Queen refuses to accept low effort proposal. LVM and pickmeishas try to shame her.

radical__daphne · 2020-05-13T21:45:50+00:00

Wow. All he did was hand her a box and say here's your engagement ring. And she's getting reamed in the comments for expecting more than that. Someone just told her she's coming off as "super entitled and high maintenance". This guy didn't even actually ask her to marry him or even get on one knee, just tossed her a box.

LadyGrimes · 2020-05-13T22:04:33+00:00

Some LVM are back at it with the “communication” bs. Not only DID she communicate with him, but isn’t it self explanatory that you don’t just hand the ring in a box??? 🧠🚫

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-05-13T22:41:03+00:00

Welp, time to go sis. This is just a snapshot of what every special occasion you care about and want to share with this lazy ass is going to be for the rest of your life if you decide to press forward. She can't even post an "I said yes" status bc he couldn't even fix his lips to ASK her. This goes beyond a lack of effort. It's a serious lack of sensitivity and give-a-damn, and it shows he's emotionally stingy. These kind of men will suck the soul out of you like a Hoover.

And her emojis aren't fooling anybody. She seems like she's laughing it off but I know she's hurt and resentful of this dude. If she is actually laughing it off, she's probably already thinking about leaving.

2020-05-13T23:15:42+00:00

Reddit is full of some of the absolute nastiest people. I really only comment on FDS posts now. Fuck the noise from everyone else.

blackredrosepetals · 2020-05-13T23:19:49+00:00

They're literally calling her a cunt and hoping he leaves her. I am really hoping she doesn't bother reading any of that shit.

I hate people.

endorphins_ · 2020-05-14T00:09:15+00:00

The people in that thread were sooooo OTT and invalidating the op’s feelings of such a low effort, insulting “proposal”. Do people not realize that the story of your proposal is something you’re going to retell repeatedly? OP is not demanding at all and has been really nice about having her fiancé have a do-over.

Dimethylchlorine · 2020-05-14T00:43:12+00:00

Its sad that she veiled her anger with a light hearted "tee hee" the proposal was bad. An even then you have a scrote saying oh you are entitled/every woman would kill to be in your shoes/he spent his a lot of his hard earned money (she never said how much the ring was).

This is the problem, they actually think that we are dying to be married to them. barf no thank you, you basic zvm!

EDIT: omg that comment was made by a pickme. She reveals that her husband made a subpar proposal as well (it was a secret). Honestly, I think these pickmes will defend other lvm/nvm/zvm until death if it means that they dont have to accept the truth that they are completely getting treated as less than.

lickyblickyuhh · 2020-05-14T01:13:50+00:00

Who told these people that throwing someone a box and barely even asking is an acceptable proposal? If wanting more than that is high maintenance then fuck me I must have expectations of a royal

discretevalor · 2020-05-14T00:47:58+00:00

🤢 She’s literally being gaslighted! They’re straight up convincing her it was actually super romantic, and he just couldn’t wait to be engaged to her! And calling her high maintenance, for what? Wanting some actual effort, like she asked to have?

Looks like even though she cOmMuNiCaTeD her desire for something romantic, her dear fiancé didn’t care. So of course the next thing is to baby him.

Also love the side dish of misogyny suggesting she’s bitter because she didn’t get the insta pic. What’s wrong with wanting to document a big moment and share it with loved ones? But no, of course, us women are just vain and attention greedy 🤪

We are not celebrating low effort anymore. Wish we could tag OP here and tell her it’s okay and natural that she’s upset.

Otters-eating-tacos · 2020-05-14T02:35:26+00:00

The LVM commenting probably are too selfish to have ever loved a woman enough to want to make her happy

Milobear27 · 2020-05-14T06:32:06+00:00

Wow a lot of people defending poor social skills, I guess it is reddit..

Title	Queen refuses to accept low effort proposal. LVM and pickmeishas try to shame her.
Author	Justanuglygirl22
Upvotes	80
Comments	34
Date	May 13, 2020 4:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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