LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturer

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April 25, 2020
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Conservative christian LTR have been on opposite sides of the country due to lockdown for the last month. She calls often and does her part most of the time.

She called yesterday and our conversation lead to her taking a bath for an art project (?). I asked her out about it and she proceeds to send me a fairly explicit “artistic” nude that she is planning on sending in for review by her straight male art lecturer. I tell her it’s not on (i’ll drop her if she does) and she says she understands.

Now exploring ones body for the sake of art is not unheard of- that I understand. My problem is that she’s mentioned before that she’s reluctant to send nudes because of her shyness. I’ve never begged and she has sent on her own before.

It feels like i’m missing something here, please give me some clarity. Am i overthinking?


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Title LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturer
Author BlondieOnTheToilet
Upvotes 97
Comments 141
Date 25 April 2020 04:59 PM UTC (11 months ago)
Subreddit askTRP
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/654561
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/g7wwuf/ltr_planning_on_sending_nudes_as_an_art_project/
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[–]blaseee102 points103 points  (4 children) | Copy

He is higher value than you, the „art“ thing is just an excuse. She‘s branch swinging. Your turn is over soon(or it is already over).

[–]Hungboy696942035 points36 points  (3 children) | Copy

$100 OP walks in on the two of them fuckin

[–]drevenx1340 points41 points  (2 children) | Copy

Lol I’m not dumb enough to lose $100 that quickly bro

[–]Ill_mumble_that10 points11 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'd bet it. She's on the other side of the country. OP will never walk in from that distance.

[–]ArabSigma3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Unless he has huge legs

[–]btrpb145 points146 points  (2 children) | Copy

Well now you know who she is masterbating over in isolation. And it ain't you playa.

[–]babybopp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Long time since we have had a shit test of nuclear level on here like this... agree and amplify

Nah babe, take a pic of your asshole am sure many girls will send him naked pictures. Then run for the hills. He has been mate guard cucked

[–]ay-fuh-q96 points97 points  (1 child) | Copy

She is fucking that dude. Anything else you believe simply confirms why she chose you.

[–]GarrettPK12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

This

[–]Shirye96 points97 points  (1 child) | Copy

Id drop her for even suggesting some shit like that lol.

This aint the one bruh

[–]VigilantSmartbomb5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right, the fact she even thinks she could ask that lol, must not know type shit lol

Feel so many people in here would benefit from D/s subs on reddit. The dynamic really plays a part in red pill philosophy.

[–]buttgoogler163 points164 points  (6 children) | Copy

Inb4 she hits you up with "I'm recording an interracial gangbang homevideo as an art project".

[–]Meloxian36 points37 points  (3 children) | Copy

The cumshot is the paint, it’s a Picasso style painting

[–]jon9427 points28 points  (2 children) | Copy

Pollock*

[–]dani0981 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Right! Picasso? Gtfo

[–]VigilantSmartbomb0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bahahahahahahaahah

[–]_the_shape_29 points30 points  (7 children) | Copy

Decisively end this. Don't even give her a split second to hear out her 'appeal' (unless you're curious in witnessing the hamster version of Cirque Du Soleil)

Trust that she's very interested in further pursuing this path of sexual "exploration", probably much more than towing the line and remaining faithful to you, and will find ways to go around your disapproval behind your back. If you choose to stay with her, your options are:

a) steer yourself toward blissful ignorance and pretend none of this has happened (at this point, given what you already know, this route is sure to fail, and your doubt-based anxiety and inner turmoil will eat at you, causing you to eventually lash out)

b) more aggressively monitor her behavior; take steps to become a flat-out stalker; look through her phone and/or social media, either discreetly or openly like an enraged, authoritarian Father figure (this route will also destroy you from within by turning you into the textbook obsessive, mate-guarding blue piller)

c) embrace being a cuck

[–]HellSpeed13 points14 points  (3 children) | Copy

D) Drop her to plate status, start finding new plates, and try not to give a shit what a girl who is on the other side of the country does.

[–]_the_shape_12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

I deliberately left that option out because the nature of his question does not reflect someone who instinctively knows how to handle these sorts of situations.

