Intro:
So I matched up with this girl on tinder a few weeks ago, our conversation was pretty good and we had a decent amount in common. We decided to meet up after we both got out of work at this bar in the neighborhood where she works. Red flags galore, but I decided to stick around for some practice with frame.
BODY:
Holy shit where do I start? First off, women are getting better with "the angles" and using trickery in their photos. I'm usually pretty good at figuring that stuff out but I was completely fooled this time around. She looked like a 7 in her pics, and was a 3 IRL.
-The chick showed up and she was clearly 40-70 pounds heavier than her pictures read.
-High school dropout. Although she did earn a college degree later in life.
-Openly admits to hanging around groups of "bad boys" in her youth.
-Admits to being a heroin user.
-Recently divorced (11 months ago) from a beta bucks provider who started his own business at 23 and sounded like a good honest man from a traditional family. Guy tried to kill himself. She told me she felt no guilt whatsoever.
-Talks a bunch of SJW crap (said I was "mansplaining") at one point.
-Told me about how she had a threesome with a girl and her guy friend at a party in front of everyone.
-and my favorite quote from her the whole night "Yeah my dad was married for 20 years before he met my mom.. It just goes to show you can fuck up your life for 20 years and everything can turn out ok!" (holy shit lol)
So you're all probably thinking "Why the fuck didn't you just walk out of there". The thought crossed my mind and I have in the past on these situations, but I decided to stick around and have some fun with it. To use this situation to practice my frame.
The girl told me she's jewish, so I made a few jew jokes toward her about crappy jewish landlords. I also made a few racist jokes to trigger her SJW nonsense. At one point, she called me racist or something..
But I got her to apologize for it.
I held frame and said to her "That's the thing with your type. You hear an opinion you don't agree with and you just stamp "racist" or some kind of "phobic" or "ism" on their forehead. Isn't that defeating the purpose and isolating the problem making it worse? She also mentioned something about being the only white person in her neighborhood.. Well if she's so fucking non-racist, why even bring that up? I kept calling this girl out on her bullshit and she was apologizing to me for it.
I got this girl to eventually take me back to her place, my plan was to just hit it and screw cause I was horny and she was good enough for a poke. But then when we got to the door of her building I got cold feet and made up an excuse to bounce out. Mainly I was in fear of STDs and I had a gut feeling this girl probably had something growing in her labias.. Pulled a "something suddenly came up gotta bounce" and left.
CONCLUSION:
While this FR is a failure when it comes to sex or attraction.. It was a valid learning lesson and I'm kind of glad I stayed for the whole date with this land whale. It taught me how to get women to open up better for vetting, and it also taught me a valuable lesson with holding frame. If you're a guy of decent SMV, you can get an SJW psycho to apologize for her stupid nonsensical ramblings. You can even make the most ignorant racist jokes toward them and they'll keep their mouth shut.
Just be based and say whatever the fuck you want to women. If they "call you out" treat it like "are you being serious right now? you sound like a psycho" kind of deal.
Ultimately, I did feel that I wasted my time because I could have been getting homework done during the hours I spent on this date with a land whale, but oh well. c'est la vie.
EDIT:
Guys I get it, don't fuck 3s. You're right. I admit I was in a desperate frame of mind where all I could think about was increasing my notch count to play catch up from being celibate for so long. However, as you read in my FR, I came to my fucking senses and nope'd the fuck out. If someone all ready said "Don't fuck 3s" you don't need to repeat the sentiment and beat a dead horse.
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