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[–]throwawaytime9358902FDS Newbie179 points180 points181 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Funny how men have to be more considerate of women and their needs in order to “get picked” while women have to degrade themselves and other women to try and get picked.
[–]bengthreadFDS Newbie[S] 55 points56 points57 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Double standards are weird like that. FDS tells us however not to settle for less.
[–]smittydoodleFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex did this for me when we walked along the side of the road. He also secretly photographed me for months while I was showering bc I refused to give him nudes.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😡
[–]2340000Ruthless Strategist12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah one good gesture doesn't make him a good person.
My ex paid for all our dates, picked me up, paid for my Lyfts and Uber's, held hands in the car, made sure I walked the safe side of the street....
But he also assaulted me. Coerced sex. Violated me. Gaslit me with typical, LV emotional abuse.
That's who these men are🙅
[–]sweatydeath0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That took a turn!
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple146 points147 points148 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Ever since men learned the term "simp" they won't stop using it.
Men really hate seeing other men being kind towards women that they made up a term to dis-encourage them.
[–][deleted] 31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men are afraid of each other. They clown other men who defend women to discourage them from stepping in for women or being nice to them.
[–]smittydoodleFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What’s simp?
[–]cherrybombfieldFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means a guy who makes a fool of himself kissing a girls ass kinda like a female pickme.
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It means sucker for mediocre p*ssy...something like that. It's the new "white knight"
[–]The_Grand_Canyon2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the term simp, as i understand, originally only applied to men who sucked up to women in the hopes of getting sex/positive attention. basically simp means a white knight.
but of course it got misused and no longer has meaning because idiots heard there was a new funny word and didn't bother figuring out what it meant
[–]lunacmooncFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did women come up with the term in the first place?
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No.
[–]cremeblushersFDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We’re at the point where anything you do for/to a woman outside of degrading or abusing her makes you a simp (ugh even typing that word gives me hives). The funny thing is that when they say “hope you get picked”, they do! That’s why they’re not on the internet behaving like rapid dogs!
[–]420snailmodeFDS Newbie57 points58 points59 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No wonder drew got the clown emoji next to his name
[–]Magnolia05FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Drew’s profile picture is also a picture of Keanu from.. I’d guess mid 90s. Weird.
[–]foxfaebaeFDS Newbie45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
My mom drilled this into our heads growing up. She raised four girls, told us we don't need men. But the men in our life have to be at our standard. A man is to walk on the outside of the curb. My ex never understood this when I would correct him. Annoyed me so much! He didn't see the big deal and why he needed to risk himself.
[–]ruby_radmuppetFDS Apprentice49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Doesn't mean anything. I knew a guy like that, he was always moving me around so he could walk curbside. Ended up raping me and cheating on his girlfriend in the process.
Standards are more than superficial status signals.
[–]RaccoonWithKnife14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a guy who insisted on walking curbside (something I have never cared about for a minute in my life)... Turned out he had a girlfriend. Boy, bye. He tried to kill her a few years later.
[–]KairosnPistisFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m so so sorry that happened to you.
[–]foxfaebaeFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Whelp, this superficial state signal meant something to me.
[–]xx_powerFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ive made it to my 30s without knowing that the woman is not supposed to walk the road side. Is this an American thing?
[–]HottPinkSlugFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Probably. People in other countries dont get hit by cars.
[–]thatchickgabsFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not true. No dated a guy when I lived in West Africa and he would always move toward the roadside when he walked together. Some HVM actions are just universal.
[–]naenita_FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like it's one of the things you don't notice is missing, but when you experience it you can't help but notice.
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[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple146 points147 points148 points (7 children) | Copy Link
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