMGTOW · 2018-06-25T22:29:16+00:00

I agree with his decision. He made the right call

smfuel87 · 2018-06-25T22:41:05+00:00

Had he married this thot, she would have done the same sort of shit and evicerated him with divorce proceedings and child support if they had kids. Essentially the male version of being raped, and neither her or anyone else would have spared any fucks given for him. Good riddance and good on him.

kissmyfast · 2018-06-25T23:49:27+00:00

Well she left with a guy and her friend aint like they forced her to go so... she was gonna cheat on him anyways

2018-06-26T04:44:15+00:00

She liked it.

ninja_prease · 2018-06-26T14:35:20+00:00

She was likely planning on fucking the guys, but then got worried he would find out. Makes up the rape to absolve herself of any wrongdoing. She got what she deserves. These hoes ain't loyal, go your own way.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-06-26T15:07:39+00:00

The moment she left for the club she accepted that she was no longer his girlfriend so she's no longer his problem. I doubt she was even actually raped and instead just needed to make up a story to exonerate her for her whoring. Honestly, even if she was actually raped I don't feel sorry for her at all.

2018-06-25T20:02:38+00:00

Asian girlfriend. White simp boyfriend I bet.

Danitoba · 2018-06-25T20:03:19+00:00

Well I say well made choice on your part. She made that bed of thorns by tossing your input, and she willingly slept on it. Smart man. Also, fuck her friends.

lolmanoptimus · 2018-06-25T20:38:45+00:00

She would have cheated on him, she probably got some remorse with that chad, that's why he became violent and raped her.

Watchingcluturefade · 2018-06-25T21:11:59+00:00

So obnoxious, people only look at the issue they want to look at and completely ignore that she flat out lied to you, or at least broke your trust right to your face.

Autismo9001 · 2018-06-25T23:31:58+00:00

Fake and gay. But still a good story.

vfoldy · 2018-06-26T01:06:19+00:00

feel bad for anon, can't be pleasant. she should be held accountable for her actions.

Revorob · 2018-06-26T03:18:24+00:00

I totally agree with the dude. The THOT was looking to cheat and it blew up in her face. I have said it before but if more men held women accountable for the end results of their decisions, women would smarten the f**k up real fast.

AllureFX · 2018-06-26T04:15:13+00:00

Hopefully the dude isnt a simp soyboy that gets guilt tripped

he did nothing wrong, its over

badaboomxx · 2018-06-26T14:37:55+00:00

I doubt it was rape.

RowdyBusch · 2018-06-26T22:03:49+00:00

A man of principle. Me likey.

HandBanana1991 · 2018-06-25T15:19:14+00:00

Dayum....

Tomuzerosix · 2018-06-25T20:43:57+00:00

My Ex Girlfriend

NH_Lion12 · 2018-06-25T21:06:11+00:00

The cheating thing isn't unlikely and she did do something that he asked her not to do when it was for a good reason, but that's still pretty cold to, like, ghost her after what happened. But good on him for keeping his word, I guess.

Daumenkino · 2018-06-25T22:03:07+00:00

This is really old pasta.

JoeyMoey00 · 2018-06-26T06:39:02+00:00

She would have never told him she went there if she hadn't gotten beat up and raped. Only reason she did tell him is because she wasn't going to be able to hide it from him and she new it.

WokeMillennial2018 · 2018-06-26T08:26:49+00:00

The boyfriend is certainly cold hearted for doing what he did, but I guess like they say, "Revenge is best served COLD". The boyfriend IMO is a very sensible individual. A majority of folks would have accepted the girlfriend back, but props to the boyfriend for taking a tough decision without bringing his emotions into the picture. Yes, what he did was rude, but it was also a necessary step in his evolution as a man IMO.

The_Frag_Man · 2018-06-26T11:33:43+00:00

Life is too short to waste on people that learn things the hard way

2018-06-28T04:11:56+00:00

Fuck all of that. Walk away.

OniiChanStopNotThere · 2018-09-07T17:57:53+00:00

She didn't get raped. She got drunk, consented to having sex while drunk, then woke up the next day regretting her actions and playing the rape card.

Lightcronno · 2018-06-25T20:20:57+00:00

He doesn’t own her? She can do whatever she wants, the relationship was bound to fail because he obviously didn’t respect or trust her. And gave her an ultimatum which never new well.

Darth__Nox · 2018-06-26T04:46:25+00:00

Idk man, sure, he did warn her (pretty badly, he should have warned her of danger, not threaten to break up with her), but she learned her lesson (as psychopathic and rapey as that sounds), breaking up with her was a little harsh, especially after being raped and beaten.

Besides, she isn't even one of those gold diggers or money takers we all hate so much, the guy is definitely more in the wrong (subjecting someone to the pain of breakup after being raped), but the girl isn't without fault either (not heeding the bfs warning).

This could have ended more happily for the both of them, but his crappy mindset has ruined all further relations.

Title	So i saw this on fb and i support the guys move, of a lot of women are there saying he is controlling and heartless for leaving her
Author	jayouth1991
Upvotes	1324
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Date	June 25, 2018 2:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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