Dear men lurking this sub...

2020-01-26T01:55:52+00:00

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notroyaltyyet · 2020-01-26T11:35:31+00:00

I was in an abusive relationship with a guy who had 2 daughters and 2 sisters and I said this ALL.THE.TIME. I think men just totally separate the two, you’re worth a lot less than their family and not on an equal par to the superiority of their own blood. The last guy I was seeing constantly asked me for naked photos and videos and after telling him consistently I’d never, ever do that, I eventually said, ‘imagine your daughter is getting this harassment in a few years’ and he actually fell out with me because I “brought his daughter into it”. I know what you’re thinking - I have great taste in men.... but I am single so at least I’m learning!

LurkForYourLives · 2020-01-26T02:23:16+00:00

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Inez_Honeyfox · 2020-01-26T01:43:49+00:00

Most of them won’t care. I don’t actually think they’d care if they had a daughter for real.

s_slayer · 2020-01-26T04:13:03+00:00

I briefly dated a super narcissistic man who was bipolar and a compulsive gambler. I found out later about those things. He had a teenage daughter. When I realized he was mentally unhealthy and began to distance myself, he started blowing my phone up calling me a slut and all kinds of nasty things. I asked him how he would feel if a man spoke to his daughter that way. He didn’t answer and just kept the focus on me and my supposed slutty ways. I have a feeling his daughter is well aware of what a POS he is. Anyway, they are different towards their daughters than evil whamen that have any standards and reject them. To assume they think beyond their own egos is giving them WAY too much credit.

ivy176 · 2020-01-26T13:28:26+00:00

Lots of them don't want kids at all. But fail to even use condoms or get a vasectomy. Cause apparently women should make sure they stick to their life choices or something.

I don't think having a daughter would make a difference for most. They'd view their offspring as an extension of themself so it'd be like "this is the only female worth respect in the world", or they just bail and try to find ways to skip child support. My ex had a daughter after I dumped him and there was no reaching out to apologize for being a wife beater or anything like that as a result of it.

Fitncurly · 2020-01-26T14:16:10+00:00

Honestly? There are so many sick, twisted, abusive, misogynistic (and pedophilic 🤢)men out there with daughters, sisters, mothers and wives—I don’t think the cognitive dissonance even gets to them. Complete lack of self-awareness or a greater capacity for evil—it’s one of them. It would be so much easier to change the world if so many of the evil men out there actually saw women as PEOPLE, and would listen to reason. But that’s not how it is, or else we wouldn’t still be fighting against shit like human trafficking, sex slavery, and child brides. The humanity of women and children should be enough to get these men to change— but it’s not.

jewdy09 · 2020-01-26T02:51:39+00:00

I have tried this tactic before. I doubt it’s very effective at changing their view, but it is very effective for getting them to leave you alone.

ohmira · 2020-01-26T04:29:44+00:00

I just got my first PM from a troll lurking on here this evening. He was unremarkable. Didn’t even really try to hurt my feelings, just kind of showed up and demanded attention. So many sad, lonely dudes on this sub?!

Guys: take the good advice here and boss up. Do it for you. Hell, do it for a woman, just do it!!

MagnoliaMirage · 2020-01-26T03:28:07+00:00

Isn't that sad though that they have to use a hypothetical situation to understand basic human decency....

throwawayz187y · 2020-01-26T05:28:43+00:00

They probably would smile. They think they’re the epitome of perfection.

Maisiebr · 2020-01-26T09:08:33+00:00

Men who aren't aware of how awfully they treat women don't care.

the_skittle_mermaid · 2020-01-26T07:46:47+00:00

The don’t care about their daughters

I read a redpill field report from a man using his 4 year old daughter to prove awalt. He took her to a movie and she said she liked the villain instead of the nice guy cartoon.

Their daughters are females, they don’t give a shit.

LizzyCF · 2020-01-26T10:32:38+00:00

Asking them to imagine someone talking to their mothers the way they do also works.

Morgan6788 · 2020-01-27T01:03:46+00:00

I fucking hate the, "it's someones daughter" argument. We are HUMAN BEINGS deserving of basic respect.

If you have to have a daughter to love and respect women you are low value trash. Period. Some woman had to make that daughter for him. Was the mother not deserving of good treatment before she gave birth to his child?

Im sorry but this post is trash.

Title	Dear men lurking this sub...
Author	rizzo1717
Upvotes	896
Comments	23
Date	January 25, 2020 10:44 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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