Funny enough, dropping her completely will put him in a much better position (mentally) by internalizing that "his turn" is up, likely making the whole downgrade thing with future girls moving forward, should he choose to do so, much easier.

[–]HellSpeed4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Fair enough, especially when she's on the other side of the country and who knows for how long, there is really no point in making her a plate. Just break up to save the mental anguish and in the future if your paths cross you can make her a plate.

I'm at the point where I put myself in these types of situation just to train myself on their nature and not get too attached.

[–]RanaMahal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah i second that. dropping my first couple girls completely made it a lot easier to just bring em up and put em back down to being plates. i’m like a sports league now

[–]absolutelynp2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

I like c, is there a way to make being a cuck alpha?

[–]_the_shape_4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

In your case specifically?

Just (continue to) be yourself

[–]absolutelynp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

so I just watch with a stoic expression.......wait, Im being mocked here right? If so, not bad lol

[–]coldestmichigan52 points53 points  (1 child) | Copy

How'd you even know she would respect your wishes tho? Drop her, young king

[–]BlondieOnTheToilet[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children) | Copy

My thoughts exactly. Thanks bois

[–]GearaltofRivia154 points155 points  (21 children) | Copy

Lol. AWALT.

[–]BlondieOnTheToilet[S] 42 points43 points  (20 children) | Copy

100%

[–]aresVlite16 points17 points  (19 children) | Copy

Is it really AWALT thought (all women are like that)? Would all women send nudes to their artistic lecturer or lecturer at all, who would the majority of the time (not always) be seen as a mentor.

Is it because she’s female and he’s male that makes this somewhat characteristic of female nature? Not for the purpose of creating a portfolio of work?

Not defending the broad at all, but you’re throwing loose terms around here and it seems completely naive.

They say enjoy the decline, but enjoy the decline of this sub also.

[–]Ohmyqueef32 points33 points  (14 children) | Copy

It’s almost as if saying AWALT is just a reinforcer that women are liable to, and prone to, do anti-relationship shit and to be aware of potential fuckery.

You assuming that he meant that all women might send nudes to their professor screams of either acute autism (for the inability to distinguish specifics) or intellectual dishonesty. Entropy is king but Jesus, get your shit together my guy.

[–]RanaMahal1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

reminds me of when i brought up AWALT and my friend said that my ex is a unicorn but he couldn’t grasp the concept that despite her being stellar, she could still fuck up and isn’t immune to being a woman lol

[–]Ohmyqueef0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

My friends were like that too.

My ex (years ago) had come up with a male friend from work that she wanted to hang out with and they couldn’t understand why I had just dumped her the next day.

I explained it to them and they said I was overreacting. I told them better to over react than under react.

[–]RanaMahal1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

old male friend before relationship = overreaction. male friend after relationship? drop her cuz she has no respect lol

[–]VigilantSmartbomb4 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy

All women in the exact same scenario with the exact same upbringing with the exact same personality, yes - despite it not being “her” whoever “she” is, but the embodiment of “her” will stay true.

That’s why they say don’t get attached, circumstances change and so do people.

Honestly man, you’re a few levels below if you think think AWALT isn’t true. We’re all playing roles to some degree or another either for ourselves or for others, If you don’t recognize on the topical that it’s a game, and under the surface level it’s all primal, then you’re still living in blue pill.

Which I don’t see a problem with, honestly it’s a pretty shallow life following either 100% of the time, but you can’t deny red pill truths and you can’t deny that you want meaning like blue pill truths. It’s just at the end of the day it’s all a game, and we’re all animals too-

AWALT because any girl in the same situation/whatever/whatever despite who she “is” is going to do the same thing.

Stay single for a couple years and work on your game and you’ll see what we mean. You can’t deny millions of years of social hierarchy influences with just a whim.

[–]aresVlite-2 points-1 points  (1 child) | Copy

There wasn’t a mention of awalt not being true, it was mentioned that it isn’t the case in this scenario.

Take another example. A girl poses nude for life drawing classes, fundamentally getting naked for the sake of art. Would the majority of girls do this given the chance? Is there something to gain from doing this for a female? Do men and women get naked publicly for different reasons? Nah, I don’t think so, not in this scenario.

It would be considered AWALT if there was a reproductive gain from her action. But there quite clearly isn’t. It’s almost pointless nudity, and in OP’s girl’s situation its to go towards a body of work. Pathetic, IMO, but not AWALT.

[–]VigilantSmartbomb3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well you’re not addressing the underlying motivations however. If you think about it in terms of everything being a function of social hierarchy , then would a random girl do something equally as degrading in her own field of study to make it to the top? Generally speaking yes,

I’d the girl in said example did so because she was trying to fuck the teacher, generally speaking yes

If she did it just because she likes art, that doesn’t seem like a true human motivation or at least not realistic. (Most art majors don’t just show their nude bodies anyway)

So I agree on the specific scenario probably not, but since AWALT applies to underlying motivations, if the scenario had a similar underlying motivation for another girl, then they’d most likely act similar. That’s AWALT.

I’m sorry but if you think jumping straight to nude modeling given all the mediums in art school is just to boost her portfolio, unless she has some mental thing of needing to address nude sexuality, and she’s not retarded then no bitch bouta do that when that’s gonna hurt her hypergamy.

It applies to everything in one way or another

[–]BusterVadge2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think AWALT in this case is the chasm between what women say they will do and what they will actually do depending on how they're feeling in the moment

[–]mrsmiley83142 points43 points  (5 children) | Copy

Hard next.

[–]drsherbert3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nah downgrade and build a replacement roster

[–]rplad4200 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Hard on when watching her get fucked

[–]Ill_mumble_that2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Hmm. Not sure if typo or cuckold.

[–]NeverLace-4 points-3 points  (1 child) | Copy

Soft next

[–]muckibudenbrudi5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

A LTR seriously?

[–]Bronzeraptor45 points46 points  (11 children) | Copy

Claims Christianity

Goes against biblical standards of modesty and sends nudes (artistic or not) to men she isn't married to.

If that doesn't start raising flags about her, I don't know what will. Hold frame and follow through on your stated boundary.

[–]Ohmyqueef18 points19 points  (8 children) | Copy

On that note, I Never really understood the mountains of staunchly Christian women that bible thump all day but go out in ass shorts and tank tops.

[–]Bronzeraptor14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'll help you. The Church has grown lax in enforcing church discipline. Once upon a time, the early church would hold you to a standard and if you fail to meet that standard after they try to correct you, you're out.

Nowadays, especially in the west, the church is so scared of losing members or bad press that they don't do this anymore. The only time I witnessed true church discipline being practiced was when I was working in the Andes and a man was kicked out for having a live-in partner.

Edit: In my lifetime I have only heard modesty being preached from a pulpit once. I've been around for a while. Let that sink in about how much of a spine the modern church has.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

Good starting point but you'll find it has more to do with the "death of god" and the overall European-American nihilism that posits that without an external arbiter of morality everyone and anyone becomes their own. Subsequently this subjective morality degenerates into lives antithetical to that which is of the now dead morality of external pressure. The look for meaning in the nothingness. Hedonism

This reality is witnessed in every middle class american home where the daughter is a whore that shalt not be contained by the (insert buzzword) but be her own arbiter, albeit whichever messiah figure/ideology she's attached herself to, of what is good (insert mental gymnastic)

[–]Ohmyqueef2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yikes

[–]ElOweTea0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The Two Popes was basically about this.

[–]1bad513 points4 points  (3 children) | Copy

Staunch Christians do some of the most evil shit in the world. If there is a religion with a greater divide between what they profess to believe and how they actually behave, I'm not aware of it.

[–]ProFriendZoner3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yep. The 60 Minute Christians. For 60 minutes on Sunday during the service they are Christian. The rest of the time they are not.

[–]Bronzeraptor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There are many who profess but I doubt they truly believe. Matthew 7:22-23 is in there for a reason. Matthew 7:15-20 also is touching on the same subject.

I am hoping that your instance we're talking about a false sheep instead of a true believer.

[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

A lot of people show up in church on Sunday morning to get forgiven for what they did on Saturday night.

[–]Bronzeraptor1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Too true. By the way, your content on Corporate America is gold man. It definitely helped me through the previous year.

[–]bluefingerblue18 points19 points  (0 children) | Copy

The other problem is I get the feeling you won’t actually leave her. She knows this. Which is why she’d even mention it in the first place.

She’s testing your boundaries to see how much of a pussy you are.

And you fucked this one up a long time ago, by somehow leading her to believe this would be acceptable.

[–]Niko0p916 points17 points  (0 children) | Copy

Please update us on if she sends it. This is just LOL

[–]theredfinance38 points39 points  (2 children) | Copy

That's fucked up by the professor to ask for such things from the active students. Idk if it is even legal.

She may see him as a dominant male, since he's her teacher. Nevertheless, this behaviour is inappropiate imo.

But again, wtf is wrong with that teacher

[–]Enlightened_Chimp56 points57 points  (1 child) | Copy

I doubt he's asking for nudes. It's probably just a photography project and it was her idea. It's an easy A if you have nice tits.

I think I'm gonna send a sensual dick pic for my next art project. My D in the bath tub with some flowers around it and good lighting.

[–]PrimordialXY15 points16 points  (0 children) | Copy

That'll land you up to 2 years in jail for indecent exposure because male anatomy is disgusting compared to heavenly blessed females

[–]Lightways43412 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmao drop this thot ASAP

[–]robot3000_0119 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's over.

[–]2redhawkes33 points34 points  (1 child) | Copy

Even bigger fuckup is that you're in LDR.

[–]izaacibanez975 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

for real. NEVER be in a LDR

[–]catsdontsmile7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Look, I go to film school. I know a lot of artsy leftist types. My best female friend is like that. She has posted nudes on instagram trying to be artsy.

She cheated on her LTR a fucking lot and even has her ex lover as a friend over with her LTR present for dinner and shit and he knows nothing about what went on for like a fucking year. I tried to intervene once telling her it was fucked up and she got super upset at me so I was like you know what, just don't get me involved in that toxic shit. Now she moved with her LTR to Europe and married him for the visa, and her lover happened to move to the same god damned country and they'd meet up as friends and all hang out together... to the day her fake husband doesn't know shit. And if they are drunk at parties alone, which still happens, they usually give each other pecks or flirt heavily afaik.

Note: Her and her lover basically both dress like beatniks and enjoy video art of naked people puking on the floor supposedly a video essay that deconstructs language and the human body. They are also super into electronic music and drugs. I think that paints the picture.

[–]MrAnderzon20 points21 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think you mean Ex LTR.

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[–]babybopp0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Does it matter

[–]theredsperg6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

'art project'

[–]rockyp326 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

What’s your gut truly say. What if your sexy Italian art teacher wanted a picture of your cock and you told your gf about it..

[–]rockyp326 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

I mean I believe it’s probably bad news but I think everyone in here can only guess at best. You know her the best. Fuck this is what I don’t like about TRP or women in general is that you have to just trust they won’t do that shit but for all you know she could be cheating everyday

[–]HellSpeed2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

After so many years this one still gets me too. That you really have no control and they could be doing it behind your back and you'd have no idea. Even in an LTR after years, your girl could cheat, have an affair going, or anything and her friends would never tell you, hell even your friends/family might not tell you if they knew. I've been with way too many girls who had boyfriends, even boyfriends that they 'loved', and they had no problem doing all the nasty shit I wanted and then going back home and kissing their boyfriends.

This is one of the issues that still gives me a lot of anger, even when I don't really care about the bitch, is that she could be fucking guys behind my back and everyone could know except for me. Really makes even thinking about having a successful relationship seem like something that could never happen.

[–]rockyp323 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

After i typed my comment i remembered its not our place to worry about that. There is literally nothing we can do but trust them. If they betray our trust then there gone. Its pointless to hate them for that

[–]PrimordialXY5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

What annoys me is that after you hard next you'll be painted (lol) as insecure and controlling by her because it's just art after all bro

[–]absolutelynp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

yeah because shes hamstering her bs away. not in OPs mind tho

[–]Big_Homie_Mozi10 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sorry bro you sound like you don’t deserve that shit.

[–]Jacked5parrow13 points14 points  (14 children) | Copy

This is a weird double edge sword kind of deal. I’m an artist myself, or at least I enjoy the hobby of painting/drawing and making money from it, so I believe I have a solid insight on this. Art is very expressional; most of the time the actual imagery isn’t the purpose of the piece but rather something people can relate to. I’m not sure how suggestive her project is (suggestive, not revealing) but it’s a lose lose for you my dude.

Either you reinstate your boundaries, tell her you don’t understand art fully but your ignorance for art is motivating your boundaries. There isn’t anything wrong with that. But keeping someone who creates art whether or be painting, modeling, photography, writing from creating something that isn’t founded by expression will ruining that person’s psych.

That or you unwillingly let her turn in said project, which will start an avalanche of hamster spinning for you and her to slowly pole away at your frame and take control of the relationship’s boundaries.

Either way, you lose. Best move to make from here is to raise your own SMV, so she sees you worthy higher than whatever guy she decides to share her art with. Something someone (idk who said it, I think it was either Rollo or Patrice ONeal) the person with the most power is the one who doesn’t need the other.

[–]2319Skew15 points16 points  (7 children) | Copy

I get art but OP never got nudes because of her shyness and Christian morals (shrug). Now she's choosing to send them to someone other than OP...

[–]Jacked5parrow-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

The thing with this is intention. If she’s doing this for the sake of art and expression then that’s different than doing it because she’s feeling rather flirty or promiscuous.

I mean there is that underlying “here is me naked what do you think” aspect. I wouldn’t be surprise if she enjoys alittle validation from it but that’s normal and to be expected. It’s the initial intention of it that matters

[–]Shitcuckedredditsays11 points12 points  (4 children) | Copy

Nigga... What art expression. She's being a slut

[–]Jacked5parrow-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

The meaning or reason being the piece? It’s what art is about. You’re linking it based off your ignorance of art and your biased agenda. You’re making a claim without any details or evidence supporting “slut” behaviour. Which female hurt you dawg? Did it start with momma?

[–]Shitcuckedredditsays1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

There are virtually infinite ways you can artistically express yourself before you have to get naked in a bath. And now you're getting offended on behalf of a Thot you don't even know. Not gonna lie, this is some real blue pill shit you're writing

[–]silvereddi0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

He‘s a whiteknight

[–]Jacked5parrow0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

How is what I’m saying is blue pill? You’re claiming she’s a slut under an assumption. Rather how am I offended? This isn’t even my issue lol

[–]Judom74911 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's not about intention she's still choosing to take a nude photo as opposed anything else. If she's shy about sending it to OP yet chooses to share it as an assignment to a Male lecturer there is something seriously fishy going on there.

[–]BlondieOnTheToilet[S] 4 points5 points  (5 children) | Copy

You make a lot of valid points here, thanks man. I was in the fashion photography scene myself and totally get this.

The boundaries are set- being young and dumb is fun and i can still learn from this relationship so if she oversteps, it’s over.

Good to be reminded to constantly be aware of your smv and always work on that.

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[–]SeasonedRP3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

He's right. It is over, and you'll just experience an unpleasant few months before she leaves.

[–]babybopp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

If there has ever been a nuclear shit test on here, this is a perfect example

[–]babybopp1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dude she has already sent it to him, she is just letting u know. This relationship was over a long time ago. Ask urself, why would a girl send nudes to her professor? She could have sent a picture of a table for fucks sake. You are now mate guarding a girl with serious daddy issues. You should have agreed and amplified. Told her that instead of sending that picture to take a close up of her asshole and send it. Then move on.. you failed a nuclear shit test there dude..

[–]Nergaal0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

you are hamstering

[–]TacoMedic8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Don’t mention it for now. In a month have a face to face call and make sure she’s at home by her computer. Ask her what she sent for the project and if she becomes uncomfortable or doesn’t immediately send you the picture, end it over the phone and block her.

Honestly dude, if she does something suspicious you will know.

Always trust your gut.

[–]RuleTheOne2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good advice. Our gut instinct is the source of the true redpill

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Best reply here. Everyone else immediately assumes she’s fucking him. You know how ridiculous that is? How plausible is something like that logistically? It’s a dream fantasy to send nudes to your professor and then bang passionately whilst you call her and she hangs up 😂

[–]Nergaal3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

she was planning on doing it. she was planning on doing it before even asking your opinion. you got defensive and projected mate guarding. just walk away if you can

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Here's your clarity. She's been sending nudes to this dude way before you both even got together. I think this little art project of hers is hands on.

[–]thottranslatorbot3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Why is it that women think 'art' is just 'taking off my clothes'? Trick question.

Pumpkin, you're dating a hoebag.

Pumpkin, you're dating a tumbling, tumbling, hoebag.

If your girl even mentions sending nudes to another dude: that's an instant, and hard downgrade.

seriously tho

I'm not saying dump her, but stop investing. She has shown you she is nothing more than a set of holes, communal property for her local 'art' scene: respect her and yourself enough to take her at her word. Keep fucking her if you want, but you should also be looking for better.

[–]KilluminatiGotti23 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

She’s a whore, lets think about this logically for a second. Of all the things she could have chosen to submit, she’s deciding to show her nudes all over the class. This ain’t the renaissance era, and she ain’t no artist, she’s a good for nothing whore and if you don’t leave her you’re in trouble.

All the best

[–]throwaway2p923809uod2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

avoid art hoes at all costs, and I'm saying this as an artist, they'll cheat on you and justify it as "exploring their feminist creativity" or some shit

[–]wtfdoiaskfor19 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

Massive shit test.

Good on you not to take any of her shit.

[–]Tiway224 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

LDR sending nudes to an art teacher? You know what to do man.

[–]mrpleaser972 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

You don't have to make things complicated. If you can't stand the fact, drop her as an LTR and don't feel bad about your choice; you just feel the way you feel, and that's it. I would continue fucking her though. I just wouldn't take her seriously.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s hella dis respectful to suggest that to you, unless you guys both established that you are a cuck.

[–]cglehosit3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Shit test, you gonna pass or fail?

[–]The1ndex2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

If you confront her about this(which I don’t recommend), be prepared for her to make 100 excuses how this is ok and that you’re the one with the problem.

This is your LTR, not a plate or fwb right?

Personally, I have zero tolerance for this kind of behaviour in LTR criteria.

[–]RomulusTurbo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

How avante garde! lol

[–]McLovinReturns1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Long distance was the burial and her isolation from attention was the nail in the coffin. This is her way of getting short term validation due to being isolated. You're a young king you don't need this woman for an LTR there are plenty of others out there

[–]cadaemos1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

  1. She is absolutely no LTR material.
  2. You can keep her as a weird plate (theyre all weird) if u want.
  3. If you follow steps 1&2 you will realize that you wont have to care about how hard she mastrubates to that art teacher. She has to be interesting enough to stay a plate. Thats all. Just go read the sidebar buddy, some people are just spamming nonsense here.

[–]throwaway2p923809uod1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

drop her ass, even if she doesn't send it, you've seen the kind of girl she is, let's face it

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lmfao if they aren’t already fucking then atleast she’s letting you know your turn is over, shouldn’t waste anymore energy on this tbh

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Bruh... if my girl said some shit like that to me she’d be my ex girl. Real talk.

Real men don’t get cucked, even if she’s just acting disrespectful.

Agreeing to take a small amount of disrespect is still the same as agreeing to get cucked in a woman’s eyes. And trust me, she will disrespect you and divorce rape you and spend your money on someone else, if she isn’t already planning to.

[–]dutchgguy1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

What you should definitely not do is try to reason with her. I do believe that model nudity pics can be artsy, but what is totally off here is that in your ltr's project she is the model. Either she is a model, or she is an artist.

[–]niceguyputin1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Wait before you cut everything... you could hit up with “hey, how did it go when you turned him down?”

Her response to this would be key. If it is positive and you trust her, it would be a huge thing.

If you don’t trust her, then no pair bonding. Dump her at this stage.

[–]IsaacShSe1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 This is too funny Do you seriously buy that bullshit? End it. Demote to plate or cut out. Long distance does not work. And seems she figured that out a loooong time ago.

[–]DirtyBastard131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Nope. You are right on the money. Something IS fishy here. Perhaps you already realize that this relationship has run it's course. Maybe time to demote her to plate if you don't dump her completely.

I'd also ask: What business does a supposedly conservative Christian have in "Fine Arts" (A known place for degenerates)? The art world is corrupt full of degenerates, especially the academic side of it. Talent often does not correlate to the financial value of a piece. It's a bunch of pretentious degenerates congratulating each other on being pretentious degeneraates. Art sales are a way to launder money. It's not that you "dont appreciate art, it's that it's obviously bullshit".

[–]Hubertos943 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You should break up with her, she is a slut.

[–]Fusionnn5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Send me the pics, I'll take care of your problem for you man no worries

[–]BlondieOnTheToilet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Get out

[–]Musicgoon0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

2 options:

  1. Hard next before she branch swings.

  2. Soft next, demote and spin more plates.

[–]Distractingyou0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I think we man should be able on this time and age be able to judge when a woman is a whore like just recently i was with my cousin and i asked how is your boyfriend and she said fine he loves to do tatoos and he is stable i love him then asked her so how long have you been with him (2 yrs) like i remember you would spent like 1 or 2 months max and she said no but those dont count and then i said yh sure and she said lol yh they dont count so basically we were both laughing about her bullshit anyways she is into arts and i think literally any woman thats into arts is 90% a slut like its just a matter of time before the nihilistic postmodern hedonistic culture of the arts destroy the morality of any girl, anyways i think the best answer someone did here is pretend you are a cock and tell her i support your desicion if she does it its because she was always a slut or she never trully respected you dont give her ambiguety that you are ok or angry with it give a straight yes so then everything that comes from it comes from her own worldview then later ask her in a month and then do what you need to do at the end but i think she just lacks imagination still it doesnt justify slutty behavior.

[–]rplad4200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Tell her it's fine if she pays you half the money. You bang gay prostitutes she bangs her teacher, it's a win win.

[–]SteveSan820 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She's not an LTR if you dont even live near her. She sure as hell doesnt view you as her LTR

[–]-ThePathIsTheGoal-0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The art chicks are unbearable and weird anyways. Just move on lol

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Glad to know she's a conservative christian

[–]D50HS0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

!RemindMe 1 week

[–]VigilantSmartbomb0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I’m just lettin you know, I’m gonna be one of those teachers in the future , and she can go ahead and send that pic lmao

They probably already have a good banter if she’s comfortable as a “conservative Christian” lmfao (quit the unicorn) I’d drop this one she already doesn’t respect your current frame.

[–]throwaway-ibmt0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

LMFAO is her arts lecturer in the same city as her right now?

[–]onefornothing0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

So she couldn't think of any other artist scene that didnt require her getting her tits out? -_-

[–]cfbovernfl0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol, cucked. Thanks for the good laugh mate, cheers :)

[–]SoulRedemption0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You got all answers in these comments. They all point at one thing, n you know what it is

[–]Snowboard180 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Cmon man, you really had to ask this question?

You know what's up, she's interested in that dude if not already fucking him. Dump her ass before you get hurt.

[–]EdvardMunch0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I'm an artist, so I have some experience here.

And my advice is you don't know. More often than not the art is about the art. I think nudes are shit personally, the excitement is in the build up and not knowing. If a girl sends me a nude I expect she's telling me she wants to fuck or she wants to masturbate. If it's art related I respect that and it's used for that purpose.

It's really not that big of a deal.

I think too many guys on here have really lost sight and not ever read the side bar. You are supposed to be the star. And she's not yours, but maybe it's your turn or maybe it was your turn or maybe soon it will be your turn. Until then you be you. Fuck.

[–]TehJimmyy0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

where do you live USA ? All girls so crazy there ? I am from EU

[–]Endorsed ContributorUEMcGill0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

There's no such thing as LDR pandemic or not. You understand why?



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